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Is it possible to lose 3 pounds in one day? I totally pigged out last night at a sleepover and when I came home and weighed myself I was 101. But I felt self concious because I have to be in a bikini in front of a guy tomorrow so I didnt eat all today and I excercised. Now the scale says Im 98.5 and I am wearing the same thing I was when I weighed 101 - a bikini. Is that possible or is the scale wrong??
it is possible, but i wouldn't quite think of it as losing weight. when you pig out & eat a lot of food, it stays in your body longer, meaning you'll be heavier when you way yourself. when you eat less & exercise, you weigh less. soo think of it this way- eat more, weigh more, eat less, weigh less. none of these are your actual weight & 98-101 lbs is not a lot. your actual weight is when you get up in the morning, go to the bathroom & weigh yourself right away. other than that it's juss because you've been eating & what not. you should be eating a lot during the day (at least 3 meals) & that's why you weigh more. plus, juss because you weigh 101 lbs one day, doesn't mean you look 101 lbs. 98.5 lbs looks the same as 101 lbs.
-hope that helped!♥
ok so here it goes me and this girl met like 3 years ago on this chat room and since then wev hit off prtty damn good. btw im 16 shes 15. anyway one day we admited that we where in love with each other. but heres the thing shes like 5000 miles away from me. we said we would meet in two years. but now i found out if her parents ever found out about us then she would be kicked outa the house. shit man what should i do help:(
since you guys met online & don't live near each other, there isn't much you can do. you need to talk to her & try to find ways of telling her parents. if you want to be together, they'll eventually find out & if her parents find out without her telling them, she might not let you guys be together. that's why she has to say something. it doesn't mean it has to be now. not until you guys meet at least. maybe you should keep it inbetween you two until you meet up a few times & see where things go from there. i don't really suggest doing this, but if that's the only way then what else can you do?? it'd be way easier if she was more open & honest with her parents about it so they can meet you. talk to her about it & don't give up on her because of her parents. juss see how things go.
-hope that helped!♥
15 Female
So I sort of like this guy, let's call him Mike. Mike is 15/Male.
-Mike always used to tell me who he liked (for the last two years, but lately hasn't told me.)
-I know Mike liked me on and off for the last year and a half but he always liked other girls too.
-After Mike's bday party I stayed over at his house (monday night). We slept in the same room but on different beds. Mike asked me who I liked but I said no one. I was drunk and never thought to ask who he liked.
- On saturday night me, mike and a bunch of guys stayed at justin's house. Mike and I slept together on the same couch but I was stupid and made out with a guy and Mike saw.
-Monday night I told Mike that I didn't like the other guy and he was happy but doesn't remember that anymore so he thinks I like this other guy (he was drunk when I told him).
-Mike asked me to hang out today and is going to call me later. Mike also asked 5 other girls to hang out.. but next week not today.
-At Mike's party he didn't make out with anyone. I was the only girl at his party who didn't make out with any guys.
-At Mike's party we were together most of the time but he usually flirts with tons of girls. Mike didn't flirt with ANYONE, not even me though.
-Mike only let me and his best friend stay over at his house on Monday night.
-On saturday night Mike and I were wrestling together for a couch and he ended up layin on me sort of holding my hands trying to tickle me. We both started to get our clothes and hair messed up (my pants were fallin down, shirt falling down, etc) but kept going. Eventually a guy came and took him off of me because I was "complaining".. but I actually liked it and so did Mike.
-Mike doesn't seem to be a player anymore but he doesn't make any moves on me. I think he is trying not to scare me away?
Does Mike like me?
Is there any way I can find out today since I'm probably going to see him?
Thanks! :)
okay..this is kind've a personal question because we don't know mike. all guys have different personalities & ways to express their feelings. since all guys are different, we can't tell you if mike likes you er not. some things you said seems like he likes you but no one can tell you that for sure. why?? because we aren't mike. the only way to find out is by asking him. yes some of the things he does can hint off he likes you, but there were situations where you guys were drunk so that makes it unsure. talk to him & see what he says. don't be shy about it. be straight forward. if not, you'll miss out on a more than friends relationship. soo yeah you have to talk to him about it.
-hope that helped!♥
I used to go out with this guy named Josh. I loved him so much, & when he broke up with me -- I thought EVERYTHING would change. & I never thought I'd find myself in this position.
But now I met this new guy named Ralph, and whenever we go out on dates, or if we just talk on the phone, I always unfortunetly find myself comparing Josh to him. & How great Josh was, and the little things he did that Ralph doesn't do.
I don't want to do that anymore & it's really getting on my nerves. I won't be going back out with Josh again, but I can't help but think about how perfect he treated me, and then I just compare which really sucks.
Is it wrong to compare?
Does anyone else do it? I don't want to feel like soo horrible about it, but I just think I'm trying to get over Josh.
Thanksss.
that's pretty normal. a lot of my friends that had multiple bfs, find themselves doing that, even if they only had a crush on them. i think it's natural to do that. you juss have to realize that josh & ralph aren't the same person & they won't act the same. don't try to turn ralph into josh, ya know?? you shouldn't feel horrible about it because a lot of people have that problem. stay focused on ralph. like you said, you aren't going to date josh so you should try to move on. plus, ralph might have different characteristics that you like that josh doesn't have. juss wait & see how you feel. if it gets worse, you should probably talk to ralph about it.
-hope that helped!♥
ok i have friends of mine that i grew up with and knew my entire life they soo sweet and innocent and everything and they were my best friends.. but now they are doing stuff that they would normally not do like one smokes pot now which is not like her.. and another one of my friends that i grew up with is not her self she drinks now to the point that she vomits and thats also not like her and all of this just recently started like a week before school ended.. i dont know what to do i thought that i would be friends wit them forever but i guess not.. and i use to chill wit them a lot but now we just act like strangers i still talk to one of them but the other one were not even really friends n e more. also this makes it harder because the one that smokes doesnt know i know she smokes so what should i do?
this is definately a teenage thing. when you start school, you make friends. elem, ms, hs, etc. the huge difference between elem/ms and hs is the way you see your friends. most of them change. what i've learned is by the time you're in 11th grade, which im going into this year, you have a close group of friends that you'll stay friends with through hs & some even college. what i mean is in elem/ms you have a huge group of friends & then it eventually gets smaller into a close few. i learned that its much better this way. if you still want to remain friends with them (which could be bad depending on their smoking/drugs habits) you have to talk to them about it & confront them. if you don't do that, there's no way you'll stay friends. even if they seemed close to you before, this stuff happens a lot between teenagers & there's not much anyone can really fix about it.
-hope that helped!♥
so a long time ago i liked this guy named (lets call him J).(were 13). so one day he told me he was leaving the school so i decided to tell him i liked him on text, because i was too scared to do it otherwise. but yeah i was tlking to him and told him, and i dont knoe if he even got my point!! this is almost like how it went( if i can remember):
me: ...well yeah i dont want you to think im stupid
him: i wont
me: well.. i kinda.. like you.. but i dont want you thinking im weird for sayin this or anything
him: "laugh out loud" ( cant use chatroom speech haha)
me: ahh i feel like an idiot
him: dont feel like an idiot
me:okayy this is gettin kidna awkward
him: "laugh out loud"
i dont know i cant remember the exact messages. i dont know if he thinks i was joking or somthing because one time my friend "s" told him she liked him and he was like 'really'? and she sed 'no im just kidding' and hes like 'okay good' so i dont know if hes afraid to belive it or just didnt belive it beacuse everyone always said he liked me and he always did really nice things for me like yell at this kid for throwin a pen cap at me and my friends told me he blushed one day when j's friend brought up the subject of me and him going out or somthing. nothing ever happend tho, and now i dont even see him cuz he goes to a diff school. its just something that always bothers me. what do i do?
sorry tihs was loong by the way =( haha
he probably was surprised. plus, it is a text message & it isn't like you actually saw his expression er something, so it could be something different than what you think. he probably believes it i mean you didn't say you were joking. you could let him know again, because you thought he didn't believe you. the only thing you can do is talk to him about it. you don't want to overdo it though, because then he might feel that you're pushing for something he isn't. he might like you, but the only way for you to find out is talking to him about it.
-hope that helped!♥
ok im 13/f and well almost a year ago from now i met this boy! oo ik its going to get interesting. Well lets call him boy there easy enough, any ways i met him in religion and church i liked him rite away. we have been out 1 month b4 and now 2 months so we have been out enough said, i think i really like him a lotttttt. so then i was thinking i met him in church church church!! church idk im not sure but church, god do you think that god had any thing to do with us being together i mean i think we are perfect together! i mean god works in mysterious ways you know? so did he or is that just me thinking that should i ask the preist?
i'm not exactly sure what you're asking, but i think God works in different ways. even if you didn't meet him in church, i still think God was the reason why you met. so yeah, i'd say the reason why you met would be him.
-hope that helped!♥
okay this is not about me . well i was friends with this girl and shes going out with a kid that shes in love with and he loves her well anyway i heard that he cheated on her and had sex with other girls [ hes only 14 ] . i told the girl and we started talking as friends again but then the other girl that told me about it got mad at me for telling i mean was it wrong to tell her seeing it was her boyfriend? please help bc i try to exp-lain that it was the right thing to do. thanks♥
i think you should've told her. if you wouldn't of told her, she probably would've gotten mad anyway. it's a bad situation, but it is her boyfriend & she should know. he probably wouldn't of said anything anyway. i don't think she's mad at you (even if she says she is) for telling her. shes probably juss mad at the whole situation. i think you did the right thing.
-hope that helped!♥
my boyfriend who ive been with for a very long time wanted to finger me today..but im on my period! hes already done it many times before so when he started to go for it and i took his hand away he was like whats wrong? i didnt want his hand to touch that he'd be DISGUSTED! so i just said"not now"but he kept trying to later on! i wear pads most of the time but even when i do wear tampons..i still cant tell him im on my period cause thatll make everything so awkward! how do you tell a guy without being embarassed and it is it gonna make them freaked out?? cause frankly, its the only thing thats stopping me from doing it and i have no idea what to say.
i actually had this conversation with my friends last night haha =) okay basically, you have to straight out tell him. yeah it'll be awkward but he is your boyfriend. not some random guy, ya know?? if he tries, juss be like "not the right time" er something. he should take the hint. but anyway, being straight forward is a lot better so that you won't have to go into detail. that could become more awkward than before.
-hope that helped!♥
make that heart that you did after "i hope i helped"? and where did you get that backround? thx
the heart thing is:
& hearts ;
no spaces inbetween each.
i got the background from:
www.photobucket.com
you can get an account for free & go to the search bar & type in 'hearts' er whatever
else you want & then upload it.
-hope that helped!♥
Is it true that a person can become skinnier but still weigh as much as they did when they where fat? Like that whole "muscle weighs more than fat", is that true? So, could I be skinny but still weigh a lot on the scale? Please explain that concept to me. Thanks!
P.S- I am 14/F if you need to know that;)
Also, I am about 145 pounds and 5ft 4in.
yeah definately true. muscle weighs a lot more than fat. i work out a lot because i play basketball & i did weightlifting for a few months. i weighed the same, but some fat turned into muscle. soo yeah it kind of depends on your body type. saying your 'skinny' doesn't have to do with how much you weigh, but how much body fat you have. you can go do the doctor to figure out your body fat percentage.
-hope that helped!♥
is there a tracker for myspace that actually works???? all the ones i have gotten into dont do anythinggg
nope. its a rumor thats going around. myspace doesn't allowed trackers. soo yeah definately ignore those bulletins.
-hope that helped!♥
Hey, my bestfriends ex-boyfriend cheated on her again with the same person after already breaking up with her. She's worried he'll come back.
back to her you mean?? that's definately a possibility. usually cheaters come back. your friend has to be strong & confident in herself. she can't give in, because like the saying 'once a cheater always a cheater', sometimes it is true. they can be friends, but as far as a relationship goes?? thats kindve up to them. juss tell her to be confident about it & don't do something she doesn't want to.
-hope that helped!♥
If you run away and get caught, what kind of trouble could you get in?
if you mean by your parents, you'll probably get in a lot of trouble. but anyways, there's actually a lot of situations you can get in. once the cops are involved (which is almost always), you'll get fined a lot, because they'll eventually find out where you are & then you (or your parents) have to pay them money for searching for you. have you ever heard of that story about the runaway bride?? she was on the news for awhile. yeah, she was convicted & went to jail for that. soo it's definately something you don't want to do.
-hope that helped!♥
okay im 13/female . and i`ve had this BEST FRIEND [ danielle ] for like 3 years . not that long but we did everything together . we went on vacation and everything . and then my other best friend [zoey ] got mad at me and got all my other friends mad at me [ its been 6 months ] and she still is gettin people mad at me. but she got my best friend mad at me and then we made up ! but whenever zoey found out that danielle was friends with me again she would flip and then tell her that i was spreading rumors and stuff like that about danielle . which really i never did but my friend danielle got mad at me for talking about her [ from what zoey said ] and didnt talk to me for 2 months . and zoey and her friends finally admitted to lying . but dont want her talking to me but zoey is mad at danielle now for being friends with me and all the girls that are friuends with danielle she hates . how can i get zoey to stop ruining peoples lives? [ she thinks shes all tht because she has a popular boyfriend . thats why shes acting like this ]
this is definately teenage girl drama!! i know what you mean though. best friend situations can get really weird. that's why my best friend is also my bf haha =). well anyways, what you have to do is talk to zoey about danielle. danielle is involved, but at the same time she's not. why?? because you are friends with danielle & zoey, meaning you have to deal with their problems. zoey definately shouldn't be jealous. there's no rule saying 'you must have one best friend'. that's not true whatsoever. i understand if zoey & danielle don't get along, but instead of being best friends with danielle only, how about the rest of the girls?? you should spend time with danielle one weekend & then the next hang out with zoey & the other girls. plus its summer, so you'll have a lot more time to do that. believe it er not, it won't always be this way. once hs is over, you'll only have a few close friends & some drama leaves but some doesn't. juss try to even out the time with both of your friends.
-hope that helped!♥
I was about 7 when i first fingered myself; obviously, i didnt have my period then. I also used the pool jet to masterbate. I didn't know that's what it actually was called or that it could lead to problems later in life. I heard that it can give you cervical cancer. I'm really really scared. Is that true, what is the risk, and would I know if I have cancer by now if i'm 14.
here's a website-
http://cervical-cancer.hpv.com/causes-of-cervical-cancer.html
to start off, it says in the article, it develops between ages 35-55. being age 14, that wouldn't make much sense. i've never heard of that. to actually get it, it takes many years. you can prevent getting it. you can do that by pap tests & pelvic exams. your gyno will perform these when you schedule an appointment. there aren't like really visible symptoms (other than tests) but i'm sure you'll notice something. for now, don't worry too much about it. you're still young, but it won't hurt to go to the gyno to get checked out, juss because you did do that stuff in the past & you don't want any infections.
-hope that helped!♥
I have iTunes and I know somewhere you can request the people at apple to put songs on there that you can't find. I've seen it a billion times it's called Request a song, but lately I can't find it. Does anyone know how to do this? thanks much ringo.
they changed it. instead of it being "request a song" they made it a bit different. sometimes, they use it as an iMIX which is basically a thing that has songs you want to request that someone made & then there's a rating with 5 stars. you submit the rating to see if you want the song to be added to iTUNES. if you go to any song in the iTUNES music store there's a thing that says 'TOP iMIXES' in the top blue part & then it has iMIXES that people made. once you find that, there's a link that says 'how do you make an IMIX'. you can browse through & rate the song you're looking for.
-hope that helped!♥
there is this guy that i like. he likes me also. but he is sexual more experienced then i am. i havent had sex yet, he has. i feel like if i tell him that i havent had sex that he wont like me. guys. is this true. are you turned off by girls who havent had sex yet?
i know i'm not a guy, but really all guys are different. yes some are turned off by that & yes some are turned on back that. it depends on the guy. you have to be honest with him though. he might like it er he might not. he'll definately know you're clean & don't have stds er anything. wouldn't that be a turn on?? haha =) so yeah, it depends on the guy. if he doesn't like you because you never had sex (which probably won't happen), do you want to be with him anyway?? really, that's shallow & most guys aren't like that.
-hope that helped!♥
me and my group of friends about 9 of us always hang out together. theres 5 girls and they are each different. i noticed that they are competitive. because 1 of them im really good friends with and she tells me everything. she tells me about what the other girls say about her and how they said things to make her feel bad, because 2 of them liked my other friend rob.
it's a big mess, but now the other girls started to tell me stuff too. you kno what they all said? not to tell any1 anything they told me. so now almost all of them tell me things about how they dont like 1 or 2 of them because of things they said to them or said to other people. its confusing and they are trying to out-do the other just for my friend, and just to make sure that 1 girl doesnt get more attention than the other.
2 questions: why all this competition, i mean are girls always like this? and two, what should i do, stay out of it or help them? i've known them for a long time and i like all of them as friends, but they dont seem to get along. please help me
i definately know what you're talking about. my friend is extremely competitive & everyone notices & no one says anything. why?? she's nice & they don't want her offended, but she overdoes it at times & it can become really annoying. girls aren't always like this, but yes it's really common. you shouldn't tell the other girls what a girl told you. why?? because if they wanted the girls to know, they wouldn't of told you not to. you should probably talk to each of them seperately & explain how you feel about their situation. you could stay out've it for some time, but you'll eventually need to help anyway. juss talk to each & see what you can do.
-hope that helped!♥
I have a question for all of you out there. I really love this one girl except for the fact that I discovered something I didn't like about her. She's a stripper. And I would like to know if you think it's good or bad to be a stripper and give me reasons why it's good or bad. Please explain in great detail.
this could definately be a turn off. some strippers take their job really seriously & don't do things with guys at their work. some can be presentable & juss strip & then be done with it, while others get more "friendly" & go on. it would probably be a bad idea to get into a relationship with a stripper, unless you truly trust her. why?? guys will be 'wanting' her basically all the time on her job. that's probably not a turn on for you. you need to talk to her about it. if she's serious about you & your relationship, it wouldn't be a problem dating her, but if you are a jealous person, you're probably chasing the wrong girl. she won't give up her career for you (definately unlikely) but if you truly trust her than its fine. juss be prepared & don't let your feelings be hurt if it doesn't work out. her job is very sexual & what not, so you have to be aware of her surroundings on the job. you should talk to her about it & see where you want to take it from there.
-hope that helped!♥