about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

okay i still love my x boyfriend but everytime i talk to him i always seem to have some reason to fight w/him..but i love him with all my heart? is it because i'm jealous that some other girl is going to come into his life and steal him away? i really need help because for the past 4 months i can't seem to get over him..we've dated 2 times but it never worked out..cause we fight all the time..he used to start the fight but now it's me who does..i love him so much! and i just wish that i could understand why i start fights with him..i've told him before that i'd rather have bad times with him than good times with anyone else..and we've both admited that we love fighting with each other because we ALWAYS make up. i can't understand why i like it though..please help me!! thanks

i think the only reason why you and your x boyfriend fight is because you guys still care about each other still. maybe you guys should try to hook back up and try working things out.. it isnt a bad thing that you guys care about each other so much.. hope this helsp you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey i am 13 and i live in australia. So when me and my boyfriend talk, he always looks at my lips and mouth...its kinda weird..i dont reli care about it but its just..weird...>

he might just want to kiss you or he likes lookin at your lips. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Im from the uk. And we all have our own slang words or buzz words for things. What does making out mean in like american terms or to anyone really! All help greatley appreciated,
thanks
anthony

making out means kissing but with some tongue action in it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok a few days ago my boyfriend was messing around down there, and he asked what these weird, almost square-like things are inside the hole. i never noticed before, but do you know what i'm talking about? kinda like ridges, but yea. i was just wondering if that's normal; i don't really know why it wouldn't be, but just incase. thanx!

yes it is normal. your vagina is a muscle and it should have that.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay i think i have pink eye my eyes really icth and
there swellen i were contacts if thats any help but is there any way i can stop the ichin or anything it might be other than pink eye? i rate 5s

ok first off take your contacts out of your eyes. then your goin to think i am crazy but make some tea and dont let me too hot and get soem cottn balls or a clothe dap the cottn ball in the tea(that put in a bowl) and put that cotton ball that ahs tea on it on your eye 4 10 minutes and put it in the tea again and do it again MAKE SURE YOU DONT USE THE SAME COTTON BALL FOR BOTH EYES. then get some warm water and do the same thing. this will clean up your eye. hope this helps. if this doesnt help you out the go to the doctor they should be able to help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i thought that if you were under 13 years old you are not allowed to have an advicenators account! lately i've been seeing people asking questions and starting out like hey i'm 12/13 years old ect, ect! was the age ban taken off?!

yea i have noticed that to but i guess people have been liein about there age to get an account on here. the age thing hasnt been takin off i just checked.
*~Stephanei~*

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My sister and I planned a one week vacation in Paris. She lives in Colorado and I live in California so we do not get to see each other often. I made all the arrangements and was very much looking forward to going. Recently, she got back together with her boyfriend and has canceled her trip with me because she would rather do something with her boyfriend. I feel hurt about my sister's choice and resentful towards her boyfriend (although my sister says it was solely her decision). I say she can see her boyfriend every weekend and during the week too and that she can go on vacation with him next year. She says this is her only opportunity to go on a vacation this year with him and she doesn't want to miss it. I know my relationship with my sister is more important than any vacation, but I'm having trouble feeling ok about this. Should my sister have honored her commitment to me? Should I just get over it and wish them well on their vacation?

no guy is worth more then your family especail since she doesnt see you often. i think you should feel hurt but it was ur sister choice and not yours. try talkin to her and tellin her that what she is doin is a mistake. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have been dating this girl for almost a year. Our relationship had been going great, accually it was amazing and I fell in love with her, and she says she fell in love with me. Then she took a trip for about a month and became close with a whole group of people that I dont really know, we talked a lot during the begining of the trip but kind of faded during the last half. She denys cheating on me while there, even though I kind of think she did. Now that shes back, she barely touches me. We have had sex 3 times in the past 5 weeks (we see each other maybe 2-3 times a week). She says when we get back to school things will be back to normal, and that us dating is the first time she has brought her school life home, because it is different for her. I just dont know what to do, she barely touches me anymore and is becoming harder and harder to get her to hang out with me. We used to do everything together, now it seems like we only hang out if I bring it up. Whats going on with her?

i think if you love this girl you should be able to trust her and if you feel that you are drifting away from her talk her about it and tell her how you feel.. you should keep tellin her o you cheated on me if you dont noe the truth..when you have been sperated from someone you love for a while and like you try to make the most out of ur experince while you are gone and then come back from the trip it is a lil hard to go back to how thingas used to be.. try talkin to her and tellin her how you feel. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do u make those hearts on myspace and stuff..??

& hearts ; put that together you would get ♥ hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i need help finding music for a dance of hip hop or rap

* play ;david banner
* if i can hit it; 112 ft TI
* Touch; Amerie
* you got me ; B5
* beyonce and destinys child got some good dancin music
* ass in your face; ebony eyes
* bounce; fatty koo
* you can do it; ice cube
* twist it; oliva ft lloyed bank
* come on baby ; mario
* here i go again; mario
* pop that botty; maraques houston
* loose control; missy elliot ft cierra
* Energy ; natile
* ok ; nievea
* touch; omarion
* i need a girl part one and two ; p.diddy
* move your body like a snake; r. kelly
* sean paul has good dance music
* shake that shit; shawanna ft ludacris
* drop it like its hot; snoop dog
* switch; will smith
* badd; ying yang twins ft mike jones
* saltshaker; ying yang twins
* get low; ying yang twins and lil john
* shake ; pitbul ft ying yang twins
*pitbul has a lot of dance able music.

this is all i can think of rigt now. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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On Saturday night I went to my best friend, Sidonie's party. A guy that she broke up with a month or so ago was there and I really liked him. We ended up kissing and the next day he asked me out, I said yes. Now I'm not so sure if I made the right decision by saying yes to him. For a start, I just feel like his rebound girl. When my best friend broke up with him he was very upset and I don't think he's fully over her. He keeps saying things like "You're so much like Sidonie." Which is kind of irritating and off putting. Secondly, I hardly know him and I wont be able to see him much as he lives on the other side of my city. I do like him but I'm not so sure if I want to just be his rebound girl, should I break up with him or see how it goes?

i think you should give it some time.. he might not be over your friend but maybe if he gets to know you better then he will stop tellin you ur like his friend..if it bothers you tell him how you feel about him sayin that your like ur friend.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok... i see my boyfriend every day for at least 3 hours or so... well he works during the week...

is it weird that i miss him all day?

people tell me i'm too dependent on him but i just love him


and i miss him

i think it is ok that you are like that. i mean i talk to my boyfriend 5 hours a day and i am always missin him.. it is because you love him and you want to be with him, there isnt nothin wrong wtih that. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it weird that he refuses to shoot his load in my mouth? He always squirms when he's abotu to cum so that i take my mouth of it

maybe he doesnt want to put it in your mouth.. if you want it in then talk to the guy about it. tell him that you want it in your mouth. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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it hurts when i take my tampon out, is this normal?

yes it is normal..because you are takin somethin out from you body that was there and your body was used it then you take it out. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Can you change you name on Advicenators with out having to make a new accout and without having to pay?

sry but you cant change your username on here. if you change it you will have to start all over. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hi the kid i like is online right now and i want to tell him how i really feel about him how can i get the courage to tell him?
jess

if you like him then talk to him... if your too scared to tell him how you feel then i think you should start being really close friends with him then you tell him how you feel so then it wont be so hard and that you got to know him first and noe that he likes you be4 tellin him how you feel. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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heres my big Q is on my column I want to put a image on it but have no Idea how? if you want to check it out my column am opin8ed thanks a bunch.

if you want to put a picture on ur site go to profile settings, and if you have the link go under "url a picture of you" and put it there, or go to "upload a picture of you" if the picture's in your computer, go to browse and find it.. if the picture is too big 4 the site go to www.tinypic.com and upload it there and it will shrink it 4 you. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i was w/a guy for 3 years them he moved to texas and now he came back after a year and people told him alot of mean things aboutme and npw he hates me any advice will rate high if advice is good.

talk to him and tell him the truth. explain to him how you feel about him and that everythin other people wasnt true. if he doesnt believe you then i dont think he is worth your time.. because if he doesnt trust taht what your saying is true then it might not work out... i think that since you guys were in a 3 year realtionship that he should be able to listen to you.. maybe try to bring back some of the good memories you guys had and make him smile. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Just wanted to say that i love the advice you are giving your a natural!

lol ok thanks..i love doing this..

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alright so iv been dating this guy for almost 9 months now and me and him broke up about 15 times and the last time we broke up was bc he lied to me about stuff he did with a girl (back at the pond he kissed her and she touched his dick n all this) and he lied about it he swore on my life that nothing happened and he swore on our relationship. . . and i believed him of course then yesterday his cousin told me the truth . . . and i asked him about and he addmitted it i was like OMG! then we broke up and he said whateverrr!! really mean and i hung up and he didnt even call me back and i didnt believe his cousin i was like no he loves me too much he wouldnt lie. . . but he did lie! and he cried a lot and begged for me back for like 24 hours or so and i reallyyyyy love him with all my heart but during the almost 9 months like in the beginging he was soo nice then he just started lien to me a lot. . . and i found out and asked him about everything and he told me he wasnt hiding anything else and i believed him and that was after we dated for 5 months or so and he was really good after that then he flirted with a girl right in front of me which that hurt so bad!! then he called me a bitch and hit me 4 times but i really love him and this time i took him back bc i love him soo much. . . did i make a bad mistake??

let me break it down for you.. i am sry if i hurt ur heart more but you need to know the truth.. you made a big mistake. you deserve to be trested with respect and honesty and be loved not played. this guy doesnt like you otherwise he would not have done alll that stuff to you. you need to 4get about this jerk and find yourself a Man not a guy that is goin to play these games with you... you need to leave him alone and find another boyfriend..hope this helps you out. and i wish you the best of luck.
*~Stephanie~*

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