i have a small problem. i like sex. i like it alot. i almost feel i need it like air. i know its kinda like a drug, it can be addictive, but i dont care. im a male slut, bigtime. is there a sexaholics annonmous? i mean, i know love making is best...you know, when your dating or in love with someone, but it's like i wanna screw everything in sight! help!!
Additional info, added Tuesday February 15 2005, 12:07 am: well, not everything..but you get the point. I dont like those thoughts overwhelming my life and my mind. this is actually a serious question.
as for other info, i actually take my time. i can control when i get off 100 percent. and no i am not a rapist or a bad person, nor am i a quick draw type..(one minute man) i am just someone seeking peace of mind, and not sex sex sex. oh, im 27 and formerly married to someone just like me.. Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Advice-Babe answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 3:16 am: I am a female slut and have the same exact problem but if you email me your dirty sex thought whenever you have them I will send you back dirty responses letting out alll of that sex thoughts!!!
My email is: mall-shopper@myway.com
and you can feel free to email me anytime you want!!!
Sp0iLeD_SheDeViL answered Monday February 14 2005, 7:40 pm: There's nothing wrong with wanting sex.Most people like sex,whether they want to admit to it or not. But if you don't want to have sex control your life anymore,there are hotlines and stuff that u can call so u have someone to talk to,or you can go to a sexaholic group.Good luck=)
xxsexyinpinkxx answered Monday February 14 2005, 7:20 pm: hmmmm it would help if i new how old you are. but i will try anyways. its normal for guys to think about sex. i have a lot of guy friends that tell me that an average guy thinks about sex every 6 seconds thats kind of creepy. i'm sure you will grow out of it. just not try and have a serious relationship right now. [ xxsexyinpinkxx's advice column | Ask xxsexyinpinkxx A Question ]
heavybuhbuh answered Monday February 14 2005, 3:41 pm: Does it get in the way of your responsibilities in life? Thinking about sex all the time is one thing, acting out on your urges in yet another thing, but choosing sex over your real responsibilities is a problem. Sex is pleasurable, and it can easily cure whatever baggage you may carry. But, the attainment of sex should never be a band-aid to your low self esteem. If this is you, you should step back a little, look into a mirror, and see what you really gain in being a male slut. Get help if you feel it would help. There are 12 step programs for sex addicts. A friend of mine in New York goes to one, and he now has a very healthy sexlife, even with some of the other addicts in his group. Personally, I believe an active sex life is wonderful, as long as it is performed for the right reasons. Churches across America are filled with former male sluts, gay and straight, that each had at some time a sudden epiphany that they were having sex for all the wrong reasons. Make sure this is not you, continue on with your healthy sex life, make sure your bills are still paid, and mind the laws in your area. [ heavybuhbuh's advice column | Ask heavybuhbuh A Question ]
specialk answered Monday February 14 2005, 2:40 pm: You're like every other guy on this planet. Just find yourself a hot nympho and go to town baby. Rock it.
Melanie4981 answered Monday February 14 2005, 8:43 am: If you were female then i would say that you sounded pretty much like a Nymphomaniac (
noun: a woman with abnormal sexual desires
adj: (used of women) affected with excessive sexual desire) Strangely there is no defined male equivalent of this word - if there were however it sounds like you would be it!!!
There is nothing wrong with having a masive sex drive at all, and apparently men think of sex at least once every 3 minutes, so you're not alone!!!
As long as you make sure you always take precautions and the other person is as up for it as you are.
Just make sure you don't emotionally hurt anyone and (i know I've said it already!!!) USE CONDOMS!
Otherwise you won't be able to have sex at all cos you'll get some nasty disease and your dick wil go crusty and fall off!!
CuTeBlOnDeXo answered Monday February 14 2005, 1:01 am: ummmmm, well alot of men are like this, I am a christian and i belive in absinence but just try to find your soul mate and marry her, after having sex with a girl get schecked for stds cause you have casual sex and you dont wanna give other girls stds. Always wear a condom and make sure the girl your having sex with is on birth control and that she will take the morning after pill the next day. Hope I Helped. [ CuTeBlOnDeXo's advice column | Ask CuTeBlOnDeXo A Question ]
K3587 answered Sunday February 13 2005, 11:14 pm: Holy shit, you're the exact same as every other testosterone filled male on the planet! Whatever shall we do!?
Seriously, you're not any different than anyone else. Just control your urges the best you can. No one wants to date a sex freak. (Well, ok, MOST don't want to.) And just keep in mind the consequences it can bring. Hope you like children and strange purple bumps on your crotch.
DrummeR4LifE answered Sunday February 13 2005, 11:12 pm: ok i dono how old you are but i think thats just what comes along with a guy... um, one way to get ride of the urge is to cut off ur balls... (not trying to be rude or anything) or try really REALLY hard to keep yourself from doing it, like think of other things besides sex...
h.i.h. [ DrummeR4LifE's advice column | Ask DrummeR4LifE A Question ]
frootytooty answered Sunday February 13 2005, 11:11 pm: Ok hun! Someday soon your going to get or already have a desiese. You can die frum that desiese! And it may feel good but hun you should spend your time w/ sum one you love. Some day your really going to hurt urself!
Goodl luck!
~Maddy~ [ frootytooty's advice column | Ask frootytooty A Question ]
SakuraSong answered Sunday February 13 2005, 11:03 pm: Heehee, i noe wat you feel. I like somthing too like that. I bet you go all fast too right? Dont do that. Take your time to enjoy it slowly, take a few hours, and you wont need it that much anymore. People who needs sex alot usually needs it because, althought you have it alot, you dont enjoy it enought, you just go bam, and it's finished. oh, and if you're getting bored with regular sex, then try some kinky ideas, like tying a hankercheif to your partner's eyes. It's really fun if you take it slow ^^ [ SakuraSong's advice column | Ask SakuraSong A Question ]
hiddenmeaning answered Sunday February 13 2005, 11:02 pm: ok... you just have a high sex drive. Try to fuel your need to have sex in other ways. It's not uncommon to crave sex. But it is best to find ways to control it, i mean we dont want you to become one of those crazed rapests!... add on here.. .i didnt say you were one... i just said that there is not a really good proven way to control this drive but to try to feed it into other areas. [ hiddenmeaning's advice column | Ask hiddenmeaning A Question ]
angieroonie answered Sunday February 13 2005, 11:01 pm: you need to have sex.... that is bad! Like bad sex. so then whenever u think of sex you think of that bad time and wont wanna do it as much. you'll think of that gross person and it will turn you off. but ths may be permanent!!
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