okay this is not about me . well i was friends with this girl and shes going out with a kid that shes in love with and he loves her well anyway i heard that he cheated on her and had sex with other girls [ hes only 14 ] . i told the girl and we started talking as friends again but then the other girl that told me about it got mad at me for telling i mean was it wrong to tell her seeing it was her boyfriend? please help bc i try to exp-lain that it was the right thing to do. thanks♥
jumadel answered Sunday July 16 2006, 9:36 pm: Hi, you were looking out for her and that proves that you are being a caring friend. There is no wrong in that. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
skater answered Sunday July 16 2006, 1:37 pm: just tell your friend if she wants to get mad go ahead but when she has a boyfriend and he cheats on her remind her that you wont tel her...let her know that what you did was right...you know i dont think she wouldve gotten so mad if this was the truth...mabey she was lieing and she didnt want people to find out or something then again this is a guess,, have a talk with these to friends just remeber you did nothing wrong [ skater's advice column | Ask skater A Question ]
missmissgurl answered Sunday July 16 2006, 1:02 pm: I can understand why she would get mad, you blabbed a very important secret without asking. I would of told my friend if I were you though, I agree it is the right thing to do. I just think you should of told your other friend that you were going to tell this girl. You might want to apologize to your friend and tell her you think it was the right thing to do but realized you should of at least informed her you were going to tell. That's all you really can do. Good Luck!!! [ missmissgurl's advice column | Ask missmissgurl A Question ]
caramella answered Sunday July 16 2006, 11:45 am: the girl that got mad at you for telling can STAY mad if she wants.if you tried explaining to her that its the right thing to do and she wont listen then she obviously doenst care about you helping your friend so forget about her ...your freind is more important and needs to know the truth...wouldnt it feel awful if your freind knew your boyfreind was cheating on you and didnt tell you to save you from falling in deeper love?you did the right thing and dont apologize to the other girl cuz you did the right thing.good for you [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Sunday July 16 2006, 11:31 am: i think you should've told her. if you wouldn't of told her, she probably would've gotten mad anyway. it's a bad situation, but it is her boyfriend & she should know. he probably wouldn't of said anything anyway. i don't think she's mad at you (even if she says she is) for telling her. shes probably juss mad at the whole situation. i think you did the right thing.
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