Question Posted Saturday September 25 2004, 11:44 pm
I have this ex-boyfriend who is now one of my best friends and we tell each other everything. He has told me, many times, how he's in love with me and wants me back. I don't feel the same way at all and get annoyed with his attempts to win me back. The real problem is, it seems everytime he gets a new girlfriend, I become very attracted to him again. I guess it's because 'you want what you can't have?' He says he doesn't even like these girls, but just wants someone to be with since he can't have me. I just can't believe myself when I fall for him only when he's with someone and it drives me crazy. What should I do? I really like him now but I know when he finds out, dumps his girlfriend, I won't feel the same!
Basketball3846 answered Sunday September 26 2004, 10:51 am: Well if I were you I would try going out with him again. See how you feel because it sounds like you do like him. If, when you are going out, you don't feel like you love him then call it quits and try to get over him. Good Luck!! [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Sunday September 26 2004, 12:34 am: You have to resist the urge to get jelous. Maybe you need a boyfriend? It could be that you want to be in a relationship, and it kind of hurts when he is in one and you arent.
missing-identity-seeker answered Saturday September 25 2004, 11:59 pm: TO: ex boyfriend, best friend, crush?
totallie normal feeling...buh i dunt think its a crush...if it was then you'd prolly be with him rite now and of course its not like that... i would feel bad like you if he dumps his girlfrend for you buh you cant reallie help it...i mean if this doode likes you that much then hes obviously gonna be one DEDICATED boyfrend... i onno the whole story buh if your up to it then gib him a second chance...mehbe things will go differently from the first time...ya noe? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
MissIiVannaH answered Saturday September 25 2004, 11:57 pm: OMG!mi going through the same thing me and my ex bf now my bestfriend were going through the same thing i understand perfectly well what ur going through.i think that you should stay friends cause u might end up hurting his feelings cause it seems like he will give up anything to be with u but what u should do is keep the friendship and maybe when u least expect it u might end up liking him while he single.I hope i helped get back to me if u need anything else. [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
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