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ok... i met this guy [we'll call him john] about a month ago, give or take. well we kissed and everything and he liked me and i liked him. but his ex came into the picture and hedecided tobe with her. he was mean to me becuz if he showed how he really felt, it would make him more confused. long story short, they broke up and me n him ended up together and thats how i found out y hewas so mean bc he todl me. ok well we broke up bc she came into the picture again. and now hes bein mean again. idk if he still lvoes me or not. and i dont kno if i should just give up n move on or stay around. ive tried gettin ova him but i see him in school everyday and its hard [him n his gf dont see eachother in school bc they live in different STATES] HELP PLEASE !!!!!
15.f.mi (link)
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It doesn't seem like if he ever loved u.I don't even think love is the proper word because if you love someone you would never do anything to hurt the person's feelings.But what i think you should do is move on to take his crap find someone else nad if you 2 become friends then you will be doing the same things you did when you were going out but no kissing.and if you still cant get over him forgive and forget don't kill urself thinking about him if he's not.i hope i helped good luck.
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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old? (link)
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yes that is 2 young.
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my boyfriend and i broke up more than a month ago but we went out for almost a year. at first i wanted to stay friends with him, but now it seems like he doesnt want to. i still like him and he likes another girl, and i dont know what to do everytime i see him. i'm in high school (14) (link)
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Well you don't really have to do anything but you can just smile at him showing him that there is no hard feeling about the past.and i bet he still has feelings for you as well as you to him but soon enough you 2 will pass this stage and become friends well i hope it happens like that.Well i hope works out for you good luck!
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My best friend & I have known eachother forever and tell eachother everything. She has always been against smoking - she thinks it's stupid and it smells horrible. The thing is, all her other friends smoke, but me. Recently, she has started to herself! She has actually given into the peer pressure and she never has before. I used to be so proud of her for standing up for what she believed and not smoking. Now, she's changing and smoking all the time just like her friends. How do I talk to her about this? I'm so disappointed in her but I'd do anything to get my old, brave best friend back. (link)
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well remind her of the times she went on about not smoking and so on.Tell her how u feel in most cases that works.OR u can tell her all the bad things about smokeing and the disgusting things and hopfuly she will change u mind.I'm not trying to be mean but she seems to be a hypocrite(sorry if i spelled that wrong) but she is how can you talk bad about it then do it.Well i suggest you to talk to her.GOOD LUCK!
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Well, Sometimes my friends can be really full of themselves. They can be stuck up and annoying. I love them to death but it bugs me so much. Actually sometimes I like to hang out with my my boyfriend and his guy friends more, but i still need my GIRLYS! please help me figure out a way to not be like them (stuck up ect.) and deal with them without breaking our friendship.
thanx! (link)
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well you can just NOT be stuck up and when they say something that bothers you tell them with out being so mean and many girls have that problem and its normal soon enough they will hopfuly change but they are your friends and if they do change you might miss there old selfs.
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Sorry it's long, but I need some help
Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.
There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him
How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!! (link)
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I say tell it to him calmly because i know he will get the point and if he doesnt which is impossible umm tell your parents and if they say its cute and ur in middle school or something or wutever get a schedule change or different teacher which ever works for you.i hope i helped good luck!
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For anyone who actually reads this, thanks.Well, I had a boyfriend, we'll call him "Tod". We went out for about 3 months. Well, all these people were coming up to me and saying, "OMG!Are you going to be okay?!" Honestly, I had no idea what on earth they were talking about. So, I asked "Tod" and he told me that he kissed another girl on the lips! Me? Upset? Yeah, but I could deal with it.I told I didn't care. He told me that he couldn't stand to hurt me again, so he said it was over.Well, about 2 months later, he asked me out again, and I said yes. And just recently, we broke up. Everyone was telling me that he told them it was "another girl". This time, I had it with him. I was through with getting hurt because of his freakin mistakes when I didn't do anything to hurt him! So, I'm never going out with him again. But..I think that there might be "another guy" for me. We'll call him "Justin".He's one of my friends ex-boyfriends.They have been going out on and off like me and "Tod".And my other friends are telling me to not go out with him because she might get pissed at me.Well, first of all, I know she will, but I think I really like "Justin" and just the other day, I told him that I really like him. He told me that he really likes me too. But we're not going out. Yesterday, he was talking to my sister, and she asked him if he and I were going out. He said "yeah" and my sister said "since when?!?!". Then he said "since now". But I asked him if we were really going out, and he said he doesn't know! What's that supposed to mean?!Sorry it's soooo long! -Alex (link)
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umm i think that means that is up to you to decide and what your ex bf did that was wrong but "what goes around comes around" and with your friend tal;k to her thats if you don't want to lose her as a friend.GOOD LUCK!
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There is this one kid who goes to my school and his name is Jamie. He's been at my school since second grade and I have always just thought he was kind of an annoying and weird kid. He used to like me and he still flirts with me but I have always sort of acted like I hated him (because i thought i did). Anyway I figured out that all this time I have liked him. It seems like a good thing (because he might still like me) but there is a problem...He's moving to Hong Kong in January! He's kind of a geek in my grade but he thinks he's really popular and stuff and I was going to tell him right away that I like him but then I decided that it would be really weird if he didn't still like me too and then he would tell everyone that I like him and then I would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my life at school. So after that I thought that maybe I would tell him on his last day of school but I'm not sure if that is the right thing to do....Please help me...SOON! (link)
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If he liked you once i bet he still does and if he doesnt i know the feeling will come back and you shouldn't worry about what other people think of you as long as your happy and he isn't hurting you in any way but i dont think you should wait any longer tell him how you feel i bet he feels the same way.
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what do you do when you love two people and you cant pick between them (link)
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well if you love to people then you shouldn't have to choose between them.or ask yourself who has been there the longest and who do you know you will know at least 5 years from now.things like that will help you get your decision.
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Well. Everyday I seem to like somebody new, And I don't know what's wrong with me, Say one day I like Jason, but then I wake up the next day and think okay I don't like Jason now i like Charles. And Everyday it changes. I seem to like anybody whos nice to me. Is this normal? How can I stop it. Please Help! I rate very high, even if u respond --thanks (link)
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Well this is normal depending on the age but i think stick to one boy every 1 week and see how it goes cause changing and changing isnt very good beleave me i change guyz every week but not just because they are nice to me because i get to know them and its really hard not to like them when they are so cool and sweet.but yea umm wut ur going through its normal but just try to have at least 2 crushes at a time cause i dont think you can keep track of so many in the same time.
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How, after several years, does someone go about dealing with the grief over the death of a loved one? (link)
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well u can stay busy and try not to think about them as much but when u do remember the good memories and soon u will be together again cause life wont last and soon enough u will be with him or her.but until then hold on to those happiest memories and know u will soon be together again.
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Okay my friend is kind of lets say gothic... everyone picks on him at school and sometimes they get down right cruel. He has rocks, footballs, popcans(full),anything they can find thrown at him. He is also now afraid the go to school because of everything that goes on. Well anyways I was talking to him tonight and he told me that he almost lit a house on fire and he is thinking about homicide.. to the kids that are mean to him.. should I tell someone so no one is hurt... but then wouldn't he get mad at me.. I dont want him to get sent away cuz all his mom has left is him.. but wouldnt it be wrong not to tell anyone and have someone get killed.. plz help and fast before he does anything stupid.. thanks (link)
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umm im sorrry but there is something seriously wrong with ur friend but i dont really blame him 4 feeling that way but that is still to harsh.TALK TO HIM to get him over that crazy idea show him that people do care about him.dont tell ppl well the kids that he planz to hurt cause they will get all scared but do tell a councilor but before any of that HIM MOM cause she has the right to know to what is going on.but still to him over and over until he thinks throughly to wut desicion he is doing that will afect the rest of him life.I hope i helped and im sorry ur in this position.
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im only thirteen and this guy is slitting his wrist ova me. I just found out the other day. He has asked me out like 10 times and evry time i said no, i dont like him. I signed him up for counseling and he convinced them that he stopped... just the otha day i found out that he IS still slitting himself. If I send him back to the counseler person then hell do the same thing. So what do i do? I dont want him to get hurt b/c hes one of my really good friends, so should i go out with him even if i dont like? Or should i let him hurt himself ova me. Help please!!!! ILL RATE YOU!
morgie
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umm have u tried talking to him.Y dont u go with him whats the worst thing that might happen if he is a good friend then wut might be wrong.give him a chance but if it doesnt work then TALK TO HIM cause apperently he just wants ur atention.but wut u should be doing it talk to him urself not have someone else talk to him.i hope that wasnt mean but do wut makes u feel comfortable and him a lil satisfied.
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I'm a pretty good student, usually do all my homework and don't cheat or anything. Most of the time, people are always asking to copy my homework and since I'm nice and want to make friends, I let them. I can't say I don't have it when its out on my desk and anyone can see it. I always get scared the teacher is going to see I'm letting someone copy and I'll get in trouble! What should I say next time it happens? I don't want to come off as mean or anything, but I'm sick of working for my grades when someone can just copy and get it easy! (link)
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umm....i understand wut ur going through i to dont have that problem im the copyier and i feel that u have a right to say umm didnt u do ur homework but then again its just work cause when they have to take the actual test who is going to cheat no one cause they will get caught and as long as u warn them don't worry bout anything cause its just a worksheet that soon enough u wont look at until the work is done or the chapter is done or wutever but they will have to over and over until they actualy get it.and if u still dont want to let them c ur paper just tell them how u feel.
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okay.. me and this guy have been talking for a while.. well.. last night he called me and was like.. " i like you and i wish you could have come to homecoming with me" and then he was like.. " we should hang out next weekend.. and go to tha mall or something.." and i was like.. omg.. i was so happy.. and then today i come up to mai friend kate and my friend kelsy.. and she was standing with them and all i heard was .. "were going out" and this other girl *hoo looks like a man* said it.. and i was like.. " who?" and she was like.. "marc" (the guy).. and i havnt seen him since.. but she was talking about the same one.. so.. yeah.. what should i do? ILL RATE! (link)
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you heard them and u dont know that 4 sure so don't think they do until he himself tells you.but u might not have seen him 4 some coincidence call him and ask him wuts up but dont do anything until you know 4 a fact that they go out.i hope i helped good luck with everything.
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Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..
Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris
should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!! (link)
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No dont do it if u don't feel right.that boy seems like a alright bf but his needs arn't really right at all.and if u do decide to have sex then its because U want to not because he is only thinking about himself and wants it.If u want to wait and he cant handle that then let him go cause he isnt worth ur time.I hope i helped and i think u should set him straight.
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hey! i really need your help. alright im 15 years old & i like this 17 year old guy. anyway, tonight when me & my friends met up w/ him it was like 10 minutes till i was supposed to be home. so he was like just call them & tell em youll be home in about 30 minutes. which number one i knew wasnt gonna work & number two he wanted to like make out. so my problem is this...i mean i really want to 'do something' w/ him but im not sure if im like too nervous. like tonight the thought of getting in his car & like driving somewhere & hooking up wasnt making me happy. ive never kissed anyone so maybe thats why. im just so scared...is this normal? do you have any tips on kissing? am i just freaking out for no reason or what! **i nEed hELp** (link)
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I didnt get my first kiss till the day before my 14th birthday and when it happen i didnt know what was going on i just did it and went along but through out the moment it felt like not even a second but my friends were there and to them they said that was a looong kiss.but oh yeah back to u ur feeling perfectly normal ur just confused thats all but go along don't be so shy but if u begin feeling uncomfortable to do anything that might make u feel worst but if u do want to do something give him small hints i know for a fact he will go along sence it seems like he likes u and so what if he is 17 there is a 2 year different thats not alot.i hope i helped good luck!
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I have this ex-boyfriend who is now one of my best friends and we tell each other everything. He has told me, many times, how he's in love with me and wants me back. I don't feel the same way at all and get annoyed with his attempts to win me back. The real problem is, it seems everytime he gets a new girlfriend, I become very attracted to him again. I guess it's because 'you want what you can't have?' He says he doesn't even like these girls, but just wants someone to be with since he can't have me. I just can't believe myself when I fall for him only when he's with someone and it drives me crazy. What should I do? I really like him now but I know when he finds out, dumps his girlfriend, I won't feel the same! (link)
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OMG!mi going through the same thing me and my ex bf now my bestfriend were going through the same thing i understand perfectly well what ur going through.i think that you should stay friends cause u might end up hurting his feelings cause it seems like he will give up anything to be with u but what u should do is keep the friendship and maybe when u least expect it u might end up liking him while he single.I hope i helped get back to me if u need anything else.
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My parents nag me ALL of the time! Seriously, they bug the hell outta me and I am so sick of it! I think i might move in with my aunt, but i dunno how to break it to my parents. Also, anybody else have this problem? how do you guys deal with it? Thanks in advance!
~From, ME! (link)
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well they are your parents your going to have to deal with it.I have the same problem beleave me i know what ur going through.But i deal with it by listening to what they have to say. and act like if u agree with them admit that u were wrong then they wont nag as much.but still they are your parents so go along with them cause moving out wont really solve anything but ur gonna be more distant from ur parents and sooner or later ur going to miss them. i hope i helped good luck with everything.
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ok well im really unhappy with my life and ive thought about sucicide but never really wanted to do it because i know that that is just a permanent solution to a temporary problem, but i was wondering if anyone can help me be...happier, or give me some tips (link)
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I suggest 3 things that helped me when i was going through what you are right now which are :
1.Read a book that relates to your situations(im serious it helps so much)
2.get involved in after school things to keep u busy and get ur mind out of any thoughts like suicide.
3.stay with ur friends hang out with them specialy the funny ones and go shopping or something or hang out somewhere that is worth being there.
and of course the one everyone tells u to do talk to friends,teachers,and specialy parents because they deserve to know what ur thinking about or how u feel.
I hope i helped and good luck with everythig i know sooner or later u will get happier.:)
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