about

Hey!My name is ashley.I'm 17 and I live in Michigan!My friends always come to me for adive and i LOVE giving it.Feel free to ask me anything, i'm open minded on most issues, so I won't judge you!If you ever need more help, dont hesitate to im me!Also,rate my advice so i know how im doing and how i could improve.and if u want add me on myspace myspace.com/x0xfuturemrsgottix0x.thanks!







[A]ge~16
[B]est Friends= Kayla,vera,toni,angie,amy,crystal
[C]olors~ Pink
[D]ream boy~ JOHN GOTTI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mMmMmMm
[E]yes~ Green
[F]avorite food~ My grandma's italian cooking
[G]reatest thing~ Friends and Family
[H]obbies~ Hangin out with friends, shoppin,parties, and having fun!
[I]'m alwayz~ Smiling and having a good time
[J]ob~ Hopefully NEVER!
[K]razii~ Sometimes =)
[L]ocation~ Harrison Township,Michigan
[M]ovie~ Scarface,a bronx tale,heat
[N]ame~ Ashley
[O]bession~ Music, boys, and clothes
[P]arty?~ Love to!
[Q]uote~ "Chi troppo vuole nulla stringe"-One that wants too much holds on to nothing.
[R]ace~ Italian and Swedish
[S]creen Name~ sp0iled shedevil
[T]alent~ I just have so many ;)
[U] suck?
[V]ery best thing about me~ im fun!
[W]orst thing about me~ I can get a lil wild
[X]treme sports~ Love em!
[Y]awns?
[Z]odiac~ Cancer
















advice

ok.. i have some problems with the way i look. i have chubby cheeks and a small mouth so like u can barely tell when i smile.. my skin texture is terrible..ive tried everything but i just have really low confidence and self esteem and i always feel like everyone looks better than me.

If you don't want chubby cheeks lose weight,and to get a bigger mouth try lipliner and gloss that will enhance your lips.but in order to look better,you have to feel better about yourself.and in the end you could be the most gorgeous girl in the world,but if you don't see yourself that way it doesn't matter.


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ok well everytime i shave my lower part afterwards it always itches and gets red. is this normal and what do i do so it doesn't do that anymore???

Those r ingrown hairs.Try waxing.


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my dad discriminates people and judges them because of the way they sing or how they look and I try to tell him but he wont listen and its making me mad. im sitting here listening to him laugh at steven tyler from aerosmith. what do i do?

Ignore it.It's his oppinions,and you can't control what your dad does.If he doesn't like steven tyler,so be it.


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i have a small problem. i like sex. i like it alot. i almost feel i need it like air. i know its kinda like a drug, it can be addictive, but i dont care. im a male slut, bigtime. is there a sexaholics annonmous? i mean, i know love making is best...you know, when your dating or in love with someone, but it's like i wanna screw everything in sight! help!!

There's nothing wrong with wanting sex.Most people like sex,whether they want to admit to it or not. But if you don't want to have sex control your life anymore,there are hotlines and stuff that u can call so u have someone to talk to,or you can go to a sexaholic group.Good luck=)


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I really want to change my religion, I am a Roman Catholic I just don't believe in their thoughs and such. I am not sure what I want to be. Does any oen have any past experience? Is it like a legal thing if you want to change religions; like you have to get papers? Any help or comments or info about other religions would be greatly appreiciated!

If you're under 18 you have to have your parents permission to change your relgion.I'm a Roman Catholic also,and one time I told my parents I didn't want to be Roman Catholic anymore and they tripped!but i got over it and i'm proud to be my religion now.Just talk to ur parents.:-)


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13/m

hi,


i've taken the whole am-i-fat testing and stuff from different websites, and they all say the same thing, that i don't weight enough. i don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. my doctor i guess knows about this, but hasn't really told me to do anything. so... what can i do? i eat until i'm full, and thats it. please don't say "eat more!". i'll rate you if you give extremely good advice, give extremely funny advice, or give extremely bad advice.

yours,

the thin one

I'm sure nothing wrong with you.Some people are just born really thin, and they don't gain weight.


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Ok i am really attcracted to this one girl it's just plane crazy. But she already has a bf on her hockey team that goes to a different school. Wat should i do???? i rate 5

Tell her or SHOW her how you feel.Compliment her, and give her a sexy smile everytime she looks your way:-)Once you get to know her,if she likes you she might break up with her bf for u.


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What exactly does Prozac do for you?

If makes you happy:-)


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My boyfriend & I have been trying to have a baby for the past 4 months, but I can not get pregnant! We already know his sperm is good because he has 2 kids from a previous relationship. Could having a disease cause someone not to get pregnant? What kind of disease? How do you know if you are in-fertile? Why would I be in-fertile? WHY CAN'T I GET PREGNANT!?!? :0(

Go see a pregnancy specialist to see what the problem is.


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Is there a medication that can be taken for worrying and feeling anxious?

Yeah I think it's called prozac, but i'm not sure.

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I have problems. I always do. The problem is that i try to make people feel sorry for me so that they'd go on my side and so that they wont be mean to me anymre. Is this right to do? My "friend" saw throught that and said that "Your pathetic man, you really are". Am i really?

I don't think you should try to make people feel sorry for you.All that is doing is degrading yourself.Sticking up for yourself will make people respect you more.

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How do you crack your back? Or neck?

You twist your back until you hear the crack, and move your head around.it's easy :-D


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What am I supposed to do with my pubic hair? 14/f, and should I shave or wax or nothing? I don't want it to itch, but be comfortable.

Wax it


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i wanna get rid of myy pubic hair becuase its reallyyy wickid grosss. i dont wanna shave it i dont like razors and stufff sooo is there a way to get rid of it using nair an stuff? thxx
p.s. 14/f

Wax it or use nair.


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for my school i have to like read lots of books. Does anyone know of any teen books that are good, but not to to long?

R.L. Stine's "fear street books" but they are hard to find now.The "gossip girl" books are really good too.

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what are some really good stores to find name brand things that arent to expensive??

Kohls,jc penny,sears,ect.


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I have a problem finding jeans that fit me. I am 5'3", and 85 lbs. I have tried many stores, but most of them don't even have any size 0's that fit me. I have to wear juniors b/c my legs are long, but most jeans are too baggy. The only place that I have occasional luck is Kohl's, but most of the time they don't even fit me. Does anyone know a good store for people with skinny, long legs? Or could I get custom made jeans cheaply (i'm guessing not). Please help me, I rate 5's!!!

Well you're 5'3 that isn't considered tall in most stores.Stores like abercrombie and fitch and hollister have "tall sizes" but they are for people 5'7-5'11.you can get a 0 or 00 in short or regular at american eagle or something.

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hello!! okay in my school there is this girl who thinks she is al that because her dad is "in the mafia" she has to have been like "my dads so busy cuz hes in the mob" or "im a mafia princess becuz my daddy is in the mafia". so the other day she sid "my mom was showing me this picture and she was pointing to all these guys and she was like 'hes in the mafia, and him, and him, and him too....' and then i asked who they were and my moms like "oh theyre your uncles" so i was thinking SHUTUP! in my head but instead i just said "right..the mafia" and she gave me this look like "omg" and like a really snotty look!! but i mean she ALWAYS talks about her dad being in the mafia! its so annoying she has to have said it like 20 times already im NOT kidding, i sit right behind her. I live in chicago illinios, preferably oak lawn, are there really mafia?? what should i say to her? what if she gets her dad and her dads mob to kill me or my famlily? thats why im scared to tell her 'honey, keep dreaming' or something but im getting really mad and i want her to shutup what shouldi say?! thanks for anyone who answers!

This girl needs to seriously watch what she says.Being in the mafia is a serious thing,her dad is obviously not in the mafia because it's a secret thing that you don't go running around telling people about it.I'm Italian,so i would never go around saying i know stuff about the mafia I know bettter lol.Just ignore her,she's probably tired with her own life,and wants to live in an imaginary one.



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See, last night I put in my tampon at about 6:00. I wore it all night long and accidentally fell asleep with it in and wore it until 9:00 this morning. My stomach hurts a little but maybe that's because i got a little drunk last night? I dont know though, I'm scared because i've read so many things about Toxic Shock Syndrome. So what should i do? Thanks!! I rate!

Go see a doctor.TSS is very serious so you need to get it checked out in time.And from now on,never wear a tampon for more than 8 hours!no matter what!


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I dont get good grades at all! I suk at skool! No kiddin bout it! Does n e one no good study habit's?

Get a study buddy!Or get a tutur to help you out.

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