Sometimes you'll think a boy has changed but he didnt
Question Posted Saturday July 15 2006, 11:59 am
Hey, my bestfriends ex-boyfriend cheated on her again with the same person after already breaking up with her. She's worried he'll come back.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Brandi_S answered Saturday July 15 2006, 2:32 pm: If she's worried he'll come back to her (which he very possibly will) she needs to keep in mind how much he hurt her in the past by cheating on her.
Sure, he's going to probably beg and grovel and say he's changed and he'll never do it again, but she shouldn't fall for that babble. Babble is all it is.
You said he cheated again? So he's done this to her more than once? That makes him a repeat offender. Odds are that he will do it again. There is a famous saying, "once a cheater, always a cheater."
She needs to get together with a guy who will treat her right, and not a bum who will wipe his feet on her. Because sounds to me like this guy is a bum she needs get rid of. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Saturday July 15 2006, 1:54 pm: back to her you mean?? that's definately a possibility. usually cheaters come back. your friend has to be strong & confident in herself. she can't give in, because like the saying 'once a cheater always a cheater', sometimes it is true. they can be friends, but as far as a relationship goes?? thats kindve up to them. juss tell her to be confident about it & don't do something she doesn't want to.
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