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hey! i really need your help. alright im 15 years old & i like this 17 year old guy. anyway, tonight when me & my friends met up w/ him it was like 10 minutes till i was supposed to be home. so he was like just call them & tell em youll be home in about 30 minutes. which number one i knew wasnt gonna work & number two he wanted to like make out. so my problem is this...i mean i really want to 'do something' w/ him but im not sure if im like too nervous. like tonight the thought of getting in his car & like driving somewhere & hooking up wasnt making me happy. ive never kissed anyone so maybe thats why. im just so scared...is this normal? do you have any tips on kissing? am i just freaking out for no reason or what! **i nEed hELp**
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ok well im 13 and havent been really in this problem but my friend has plenty of times i think any decision u make to do with him do it with ur friends that will make u feel more comportable and u know that ur friends r rite there with u so like next time u go to the movies or something with him tell him ur goin to bring a friend so nomatter wat he wont do anything u dont want him to good luck bye
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aw yes this is totally normal for various reasons. one, you have never kissed a guy and starting off with someone older than you can be intimdating, and number two you weren't sure what he wanted to do and where he wantead to go n stuff and u wanted to make sure u knew wat u were doing n stuff since it was ur first time. (this is was i think atleast) As for this guy, he seems very pushy. Don't let him push you into doing things you don't wanna do like teling ur parents thing that u don't want to or someting you have to be assertive with him. And for tips on kissing, sorry i cant help you tthere lol its very personal the style you do it and how you do it but basically a good thing to know is that kissing is very natural and it will coe to you when you are doing it, i was nervous my first time too :). so best of luck with this guy and remember to stick to what you think feels best
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I didnt get my first kiss till the day before my 14th birthday and when it happen i didnt know what was going on i just did it and went along but through out the moment it felt like not even a second but my friends were there and to them they said that was a looong kiss.but oh yeah back to u ur feeling perfectly normal ur just confused thats all but go along don't be so shy but if u begin feeling uncomfortable to do anything that might make u feel worst but if u do want to do something give him small hints i know for a fact he will go along sence it seems like he likes u and so what if he is 17 there is a 2 year different thats not alot.i hope i helped good luck!
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omg.. yes thats normal.. l0l.. i get waay nervous..so like.. dont even worry bout it.. l0l.. and tha hole thyng with wanting to do sumthyn with him.. but not wanting to at the same time.. is normal too.. thats like.. how i am.. l0l.. but yeah.. just.. go with tha flo of whats happening.. but like.. dont do anythyng you dont want to and alll that junk.. l0l.. but yeah.. i thynk everyone is nervous.. just not everyone shows it as much :-D
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TO: older guy
if you think your going WAYYY too fast in this relationship then dont make the spark thatll lite the fire... slow it down or dunt eben start it at all...listen to your conscience and your guts/instincts coz in the end those are prolly the onie things thatll help you...another thing... dunt risk gettin in trouble for this relationship...like if you NOE your doing something rong well then you should be able to stand up and say "THIS IS WRONG!"... if hes reallie worth it then he should definitely understand...ya noe?
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ur gonna be fine ur ready everyones neverous on there first kiss i was and after it was over i dont kno y i was its not a really a big thing dont worry
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