This is a really long story but i desperatly need someones help and i cant tell any of my friends cuz all of them cant keep a secret. ok me and my boyfriend, andrew, have been dating 4 about 1 year & 4 months now and i've cheated on him 3 times. 1 time was with his BEST FRIEND. the 2 other times was in georgia (i live in Tennesse). my 2 cousins that im really close 2 live in GA and i went down there 4 one week and i ended up screwing some guy in there neighborhood, Josh. and then the next week i went up to GA i ended up getting fingerd by another guy in the neighborhood, chris. i know wut ur thinking: "oh this girls a slut who does shit with everyone" well im honestly not! i cant help it...its just like 1 thing leads another and i begin thinking its no big deal so i should just do it....but then later on i feel extremely guilty...should i tell my boyfriend about the times i've cheated on him or just keep it a secret? b/c i feel like i will bust and tell him the truth sooner or later just 2 get it off my chest, even though hes cheated on me once and fucked my best friend. i dont no wut to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iNn0cEnCe answered Thursday July 22 2004, 3:21 am: wow. well, i think since you keep on doing this, and you keep feeling guilty afterwards, obviously u cant control it. the best thing would to probobly spill your guts to your bf. yes, it may ruin your realationship, but if he screwed around too maybe u guys will still be together. and dont feel way too guilty! since he cheated on u too. u guys should have a long talk, and decide wat to do. whether to stay togther and make it work, or end it. its completley in your guys's hands. good luck [ iNn0cEnCe's advice column | Ask iNn0cEnCe A Question ]
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