.. Alright.. Im NOT going out with this kid but we have been talking and getting really close and i like offered to give him head and we're gunna like do stuff and if you knew me you would know i was just playing around.. and then we got serious.. He looks me in the eye and tells me he loves me im not actaully 100% sure if he means it but i want to because i am like so inlove with him.. He kind of is an asshole to me but he says he only does it for jokes and we will spend nights online or on the phone until like 5:00 in the morning and its hard to hang up with eachother.. But if he loves me why isn't he going out with me .. see the problem is i had him once before.. He really hurt me so bad i tried to f*cking cut myself up (stupid thing to do over a guy) I just feel like he has changed and i feel a connection with us .. and when i see him in person he tells me im beautiful he really respects me but.. I don't want to give him head for no reason i mean were not even going out and seeing as im 16 its not the biggest deal ever but it is pretty big.. for me because i am really like non-slutty is that considered slutty to give a blow job and not be going out with someone?.I wouldn't want to be thought of as a slut to please the guy i like no way! ..So.. Sorry this is so Long but.. My mayjor question is after reading all of this.. Do you think we should "do stuff" With eachother .. thanks so much in advance!! =)!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xhPnOtiqxBaByGirL answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 10:53 pm: weLL if u wanna do stuff with him..do it jusz bcuz of tha physical connecton u guys have dont do it bcuz u believe he loves u...but i have a lot of experience with guys and in reality their diccs n they will say ne thyng to get their "word" means nothing cuz guys thynk with sum...so its your choice if u wanna give him head but make sure u actually WANT to do it..n dont let him pressure u 2 mess around but make sure u get sumthing in return from him...but seriously girl, dont take wut he says too serious cuz if and when thyngs cum to an end with u guys....u will b soo much more hurt than he will...and it will continue to affect u..when more than likely he would b over it quicc...but jus do wutever feels ryte to u..but i dont understand if he loves u n he is so sweet to u..why doesnt he want u to b his girl? cuz it sounds pretty serious n it seems like if he really feels that stroungly about u he would want u guys to b togehter u kno?..but hope i helped n post bacc if u want much love [ xhPnOtiqxBaByGirL's advice column | Ask xhPnOtiqxBaByGirL A Question ]
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