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my mom and step-dad are alwasy fighting and they might get divoreced, and my mom told me the other night that she hates me and i should move..i have no other family to go live with cus my dad is a drunk and he doesnt give a shit about me..my boyfriend said i could live with him..hes 16 im 13 and where do u think i should go? i mean i have my friend dani (17 years old) to live with..and my friend jessi(12) if i have to move where do u think i should go?!?!?!?!?
thanks ~kristi~ (link)
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well, its totally up to you, but you should go someplace where you know youll be welcome, and youll be comfortable. make sure you make the right choice, but basically..follow you gut. YOU know whats gonna be best for you.
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didn't know what subject it would fit into - but i love ur advice it rock! keep up the good work! (link)
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lol..thanks..i try =D
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ok.. well i dont no wut to do. see its the summer so its realy hard to get together with my boyfriend but the other day im like, soo do u wanna go to the movies. n he didnt wanna go becuz hes already seen that movie or sutmhing. but i mean that isnt wut gets to me.. its just that he duz this all the time!!! n it makes me feel liek what the hell wouldnt he go just to see me? n then he never calls me anymore n whenver we do talk its nothing important. but we used to have the best relationship.. n now its like its falling apart cuz we never see eachother or talk. he told my friend yesterday that the reason he never calls me is cuz i never talk to him on the phone or sumthing but i ALWAYS talk n ergh he just always duz this... i mean he always makes me feel sad n unloved but then when we are together im realy happy. i no i shouldnt be with him if he hurts me emotionally but i love him so what else can i do? i think im also falling for another guy cuz hes always there to talk to me n hes realy sweet. agh im just soo confused n so lost.. any advice for me? (link)
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well, first off you should talk to your boyfriend and see whats going on. tell him exactly how you feel, and try to understand what he thinks about this. if you really get no reply from him, chanses are hes not into you anymore. i kno you love him, but if he hurts you hes not a good boyfriend. do what you wanna do, and what you think is right. as for that other guy, he seems sweet. he may be better for you..find out if he likes you, and of u dump your current boyfriend, maybe you can give this other nicer guy a chance. hope it works out.
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My boyfriend and I were going out for about 9 months, and i really did love him. Then we broke up, because i thought it was going to far.. and i didnt want to do all this stuff, we were broken up for about 4 months. Then we started going back out a week ago becuase i had feelings for him again, and now i dont know about our relationship.. im having doubts about it because we're going into HighSchool the same one and all but im afraid an older guy might like me, and he might be better for me... what should i do? --thanks (link)
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if you wanna stay with him, then stay with him. but if u feel your being held back and stuff, in case you may meet a better guy, then brake up with him. its totally up to you. just dont go against what you really wanna do. give it some thought, and talk to your boyfriend..then make a decision your particulary happy with.
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WELL I AM DATING THIS GUY HE IS THE SAME AGE AS ME AND EVERY BODY SAYS HE CAN GET ANY GIRL HE WANTS AND I THINK HES CHEATING ON ME I LOVE HIM BUT IM NOT GONNA DIE IF WE BREAK UP WHT DO I DO HE HASNT CALLED ME IN FOREVER ADVICE PLEASE (link)
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first u have to make sure if he really is cheating on you..if he is, then hes a jackass, and instead of him dumping you, YOU should dump his sorry ass. if he did something like that to you, hes not worth it. its alrite..youll move on and youll be happier.
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...i am 13 years old.. i dont know what to do any more this is the only resort i can turn to right about now for advice.. my dad has recently started hitting me and my brothers.. my brothers are older then me and one of my brothers has moved out , into his friends house because of this.. it seems like my dad takes it out on me the worst and the most often.. i have no clue what to do.. all my friends dont belive me because there the drugie type.. and my mom is working all the time and i havent seen her in like a week she works nights and she sleeps all day.. and it just sucks and i cant take it any more.. PLEASE help me.. (link)
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well, you have to tell your mom. any chanse u get, talk to her. make her listen to you, if she knows hes hitting you im sure shell talk to him and make him stop. if not, tell any other close family member who can help you. try to spend as much time away from home as possible, and out of your dads way. if u tell a trusted adult tho, he or she can probobly help you. untill then, do something u love..keep youself busy with anything, and maybe even help around the house. but if its getting really really serious, tell someone. hang on, you`ll get through.
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Hey im 12 years old and im pregnat.well everyone at school stares and people call me names like fag whore and slut.even one of my teaches called me a fag!even my best friend has turned he back on me.what can i do? (link)
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awwww. gosh im so sorry. some kids can be SOO shallow and creul. not everyone is used to the fact that someone that young can be pregnant, and it`ll take them a while too adjust. its not your fault some people are mean and not understanding at all. and if your best friend isnt there for you, then there not a good friend. talk to your parents, or someone u trust and u know wont criticize you. its ok, its hard, but hold on. youll get through. just know at least someone cares. =)
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Well the thing is Im 15 and I was going out with a 19 yr old guy. Hes the sweetest person ever and I know he would never hurt me. When he moved back to NY we broke up. It was the worst feeling ever knowing that we werent together. We still talk and he calls me every night. I really do love him and he tells me that he loves me. He told me that he was moving back to PA and that he wanted to get back to gether. He just turned 20 and im still 15 is it wrong that I have strong feelings for him even if he is over age? (link)
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no not really, its perfectly fine. my dad is 7 years older than my mom. you just have to make sure you trust him fully, but unless u guys plan on getting married or something, u have to be prepared to have your heart broken by him some day if he finds a new girl or if something happens and u wont be together. go ahead and keep on feeling how u feel but be cautious.
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Ok my friend and i always go to the pool and we have guy friends that are lifeguards and i like 1 of them and hes sixteen and im 13 i like him a lot and i think he likes me but, im not so sure. if he askes me out what should i do?! (link)
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well, if age difference doesnt matter to you, then if he asks you out, go for it.
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Hey im a 13 year old girl and i was in a chat room one day and met a guy who lives in california, but hes 17. Me and him have gotten closer and closer like the best of friends in 7 months and he tells me age doesnt matter and that one day we will meet up when i get out of high school. I wanna belive it all and i really like him. But recently in my area a guy who was pretending to be a girl but he really was a 34 year old man!! * hotlife garud babe* or w/e n he was talking to some guys blah blah blah the guys went to go meet up with him n he tried to molest them yea its weird and it scares me that if one day i do wanna end up meeting this guy that he might try to rape me or something. He just meens so much to me n i wanna meet him in person one day but im scared something bad will happen. plz help me i cant go to my friends ive tried to they just dont get it! (link)
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well, just to make sure hes not some 34 year old rapist call him. you guys could talk on the phone first. then if he sounds alrite, you can meet him if you want. just make sure u take your friends with you, and u meet in a safe crowded place. i hope that helps.
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Hey i dont have a question or anything but i just wanted to say from what i read it seems like u give awesome advice :) Ill be sure to come to you when i need advice (link)
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lol. thanks so much. i try. =D
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im a 12 year old gurl.. and i like this one boy named clay! however i met him a party and he is 16 years old! i talk to him online a lot and he likes me but he lives at least 45 minites away from me and i never really see him! i like this guy more than anything and i dun no wud to0 ddo.. I have my friends find out stuff online like if he likes me or yanno! and he says that the age difference sucks and that we dun cc each other.. i just wish he would give it a chance i mean we can hang everynow and then talk on the phone everynight but idk if it working the way it is with me with him! i mean im obsesed hes all i tlak about and im sick of wasteing my fuckn tyme! w.e PLEASE HELP ME! AND THIS BOY CARES WUD HIS FRIEND SAYS THEY THINK IM OLDER BUT IM STILL ONLY 12~ HELP HELP (link)
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well, if he doesnt wanna make it work out beetween you two, theres nothing you can do. and he is sort of right, the age differnce can get in the way of alot of stuff. its alrite, youll meet a new guy you like, and he`ll like you. you`ll get over this dude. but u can continue talking online. yet if u feel your wasting your time, just stop talking to him! try to get over him, and just do anything else. something you love. if u really wanna forget about him, you will.
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I`m 15 and my ex-boyfriend is 16. We were together for 6 months before he broke up with me, and I`ve never really thought that you could love someone at 15, but he proved me wrong. We were together pretty much all the times, and we did some things that I now regret. (we didn`t go all the way though) Anyways, he dumped me in February, and now it's July, and I still miss him a lot. I`ve told myself that I`m over him like 50 times, but it`s never worked. Am I pathetic?? Or am I supposed to still love him, even though now he says that he never loved me. I`ve been with other guys since, but they haven`t been enough to take his place, and I broke it off. I`m so confused. I don`t wanna still love him, but I do. What am I suposed to do to make these feelings go away?? (link)
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well, it seems like u really did love him, and im sorry hes such a jerk for leaving u heartbroken. its ok, and i know how u feel. its gonna take while to get over it if the realationship was serious. i know it hurts, and u may still love him but u will move on. try to surround yourself around positive ppl, and do something u love to get your mind off him. breaking up is painful and not easy, and u just have to sort of wait to make your feelings go away, but ull eventually move on.
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Well im 12 years old and my friend is 11,and shes thinkning about having sex.i dont even kno if her mom has even talked to her about it,and i dont kno if shes gonna use protection,but she gets mad really easly,and is really violent,so im kinda scared to talk to her.im the only one of her friends that kno,and all my other friend will tell.can you help me!? (link)
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well. she is defenitley too young to have sex..but you cant exatly control her. if youve tried your hardest to talk to her and its just not working..tell someone else if your really worried. if u cant tell her parents, tell YOUR parents and they can talk to her parents. but keep in mind that even if her parents do talk to her, she can still go out and do it. just let her know your worried, but also let her know your there for her. help her make the right decision in some way, and hopefully she will.
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Well, i am 13 years old. And, my boyfriend is 16. Don't get me wrong, he's a good guy and all, always considerate, and decent. But, we're going into seperate schools, and i know it is going to be a lot of hard work brought into it. And i am not sure if we're ready for it.. and i'd rather just break up now, then be hurting in the end, but i am not sure.. i like him so much it's a 6 month relationship, and i know i dont love him, but i want to try too. But, i just don't know what to do.. can you try to help me? - Thank you so much. (link)
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if u talked to him, and u both know u guys arent ready for it and cant handle a realationship when yer in different schools, then it would be best to break up now. yes itll hurt, but youll get through. but if u guys feel u can handle all the work and can manage to stay together go for it. do wat u wanna do, go with yer gut feeling. u guys can always stay in touch. but u cant MAKE yourself love him. either u do or u dont. talk to him, and eventually decide wat to do.
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Okay i have a boyfriend and weve been goin out for like 9 months, and we are both goin into highschool soon but different ones. Im really scared that we might find someone new or im jealous that hell just like other girls(think there hot pretty etc.)And i dunno what to feel or think Help please! (link)
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aww..well, unless you guys think yer gonna stay in touch and can handle going out while in different schools, you can stay together. but chanses are, you guys will meet new ppl and u may even drift apart. you really should talk to him about wats gonna happen. find out how he feels and decide where to go from there. and if it doesnt work out, u guys could always stay friends. but just communicate with him about it. you`ll get through.
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i like this guy... and hes 16.. im only 13.. and well we just met and i think i like him alot.... and he told me he liked me too.. he also told my friend that he wants to go out w/ me .. i want to get to know him first ..... do you think if we get to know each other and we do still both like each other it would be really bad for us to go out ? Because of our 3 year age diffrence? ..... help.. please =) (link)
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no not really. you guys going out would be fine. you can try it. get to know one another and make sure ya trust him, then go out if you wanna.
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This is a really long story but i desperatly need someones help and i cant tell any of my friends cuz all of them cant keep a secret. ok me and my boyfriend, andrew, have been dating 4 about 1 year & 4 months now and i've cheated on him 3 times. 1 time was with his BEST FRIEND. the 2 other times was in georgia (i live in Tennesse). my 2 cousins that im really close 2 live in GA and i went down there 4 one week and i ended up screwing some guy in there neighborhood, Josh. and then the next week i went up to GA i ended up getting fingerd by another guy in the neighborhood, chris. i know wut ur thinking: "oh this girls a slut who does shit with everyone" well im honestly not! i cant help it...its just like 1 thing leads another and i begin thinking its no big deal so i should just do it....but then later on i feel extremely guilty...should i tell my boyfriend about the times i've cheated on him or just keep it a secret? b/c i feel like i will bust and tell him the truth sooner or later just 2 get it off my chest, even though hes cheated on me once and fucked my best friend. i dont no wut to do. (link)
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wow. well, i think since you keep on doing this, and you keep feeling guilty afterwards, obviously u cant control it. the best thing would to probobly spill your guts to your bf. yes, it may ruin your realationship, but if he screwed around too maybe u guys will still be together. and dont feel way too guilty! since he cheated on u too. u guys should have a long talk, and decide wat to do. whether to stay togther and make it work, or end it. its completley in your guys's hands. good luck
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well, i was going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, not straight but the brakes ups weren't ever more than like 2 weeks. i'm 13 and he's 13, too. but anyways, it's summer and i went to a pool party with all kids ( boys and some of my best friends that are girls ) and i kissed 2 of them on the cheek ( truth or dare ). MY BEST FRIEND TOLD HIM! i got over the fact, so i'm not mad at her... but then a couple days later, we both love eachother still and we " see " eachother cause it's summer and he doesn't want a girlfriend. it's basically like we're going out and i'm positive he's not seeing anyone else. i really do love him and i'm very sorry. it's sort of aquard but whatever. i'm glad we're doing this, but on the other hand -- he said he'd go out with me before school starts. i want to make sure he's serious and he's not just using me for the summer. how do i make sure? (link)
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well, you can either ask around..you know, ask him friends or ask your friends to talk to him. basically you cant really do anything except trust him. or just talk to him about it. hope that helps.
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i am a 14 year old girl and for over a year, i realli liked this guy even though i knew he didnt like me and we could never be together because of an age difference. when summer started i didnt see him or talk 2 him for over a month and then he calls me and wants to hang out. when i see him, he confesses that he had always liked me and didnt want to tell me because i am younger. when i didnt se him for a while, i got almost completely over him and this is so sudden. i dont know what to tell him or what to do so HELP!! plz!! (link)
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well..if your over him, and your not into him at all, just tell him yer not intrested cuz of age difference or something. but if you still like him a little you could take up his offer and hang out with him. you guys could be friends, but its completley up to you.
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