hey this is jusz a place to ask me ?'sz bout ne thyng u want to..ill do my best to try n help u much love
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.. Alright.. Im NOT going out with this kid but we have been talking and getting really close and i like offered to give him head and we're gunna like do stuff and if you knew me you would know i was just playing around.. and then we got serious.. He looks me in the eye and tells me he loves me im not actaully 100% sure if he means it but i want to because i am like so inlove with him.. He kind of is an asshole to me but he says he only does it for jokes and we will spend nights online or on the phone until like 5:00 in the morning and its hard to hang up with eachother.. But if he loves me why isn't he going out with me .. see the problem is i had him once before.. He really hurt me so bad i tried to f*cking cut myself up (stupid thing to do over a guy) I just feel like he has changed and i feel a connection with us .. and when i see him in person he tells me im beautiful he really respects me but.. I don't want to give him head for no reason i mean were not even going out and seeing as im 16 its not the biggest deal ever but it is pretty big.. for me because i am really like non-slutty is that considered slutty to give a blow job and not be going out with someone?.I wouldn't want to be thought of as a slut to please the guy i like no way! ..So.. Sorry this is so Long but.. My mayjor question is after reading all of this.. Do you think we should "do stuff" With eachother .. thanks so much in advance!! =)!
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weLL if u wanna do stuff with him..do it jusz bcuz of tha physical connecton u guys have dont do it bcuz u believe he loves u...but i have a lot of experience with guys and in reality their diccs n they will say ne thyng to get their "word" means nothing cuz guys thynk with sum...so its your choice if u wanna give him head but make sure u actually WANT to do it..n dont let him pressure u 2 mess around but make sure u get sumthing in return from him...but seriously girl, dont take wut he says too serious cuz if and when thyngs cum to an end with u guys....u will b soo much more hurt than he will...and it will continue to affect u..when more than likely he would b over it quicc...but jus do wutever feels ryte to u..but i dont understand if he loves u n he is so sweet to u..why doesnt he want u to b his girl? cuz it sounds pretty serious n it seems like if he really feels that stroungly about u he would want u guys to b togehter u kno?..but hope i helped n post bacc if u want much love
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oOk..my boyfriend always talks about how it'd be cool if i stuck my hands down his pants..i think he wants me to "help him out" and give him a hand job but i don't know what to do to get him to cum or anything or what to do AT ALL..all of my friends are real good girls and i have no one to turn to, i think it's awesome that you will help girls out there who are confused ((like me)) thanks a ton! --xoxo (link)
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lol ur welcum hunny...but nah hand jobs arent really that difficult, all u do it grab his dicc semi tightly like in tha middle of it n move tha skin bacc in forth ya kno (thynk of how it is when guys have sex...like in n out ya kno) n do it in a kinda rhythm but dont hold it too tyght...n ask him wut he wants u to do like massage his balls n stuff haha...but yeahh hope i helped n if u have ne more ?'sz hit me up..k much love
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ok me and my bf were in the pool and i just sat on him and he got a boner and i was wearin my bathing suit so it went like an inch into me is that concidered sex?or can i get pregnant? thanks (link)
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lol no its not considered sex unless his dicc goes like INSIDE you ya kno with out clothes...n unless he "cummed" n it went thru ur bathin suit ur not pregnant..much love
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how do u kno wen ur having an orgasim?? is there something specific like wen a guy knos...or does it just feel really good?? :/ (link)
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its kinda like describing how a sneeze feels...lol excpet it feels really good like so good u feel like ur gonna explode hahah...so yeahh u`ll kno..much love
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Hey.. i was wondering if you could help. well im 16 and me and my bf have been going out for about 5 months now. but every time im with him we get a little more and more sexualy feely kinda and i have this feeling next time im with him he might try to maybe finger me or i might do some stuff to him. but well ive never done those before and im kinda scared. im not shaved down there but im goin to try it cause i really like him and i want to kinda take it to the next level. i was just wondering if u could help cause im kinda nervous and im not sure what to expect? do u think u could help with some things to do also?? thx 4 everything!! (link)
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well i thynk u should shave cuz guys liike it so yeahh...but dont trip about it...juss like do tha minor stuff liek fingering n hand jobs for now..but i dont kno wut ur askin specifically...so if i didnt help post bacc much love
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Me and my boyfriend have had sex a few times, he seems to enjoy it but I'm bored of doing the same thing over and over. Do you have any good sex positions to spice things up a bit. I've tried using different settings for our 'love making' but the most adventurous place I got was the toilet cubicle! So..Also any places?
Love your advice by the way!
Emma xx 16 xx (link)
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haha...um well theres lots of positions guys like doggy style or girl on top...but u can "spice up" regular juss him on top by liftin ur legs up over his shoulders..lol n about places...there arent that many that are easy to do..besides like cars..i have dun it at tha park lol..but mostly juss thynk about it when ur sumwhere with him and checc everythyng out to see if u could do it without ppL seein u guys lol cuz it being spontaneous makes it even more fun n excitin..lol hope i helped much love
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People think i have had sex be 4.....do u think that guys would realize when i have sex in the future or i got fingered or whatever?
thanks
Ashlie (link)
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its kinda hard to tell if u have or havent had sex...but if u kno wut ur doiin then they would probably thynk u have
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got any Nsty .. Dirty wasy to have seX??! ?!
i need help b4 tongiht ..lickS.. i mean laughS (link)
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hahaha...uuh girl on top doggy style...sittin on his lap backwards..lol idk
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Recently i hav had sex wiv 3 different lads n without a condom, all of them hav cummed up me cos they cum to quick cos when i hav sex i get straight to the point LOL ... anywayz, i went for the morning after pill but the clinic was shut, now its too late cos u can only hav it 3 days after sex !
Im definately pregnant because how can i not be?
But none of these lads will accept it if i was to keep a baby so im needin to get rid off it ... i dunno what to do if i get an abortion then i may still be pregnant afta that!
I dunno ... sorry its long im juz confused (link)
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dang...well thats krayzie i dont really kno wut to tell u bcuz theres no way to tell whoesz baby it is..but i thynk u styll should take an at home pregnancy test just to verify that u really are...and then either tell an adult u trust or an older friend that can help u to discuss ur decisions...this isnt sumthyn u should go thru alone n u should make an appointment at a clinic to get checked up as soon as possible for stds and hiv...bcuz havin unprotected sex puts u at so many risks...good luck n much love
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what are some things u can do to make dry sex better? i know its a simple concept but i mean theres gotta be something u can do to spice it up a bit right? (link)
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well it kinda makes it better if u jusz kiss n like liicc on his neck or juss kiss or lightly succ..lol hope i helped..much love
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i dont know how to makeout!! help me plz!! :-/ (link)
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you juss kiss him..like sum with tongue n juss open mouth kissing it isnt hard..u juss kinda do wut cums naturally...n u can kinda lightly bite his bottom lip..guys like it..haha n u can kiss his neck too..much love
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after i had my first time. i didnt bleed or it didnt really hurt or nothin..but like 2 days after my stomach hurt n i had to shit alot (gross i kno) did this happen to u? lol i kno it sounds gross but i need help!! (link)
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hm nah it didnt happen to me but u probably were juss sicc cuz his dicc went all deep in u n could have upset ur stomach or sumthyng maybe..sorry i couldnt help more..much love
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im 15 right now..what do u think is a good age to have sex?? cuz im not sure if i want to yet (link)
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i dont thynk there is any real "good" age to have sex..i thynk if u feel u are ready and u have a boyfriend or sumthyng u are comfortable with and want to take it to that level...then it is a choice that is up to u..but it is sumthyn to b shared with 2 ppL..but if u arent sure if u want to yet than thats kind of a sign that u should maybe wait a little bit..there shouldnt be a "rush" to go n have sex.. and dont juss do it bcuz it seems like everywun else is..or to make sum guy happy..cuz in tha end it will b a disappointment...and u wont even enjoy it at all...hope i helped much love*
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ok to make a long story short i had sex use a condom both times (we did it twice) i was freakin out before that i was pregnet even tho i used a condom.. my periods suppost to be commin soon and im getting all the syptoms i usally do..so im ok right? (link)
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yeahh ur ok..lol i answered it down there
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hey well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for about a month and a week .. and i really like him * but hes 14 he looks hella good i mean alot of girls wanna get the hook up wit him .. but hes a virgin..at first b4 me and him started goin out i didnt think i was gonna really like him but now hes all i think about and u see ..im not a virgin and he is but im like not really sure how to tell if he wants to have sex yet .. but ive had it like 6 or 7 times .. and i really need to get some soon,.. how do i make him hard or get in the right mood to actaully wanna have sex?? please someone!??! (link)
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haha...well i thynk u should ask him if hes ready to actually do that..if u guys have already messed around sexually then i dont thynk he would have ne problem with doing that..but if he wants to wait u should respect his decision. but b up front about it n b like yeahh i kinda wanna take thyngs a lil further n see how he reacts to it..lol good luck n much love*
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ok... so i had sex for the first time awhile ago.. and we did it twice.. he used condoms both times and before i was freakin out cuz i thought i was pregnet .. i really dont think i am tho. my periodscomming real soon and im gettin all the symptoms i usally get when it comes.. so im ok right? (link)
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thats pretty normal a lot of girls trip about being pregnant but im pretty sure that if u used condoms both tymes and u arent late on ur period u are fyne..lol theres nuthyn to sorry about..much love
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im posting back about goin on the pill and im 14 but i do have a bf and weve been together for over 5 months but i dont know how my mom will react to that...
but im from new york and there is a planned parenthood here but its like a half hour from here and theres rilly no way i could get there w/ out her knowing bc its not like i can drive you kno (link)
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oh uh huh..well if there is really no way to get to planned parenthood then i thynk u should just tell your mom...bcuz it may seem like a big deal to her n she may b mad about it now...but i know that if u were to tell her u were pregnant it would b MUCH more of a disappointment..i thynk u should say that u do have a boyfriend and even tho sex may not b in the near future u want to b prepared...and see how so reacts to that..much love n good luck..post bacc if u have ne other ?'sz
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me n my bf were laying on eachother w/ are pants and underwear off and he was like rubbing on me but i didnt wanna have sex bc i dont wanan get pregnat...(im a virgin) and after i was like wet from his cum and i was wonderin is it possible that im pregnat bc it didnt go in me but sumone told me that i do have a chance and i dont get how i could be pregant if im a virgin ya know? plz help and thanks (link)
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aww thanx hunni...but um there is a very small chance that his sperm could have gotten into u..b cuz it has to go all tha way up until it reaches one of ur eggs for u to be pregnant...n the biggest chance of u gettin pregnant is if he went up inside of u bcuz it wouldnt have to travel far..so i thynk u are ok. but if u skip periods or sumthyng like that then i would go n take an at home pregnancy test just in case..but maybe it would b a good idea to look into the pill or sum other form of birth control..post bacc if u need ne other help..much love
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i dont wanna have sex until i go on the pill and im thinking about having sex...but im to skared to ask my mom about it...shes just not the understanding type you know wat i mean? im so skared to ask her please help me:-( (link)
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well i juss wanna say that i give u credit for wanting to make sure u are using sum form of birth control b4 u actually start having sex...but u should also use a condom to prevent getting sTd's...but from x perience i can say that if u are straight up with ur mom and tell her that u are thynking of having sex and u want to b prepared. she will most likely understand. but i thynk ur age and relationship status is also sumthyng to consider...so if u dont have a boyfriend and u are kinda young i wouldnt tell her...but u yourself can get birth control from a clinic without ur parents knowing..but it depends on wut state u live in..so if u wanna post bacc where ur from i could give u more info..much love
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