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Missing him
Ok... i see my boyfriend every day for at least 3 hours or so... well he works during the week...
is it weird that i miss him all day?
people tell me i'm too dependent on him but i just love him
and i miss him
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I know you love him but you need to be more dependent on yourself if you don't your whole life will be about him and when or if he brakes up with you will be lost and you might not have money or a house so get out into the world and be more dependent and if that does not work you should get some space from him
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~AskElyssa~
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that's totally ok. just make sure that you aren't calling him when he's at work or stalking him or anything weird. its totally normal to miss someone you love
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i'm the same way. i'd be on the phone with my boyfriend for like 2 hours and as soon as we'd hang up i'd miss him..or i saw him everyday for a week for 3 hours each day (we don't live in the same town so i don't get to see him much) but everyday we'd have to go home and say goodbye..i'd miss him like crazy..i'd rush home to call him or to get on the computer and talk to him. you're not dependent you're just very much in love with this guy. don't lose him..and good luck with him.
<33 with love nickie
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your not weird dont worry.. ♥ Dez
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Its not at all abnormal that you miss your boyfriend. I miss Matthew when hes gone. Its not like a deathly situation but its not wierd. It doesnt mean your too dependent on him~ it just means that you care a lot about him, which is a good thing! I think its sweet. Thanks for the question and feel free to drop one in my inbox anytime!
&heartsl;Emily
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It's not weird at all for you to miss your bf. You've grown close to him by dating and it's hard to want to talk to someone you love and not be able to. Some people may say you're too dependent because they haven't found that special someone yet. It's normalto miss someone you love.
aeromonkey
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That's not weird at all. I mean you cant help that you love him or anything!! Who cares what they say tho. They are just jelous.
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It's npt weird that you miss him.... my bf works everyday from morning till like 10 at night... so I know how you feel. I'm very lucky if I get to spend a whole day with him. You are not too dependent... you just like being around him and you love him, so obviously you are gonna miss him when he's not around. Try and keep yourself busy while he's gone. Hang out with your friends or something.
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No it's not weird that you miss him. I'm the same way with my boyfriend. He works from like 7 in the morning till 2 or 3 in the afternoon and after that hes got a meeting until like 5. But after that Im with him for the rest of the night and I still miss him like crazy when we are apart. People tell me the same thing all the time. But your young... In Love.... Let people talk... You have a right to feel the way you feel...
Hope This Helped
*~Jackie*~
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i think it is ok that you are like that. i mean i talk to my boyfriend 5 hours a day and i am always missin him.. it is because you love him and you want to be with him, there isnt nothin wrong wtih that. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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Well no it isnt weird that you miss him of youre in love i mean come on. So what if people talk. Let them; you know how you feel. You know you love him and that you miss him no1 else does. So no it isnt rong 2 miss him even if u do c him. If u didnt miss him thered b sumthion rong with you. As i always say. Follow YOURE heart and do what your e heart wants. Let them all talk only you know how you feel inside!
Hope i helped,
Anthony
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its ok for you to miss him bc you love him. but if you get TOO atached to him and you guys have probems then your gonna be extremely sad. you dont want to mope around for the rest of you life do you? well, i think that you should do something while your missing him. like, go see a movie, or go for a bike ride or jog. any of those things to get your mind off of him. good luck and feel free to ask anything else.
♥ cookierat123
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OK, you seem like you are in love with him and i understand but don't get obsessed with missing him! It's ok to miss him! Rate HIGH!
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thats fine! when you love someone you think about them all the time. and so you miss him! there is nothing wrong with that.
♥ nicole
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Its perfectly fine! You just LOVE HIM!
Clair
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Its not weird, i know how it is. im missing alot of people right now and ive just been sad all day. just concentrate on your friends and stuff it will pass the time away.
<33
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Meh, your slightly dependent, but not really. I miss my boy all the freakn time but i only seem him a couple days of the week. its not weird that you miss him, just don't whine about it to your friends a lot they probably get annoyed with that.
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hehe i don't mean to imply you do whine, but i know when i do my friends say im dependent.
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Being that you see him all the time i think its a bit much to be missing him all day..I could understand if maybe you only saw him a couple times a week but you see him everyday which shouldnt leave you missing him that much when hes not there. I understand that you love him but you need to be able to enjoy time when hes not around..like by hangin with friends, going places, doing normal stuff and not constantly missing him like that..you sound like your a bit dependant on him..i mean the love thing is great and congrats on being in love :) ...but try to occupy yourself with activities and have fun when hes not there..you see him everyday..your lucky!
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