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thios girl..
okay im 13/female . and i`ve had this BEST FRIEND [ danielle ] for like 3 years . not that long but we did everything together . we went on vacation and everything . and then my other best friend [zoey ] got mad at me and got all my other friends mad at me [ its been 6 months ] and she still is gettin people mad at me. but she got my best friend mad at me and then we made up ! but whenever zoey found out that danielle was friends with me again she would flip and then tell her that i was spreading rumors and stuff like that about danielle . which really i never did but my friend danielle got mad at me for talking about her [ from what zoey said ] and didnt talk to me for 2 months . and zoey and her friends finally admitted to lying . but dont want her talking to me but zoey is mad at danielle now for being friends with me and all the girls that are friuends with danielle she hates . how can i get zoey to stop ruining peoples lives? [ she thinks shes all tht because she has a popular boyfriend . thats why shes acting like this ]
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You know what? I went through the same thing in school. I feel your pain.
I had a friend named Danielle (she's still my friend). We met in the 3rd grade and became the best of friends. As we got older, she would get so mad and jealous if I made other friends and hung out with them. This would cause the same drama you are going through now.It's a hard situation to work through.
I know that if Zoey is telling your Danielle that you are spreading rumours about her, your best bet is to go straight to Danielle and talk about it with her. If she won't talk to you at school amongst her friends, etc., stop by her house sometime. It seems as though she is a better friend to you than Zoey is.
When did Zoey flip out on you? Was it around the time you became close with Danielle? If so, she was probably only using Danielle as a pawn to hurt you. That being the case, she was never Danielle's friend to begin with. Especially since you say she now hates Danielle and her friends. I imagine she hates her because she doesn't need her pawn now that summer has arrived.
Try to work it out with Danielle. She probably misses you more than you think. Zoey, on the other hand, will just need some time to grow up a little. There will probably be a day when she wants to be friends with you for real.
Try not to let them get you down and keep that chin up.
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this is definately teenage girl drama!! i know what you mean though. best friend situations can get really weird. that's why my best friend is also my bf haha =). well anyways, what you have to do is talk to zoey about danielle. danielle is involved, but at the same time she's not. why?? because you are friends with danielle & zoey, meaning you have to deal with their problems. zoey definately shouldn't be jealous. there's no rule saying 'you must have one best friend'. that's not true whatsoever. i understand if zoey & danielle don't get along, but instead of being best friends with danielle only, how about the rest of the girls?? you should spend time with danielle one weekend & then the next hang out with zoey & the other girls. plus its summer, so you'll have a lot more time to do that. believe it er not, it won't always be this way. once hs is over, you'll only have a few close friends & some drama leaves but some doesn't. juss try to even out the time with both of your friends.
-hope that helped!♥
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