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My Dad
Ok... My mother and father r separated, I live with my mom and visit my dad every other weekend. And everytime i visit we have fun until i do something small and it pisses him off. and i HATE IT! He throws fits over the smallest things. I've thought about calling my mom to pick me up whenever he does tht but i dont have the nerve b/c he'll get into a fight with my mom and i hate it. Plus when he gets mad he doesnt talk to me, he just sits there in a bad mood and if its time for me to go he just says bye and gives me a hug when usually he hugs me says he loves me and kisses me. and i need k=to know what to do b/c i'm over it! please help me.
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You could just try not to do anything small that pisses him off. Other than that, there's basically nothing you can do, sorry. That seems plain but thats all you can really do. You could also try to just have a real talk with him about the divorce. It probably was really, really hard for him and you could remind him of those times. I hope I helped!
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if what your dad is doing really bothers you you just shouldnt go to him on the weekends and you should tell your mom , no one will be mad at you
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i think what happens is you remind him of your mother. And that probably pisses him off because he still loves her, but things just didnt seem to work out. Although what you do may be part of personality or habit, think about it. Maybe sit down and have a real talk with him every once and a while and see what he has to say about the divorce. A divorce is never easy for anyone.
**_Nicole_**
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TO: My Dad
my moms the same way..like my parents arent split... buh my mom would complain to my dad if i wer an shirt thats not of her mood or summin.. seriously shell totallie seperate herself from the family...the onie way i noe to cope is to totallie ignore it and like later on act as if it nebe happened...i mean parents always hab their lil "kiddie moments" eben tho some hab em more than others buh still...let em hab a fit and you should tell your mom about it too.. if you dunt like it mehebe therell be summin she can do to help...ya noe?
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