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Do you have a favorite South Park Episode(s)?
What are they?

i have soooo many favorites:
the jlo one with the puppet
the paris hilton one
the walmart one
tourettes
the death of eric cartman
and the one about hybrid cars.

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list anything you girls put in your purses.


like my aunt was being funny and said all them 13 year old abercrombie chicks carry around their abercrombie totes and all they have in it is a bottle of lipgloss. lmfao.

ahaha that's so funny! oh 13 year olds...
I carry my:
cell
agenda
School ID
lipgloss
chapstick
pen
pencil
marker
bobby pins
powder compact
tiny lotion
tiny hairspray
keys
wallet
hair ties
pain meds

i think that's it..

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im still confused

i thought this was a movie..

they show it in theaters (stage) too? and the audience dresses up and brings props??? has anyone participated in this? please explain.

OMG the rocky horror picture show is the most amazing show ever!
It was originally a movie, yes.
Butttt now it is also performed by people in front of the movie meaning the screen is in the back with the movie playing and some actors dress up and act everything out in front of it.
you really have to see it...
the audience sometimes dresses up [that was more in the 70s when it was a cult thing] but the audience participates by shouting out lines, etc.
If you need anything else, let me know. I recently saw it live in NYC.

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Does everyone have some people that hate them?I was just wondering.

Yes, absolutely.

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i have a gorgeousss black silk dress, but its a few inches too small. if i bring it to a tailor, could they possibly add onto it to make it bigger?

They probably could if there's enough material in the inside for them to work with. My mom sews and she only can when there's an little extra that she can unsew then make the dress bigger. It's worth a try.

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what does hemp have to do with weed

It's made from a different part of the marijuana plant... not the part that is smoked. I've seen hemp twine [the rope to make necklaces] and hemp lotion.

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9th grade female

Ok so well at school like alot of people are like omg are you high? do you smoke alot of weed? and all these jokes about me going to go get drugs and getting high and stuff and like thinking i do weed and stuff and well i DONT! and it's really annoying. But how do people act when they are on weed or whatever? because sometimes i do tend to act really tired in class and drousy because i take three pills a day for medical issues i have and so drousiness is one of the side effects. so how do people act when they are high or whatever because i dont want to act like that around the people that think im high.

A lot of people have no idea what they're talking about when it comes to being high but if you are always tired, closing your eyes or acting tired... that's probably why they're asking. being high makes some people calm or tired. [yes, i do know what i'm talking about...]
If they say that just tell them you're on meds that make you tired. it won't give away what you're on them for because allergy meds like benedryl make you tired and a lottt of people take it. so just tell them why and they should give up the high theory.

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How old were you when you first plucked/waxed your eyebrows?

How long did it take until it grew back?

What colour is your hair?

How often do you pluck/wax it now?

When do you know when it's the right time to?

Please tell me whether you plucked or waxed it on your first time and who did it.

Thank you so much!

I was 13 or 14 and i plucked the main stuff that was bugging me, i didn't actually really shape them til later on.
I don't know how long it took to grow back.
My hair is dark brown/black
I pluck about one a week or 2 weeks...whenever i feel the need to.
It's the right time when you have a unibrow or your browns are really thick or just ungroomed looking. it varies tho.
I plucked them myself because it was obvious to me what needed to be removed but i wouldn't recommend doing it yourself unless you know what you're doing.
Ask your mom to do them for you or take you to get them done the first time then just pluck whatever grows back.

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Where can I find FLAT ankle boots? I'm already 5'7" so I don't wanna to add any height :) And I don't mean like, uggs... Preferably $50 maximum, anddd yeah. Here's an example:...I think these are so cute, but they aren't flat. http://www.famousfootwear.com/product.asp?product_id=1012993&variant_id=51326

And these would be perfect,
http://www.famousfootwear.com/product.asp?p=1012696&variant%5Fid=51324&hix=1
...except I think they're kinda boring. I like how there is a bow on the first one.

Any suggestions? Thanks so much :)

I happened to be at payless yesterday and i saw these flat boots... a little above the ankle with a bow on them and they were under $30...
here's the link:
http://www.payless.com/Catalog/ProductDetail.aspx?&TLC=Womens&SLC=WomensBoots&BLC=WomensBootsTrendy&Width=Regular&ItemCode=56720&LotNumber=056669&Type=Adult&Popularity=335&DescriptiveColor=Black

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hes my best friends brother.

and hes 21 and im 17.

my friend says shes ok with it but do you think shes just saying that?

we both like each other, should we go for it?

I think it's ok. As long as he's not just trying to get in your pants... but it's a good thing because girls mature faster so you'll have someone mature enough for you.

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I was wondering what the average dick size is?

Last time i checked it was around 6.

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15 (almost 16)/female
This is embarrassing but I am almost 16 and still a virgin. I have made out like twice(but i find myself not to be the best kisser becuase i think about it way to much b.c im afraid ill mess up) . No fore play, sex or anything. Not because I dont want to but Im afraid to do it wrong or mess up. Also when it comes down to it Im nervous about my body, but thats not a big concern to me tho. And compared to 80% of my friends Im like the most unexperienced. Its not like i couldnt do all the stuff, but my fears are keeping me from them. Well my questions are..
How would I give a hand job or blow job that will pleasure him?
If i happen to discharge on a guys fingers when he fingers me..is that normal?
Any suggestions or good advice? I need it. :[ Im pretty pathetic to think about it.

almost 16 and a virgin is a good thing... just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean it doesn't have consequences. if you're nervous about your body or if you're a good kisser, you're not ready or comfortable enough with the person. wait until you're at least in a good happy relationship before starting.
it's better to be inexperienced than having pregnancy scares alll the time. [they get annoying].
to answer your questions...
1. you just kinda do it... since your friends are all experienced, get tips from them. you can even have the guy teach you. trust me, you can't do it wrong... and if you do, they'll let you know and if you're with the right person, it won't be embarrassing at all.
try www.handjobadvice.com [yes, it's actually a site...no it's not porn]
2.discharge/cum/liquid while he's fingering you is a GOOD thing. first off, it makes everything easier and less painful. guys like making girls cum sooo don't be afraid to or whatever.
ok if he does get "grossed out" [which i've never ever heard of] he's wayyyy too young to get involved with.
if you need anything else, let me know.

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that teenagers are having sex earlier and earlier...

I sure dont want to have sex any time in high school...but I know lots of my friends are ready. to be honest it just all freaks me out...

yes, i'm afraid of having sex...and i just don't see how it would be pleasurable.

any comments or advice would help!

thx....

Yes, they really are starting really early now.
I can see how it could be freaky & that means that you aren't ready for it, as you already know.
If you don't want to... just don't. there's no rush. if you're still afraid by the time you're 20, then it might be a bigger issue but for now, you are completely fine. sex in high school is usuallyyyy a bad idea anyway so you're on the right track.

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I want to sing a song for my mom's wedding (in October), but I can't seem to find one. I'm an alto, so it's hard for me to find songs to sing since it seems like every female singer has a super high voice. I was thinking about singing my own version of "Hero" by Enrique Iglesias (their song), but I'm not sure. Does anyone know of any songs I could sing? A list would be awesome : )

Celine Dion has some pretty low songs and most of them are about love so pick your favorite.
also, shania twain but only if you can really pull it off. i recommend "forever & for always" or "still the one".

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you know the compare people app:
http://hs.facebook.com/apps/application.php?id=2433486906&ref=pr

does anyone else find the ratings offensive? especially if they did not get nominatd for anything? im not quite sure how this app works. i tried to use it but it only showed a few people my network.. like the same people kept popping up and i had to compare that person and another person and the whole thing was really dumb.

The compare people application is really dumb.. in my opinion. if i were you, i would just remove it.

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Over the past year, I lost a bit of weight. Okay, maybe not a bit, approximately 40lbs. I do not weigh that much at all. I'm under 120. The thing is, I get a lot of comments & looks at school. I lost the weight in a healthy way. I was on a strict but good diet. I ate a ton of fruit & veggies, avoided extra fat/sugar, etc. The thing is people talk about me a lot. They always comment on how thin I am & make jokes about it. I do not find it funny. I know my friends & family are a bit concerned, but people at school are taking it a bit extreme in my opinion. At lunch time, my friends always watch what I eat. I get stared at by people from other tables. 'Anorexic' and 'Bulimic' was thrown at me a few times. It really frusterates me & is quite annoying. I don't understand why this is necessary. Not only do people joke with me about it, they talk about it behind my back with other people. They don't understand that it's actually embarrasing. Sometimes I feel like I'm getting more comments than girls who are overweight & I'm underweight. How can I avoid this?? I don't think I should have to hide myself in huge clothes because I don't want people saying anything. Especially when swimming in gym comes around. I want people to just drop it, but they don't. It's one thing to be concerned and another to talk about me for daily gossip, especially when the comments are rude. Any advice or suggestions?? Any opinions?? I know you aren't supposed to care about what people think or say, but it happens a lot & lunch has become a hard thing to do since everyone stares. I also don't want rumors going around. Thanks!!

Wow i'm really happy for you! i think it's really good that you did it in a healthy way...i admire that.
anyway, for people to stop talking about it, just don't let them see it get to you. they're just jealous that you did it and they can't and you look good and they don't.
i know it's hard to face everyone when they're all talking about you but they'll get over it soon enough...once they see that you do eat and don't have an eating disorder [or when sally slut hooks up with 10 guys at a party], people will forget about it or focus their attention to something else.
just hang in there... what you did is right and not uncommon so you're fine.

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I'm 15/f.
I have no friends.
I had a tight group of friends last year, but for some reason they started to distance themselves from me & all became really close just the three of them, & I don't have anyone else that I hang out with.
I talk to a lot of people at school, but no one would just randomly ask me to hang out--most of them assume I'm still friends with the same people I was last year.
I've never had a boyfriend, or a guy show any interest in me.
I hate my body & the way I look.
Ever since school started, I have been crying myself to sleep every night. Especially because it's hard to see my old friends acting like nothing's wrong, saying hello to me but nothing else.
My mom and dad keep telling me to try to make friends, or tell my old friends that I'd like to hang out with them again, but it's too hard. Not to mention embarassing.
I messaged two of those friends on myspace saying basically, anytime you're free if you want to call me, I'm always available.
One said oh yeah, we will.
& the other didn't respond.
So now I think they probably talk about it & laugh at me.
& I know those aren't the friends you want to have but, they really were good friends & we had a good time.
I don't know how to get through three years of high school with no friends.
I've started cutting myself.
I think about killing myself a lot, but I can't do it because it would crush my parents.
That's the only thing keeping me going, is that my mom would blame herself or something & I couldn't do that to her.
I don't know what to do.
But I can't take this anymore.

The same thing happened to me... 2 times actually. once frosh year and a whole different time junior year at a different school.
Do try and make other friends. There are lots of other people out there looking for friends. they might not seem "cool" or your type now, but if you start talking to them you might find that you have something in common with them. I'm sure you have other friends on myspace that you haven;t talked to in a while that used to be just ok friends... leave them comments and stuff and you guys can hang out in the future.
Don't cut or try to kill yourself... that will get people to talk about you in a negative way. trust me, you will make friends in 3 years.. i know it seems like you wont but if youre friendly, you will. if you need anything else, let me know. i've hit rock bottom a couple times before.

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I use tampons and my mum knows. But i just read a question and they were goin on about not using a tampon because they havent lost their virginity yet. I lost mine at 13(please dont judge)...but my mum doesnt know that. Would she know i have lost it because i can use a tampon :-S ??

No she won't know. a lot of people think that they can't but yes, you can definatly use tampons if you're a virgin. the only way she'll know is if you tell her or you get pregnant. [let's hope its not the latter] take care.

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im 5'3 and 1/4 inch and im 107.2 pounds
i think thats normal but i have these really awful hips that i hate
i work out and dont eat too poorly but i just cant seem to make them go away idk i guess cuz its bone?
can anyone help

wow you're at a perfecttt weight for your height. you probably can't make hip bones go away since it's part of your structure. you could try running a little and see if that helps. you're a woman... you're going to have hips. =[

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what are some good instant tanners that YOU YOURSELF have used and can recommend? thanks. (=

p.s. i'm asian, so.. skin could be different? dunno.

sally hansen spray on tan worked for me. i sprayed it on and spread it with a makeup sponge.

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