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hes cutting himself ova me
im only thirteen and this guy is slitting his wrist ova me. I just found out the other day. He has asked me out like 10 times and evry time i said no, i dont like him. I signed him up for counseling and he convinced them that he stopped... just the otha day i found out that he IS still slitting himself. If I send him back to the counseler person then hell do the same thing. So what do i do? I dont want him to get hurt b/c hes one of my really good friends, so should i go out with him even if i dont like? Or should i let him hurt himself ova me. Help please!!!! ILL RATE YOU!
morgie
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you could just go on one date with him and give him a chance. if it turns out that you like him, then problem solved. if you dont, tell him that you would rather be friends but be REALLY good friends with him. dont just say "i just want to be friends" then ignore him. call him and hang out in groups and just be friends with him. and if that doesnt satisfy him, tell him that he's scaring you and you dont want him to get hurt and if he really cared he would listen to you and stop. good luck! i hope i helped!
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umm have u tried talking to him.Y dont u go with him whats the worst thing that might happen if he is a good friend then wut might be wrong.give him a chance but if it doesnt work then TALK TO HIM cause apperently he just wants ur atention.but wut u should be doing it talk to him urself not have someone else talk to him.i hope that wasnt mean but do wut makes u feel comfortable and him a lil satisfied.
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I've never gone through it but my best friend use to be a cutter last year and it was hell for me to go through as well as herself.. this guy needs help! even if you don't like him at all; you know you can't turn your back on him like that. No one's asking you to hold his hand and walk him through everything... but you've got to inform someone else about this and get him help. It will only worsen and worsen over time. It's already showing that this is a serious matter since he quit cousenling after telling them that he's quit cutting. Remember..most of the time cutters don't really want to die; just feel pain. But it's sad when they really do die.
Hope things go well. keep me posted!
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i dont think u shjould go out wit him because u dont lik him lik that but i think u need to talk to him sometime alone and try and convince hiom to stop and there r ather ppl that he could go out wit and tell him tat its not only hurting himself its hurtin u because hes ur really good friend and its not good to do that at all
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wow, this is awful! You need to tell him, I think you're really nice, how about being really close friends? You need to tell his parents immediatly, or the counsler again. He needs help, if he slits because you say no. Try ignoreing him and stay away, can't say no if he can't ask!
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Well, it's kind of like this. I used to do that stuff. It's really NOT worth all the pain and suffering. So, my answer would be, tell him how you truly feel. Tell him that you are sorry but you only want to be his friend. If he's a true friend he SHOULD understand. But, there is always a Plan B. My Plan B would be to just sit him down and have a long talk with him. Tell him how much it's NOT worth it. Tell him that you're just not into him like that, but you will ALWAYS be his friend. Hope I heloped! ~Kimberly~
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Ok this is a mayjor issue. Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you think hes a great friend and you love his personality but not in "that" kind of way. And tell him the only reason why your telling a counsiler is because you care. And if he doesnt stop you as a good friend NEEDS to go to a counsiler or an adult immidiatly and tell them what he`s doing. Tell them that he is lieing about stopping. I think they will talk to him and put him on a suicidal contract. Anymore questions, just drop one in my inbox. I hope I helped.
xO.Carrie
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Just tell him, I only want to be your friend for now. Thats the most you can do. Just be one of his faithful friends who will be there for him. If he keeps on cutting himself, then tell him to stop and just think about what hes doing. You shouldnt go out with him if you dont like him. Just tell him that youll be his faithful friend. That should solve it. I hope it works! =)
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u should actually go out with him once like a try out date and if u still arent feelin him tell him hes not ur type and atleast you gave him a chance and maybe next time. hope i helped! rate me!
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