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i dont know if i got my point across


Question Posted Tuesday July 18 2006, 2:20 am

so a long time ago i liked this guy named (lets call him J).(were 13). so one day he told me he was leaving the school so i decided to tell him i liked him on text, because i was too scared to do it otherwise. but yeah i was tlking to him and told him, and i dont knoe if he even got my point!! this is almost like how it went( if i can remember):

me: ...well yeah i dont want you to think im stupid
him: i wont
me: well.. i kinda.. like you.. but i dont want you thinking im weird for sayin this or anything
him: "laugh out loud" ( cant use chatroom speech haha)
me: ahh i feel like an idiot
him: dont feel like an idiot
me:okayy this is gettin kidna awkward
him: "laugh out loud"

i dont know i cant remember the exact messages. i dont know if he thinks i was joking or somthing because one time my friend "s" told him she liked him and he was like 'really'? and she sed 'no im just kidding' and hes like 'okay good' so i dont know if hes afraid to belive it or just didnt belive it beacuse everyone always said he liked me and he always did really nice things for me like yell at this kid for throwin a pen cap at me and my friends told me he blushed one day when j's friend brought up the subject of me and him going out or somthing. nothing ever happend tho, and now i dont even see him cuz he goes to a diff school. its just something that always bothers me. what do i do?
sorry tihs was loong by the way =( haha


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eternitysofbliss answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 10:46 am:
uhh to me it looks like he was trying to avoid responding to you. It seems that he either doesnt like you or doesnt want to start something when he is not going to see you ever or he could think its a joke. Actually there are many possibilities. Move on, find a new guy. It seems the only way to go.

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xomegaroni answered Tuesday July 18 2006, 10:41 am:
he probably was surprised. plus, it is a text message & it isn't like you actually saw his expression er something, so it could be something different than what you think. he probably believes it i mean you didn't say you were joking. you could let him know again, because you thought he didn't believe you. the only thing you can do is talk to him about it. you don't want to overdo it though, because then he might feel that you're pushing for something he isn't. he might like you, but the only way for you to find out is talking to him about it.

-hope that helped!♥

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