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I got my period 7 monthes ago but im still getting discharge... does it ever stop!

No, you will get discharge throughout most of your life. It's perfectly natural and normal, every woman gets it.

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every time i try to answer a question n i submit it...it says chatspeak detected please type in english...wut does that mean?

It means you're using too many shortened versions of words such as 'r' or 'u'. All you have to do to get your question submitted is to right it in full words.

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My period started early today and im going shopping tomorrow!! It wouldnt be a problem or anything but i have really heavy periods and the 2nd day is always the heaviest. Tomorrow is gonna be the 2nd day! im not calling it off because i cant let my friends down and ive wanted to get some cds and stuff im buying tomorrow for ages. any suggestions, like how i can cope and what i should do?! and when i say heavy i mean really heavy as have to use night pads in the day and change them every 2 hours.

Jbdreamer is right, you are going to have to learn how to deal with this kind of thing. Change your pad right before you leave, bring a couple with you so you can change them if necessary and change again as soon as you get home.

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(sorry i didnt know what category!!) ok i just started shaving my legs and should i shave in the direction my hair is growing or the opposite way?? please help im so confused!

With legs it's okay to shave in the opposite direction to the hair. If you want to make sure they are extra smooth, then shave the opposite way then the same way to remove any extra hairs.

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i have 8 welts on my stomach from playen paintball its been 2 weeks and they still havnt gone away. how do i make them go away

i rate high

You will just have to wait until they go. I went paintballing with some friends a couple of months ago and one friend got badly hit on her neck. It has only just gone, you will just have to wait. You could try rubbing a cream such as Arnica, which is specially for things like bruises and such, on it every evening to speed things up but I'm not sure if it would work.

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Thsi will sound stupid alot, but I'm only 12. My heath teacher didn't explain this to us, She explained everything else exept this. ( I also give advice) Okay, what the heck is STD?

An STD is a sexually transmitted disease. They are also referred to as STIs. They are infections such as AIDS, HIV and Chlamydia which can be passed on during unprotected sex.

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what things would you recommend to do for fun with the gorgeous girl i call mine?

Take her to the cinema, take her for a meal/pizza type thing, for a coffee, invite her round to your house to watch films and stuff, go for walks with her, have a picnic with her, bowling, swimming, take her shopping, take her dancing, just hang out at each other's houses listening to music and talking, if you both support the same sports team then take her to one of their games, go ice skating, meet up with a whole bunch of you and your girlfriend's friends and do something with them. I'm sure anything would be fun as long as you are both together.

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there is this boy i rly love ...and he asked this other girl out. i was so upset about this that i became anerexic for awhile.
can u please help me figure out how 2 get over him!
thx,
anonomous

You have got to the point where you are physically relying on this guy and that is never good. You shouldn't let a guy take over your life so that you can't live without him and that you make yourself ill. I honestly don't think you really love him, sure you may like him a lot but love is only love if the feeling is mutual. There is no easy way to get over people, just spend time with your friends and do things to take your mind off it. Eventually I promise you that you will get over him, it could take months, years, whatever but eventually you will. Try to meet new people and get out there. I think some of your problem stems from self confidence so try to build that up too, tell yourself you are great and that you are a good person, believe me it works. It took me months to get over my first serious boyfriend and it's taken me longer to get confident, I'm still working on that. Have faith in yourself and eventually I swear to you, you will get there.

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okay well today is my sisters birthday, she is turning 8, i made her 2 cds with all of her favorie songs on it, adn nowi have to make cases for the cds. what should i put on it, ive already got the songs listed but what sort of picture should i out on it, shes having a beach party, so if that helps out!! but please help, i need ideas... thanks!

I think it would be really cool if on the computer you pasted pictures of some of the artist on the CDs onto a beach scene. If you're not too keen on that then have a collage of pictures of the artists or just a beach scene.

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i broke up with my bf of 2 months today b/c of lack of communication. he wasnt crushed at all..i dont think we meant anything to him but anyway, its the second last day of school before summer. how long should i wait before i go with his friend? we both really like each other and he actually cares about me. hes my friend's ex and im his friends ex..any opinions? tell me what u honestly think...i wont take away from the rating. thanks!

Just go out with the guy. Your friend is over him, your boyfriend is over you. No one will care. People worry far too much about this kind of thing nowadays, it's already been two months just go for it.

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i like this one girl, and she's really sweet. we've made out a couple of times, but we don't have a serious relationship. my mom is threatening to disown me because of our relationship. not because we're both girls, but because she's also my sister's daughter. but i think that my mom is completely over-reacting, because i really like this girl. should i continue to see this girl and strengthen our relationship, or should i break it off so my mom loves me again?

It is wrong to have a relationship with your niece. It's illegal, it is incest. Can't you see your mother's point of view on this? It is wrong. It's fine to have relationships with black people, anyone from any different culture, other girls, guys, whatever but family members? I think it is legal to have relationships with cousins and more distant reletives but you can't be doing this with your niece. End it now before it causes furthur problems.

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I have a friend moving away to England during the summer (we currently live in America). I want to put together a mix CD for her. Are there any suggestions of songs I should use? Keep in mind that both me and her HATE rap and urbanish songs...

The songs should be like, about never forgetting her and having fun and stuff... I don't know, things that would remind you of someone who was moving away, if that made sence. Thank you!

I can think of one song that would be absolutely awesome for this kind of thing. If you haven't heard it, then listen to Good Riddance (Time Of Your Life) by Green Day. It would work really well on the CD. The lyrics are below so you can see how fitting it is.

Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road
Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go
So make the best of this test, and don't ask why
It's not a question, but a lesson learned in time

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

So take the photographs, and still frames in your mind
Hang it on a shelf in good health and good time
Tattoos of memories and dead skin on trial
For what it's worth it was worth all the while

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

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I was looking at your column and I was just wondering how you do your make up, please could you tell me?

Sure, here we go.

Firstly I use a pale foundation (to match my natural complexion) all over my face and blend it in. Next I powder my whole face with translusent powder to take away shine and to even things out. Then I line my top eyelid with black eyeliner but not too much. Next I use an eye shadow applicator sponge to brush a pale shimmery eye shadow accross my upper eyelid and just below my lower lash line. After that, I line it with the same black eyeliner that I use on my top lid. Then I get a black eyeshadow and apply it carefully on top of the eyeliner on my lower lash line. Next I cover the opposite end to the sponge on an eye shadow brush with the corner of a face wipe and gently run it under my eye to neaten up the lines. Finally I apply black mascara to both my upper and lower lashes.

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I am trying to get some really cute skirts... Do you know of anyplace that has cute summer/winter skirts that are cheap? I am trying to get a style and I have found I like the vintage. If you could give me the websites or even the names of some stores, that would be more than helpful !ThAnKyOu!
~*~mAdDiE~*~

Try checking out http://www.ebay.com or .co.uk for the UK version. Get a membership and type in vintage skirts, it will come up with hundereds and the chances are you will find one that you like and be able to get it quite cheaply.

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is it okay for a girl to have sex with another girl? cause if you like don't have a penis what do you stick up her, you know "thingy" ?

thanks for the help.
sugar ugar ugar lips

You ask if it is okay for a girl to have sex with another girl, if you mean 'is it okay, normal, etc' then yes it is. If you want to know how they do it then the answer is below.

Girls use things like strap on dildos, their fingers, tongues, hands, vibrators, other sex toys anything really. They use their tongues and hands on each other's vaginas, take part in mutual masturbation, rub each other, play with each other's sexual organs, etc. They are very creative when it comes to sex.

Also, in your additional info, you call the people who say you are a lesbian racists. Exactly what has lesbianity got to do with racism? And please, you seem to be able to use the word 'penis', why is there such a problem with using the word 'vagina'?

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I like this guy... he's really funny and really cute. But I don't know if he likes me. I'm way too chicken to ask him out, but I talk to him all the time. Is there anything I can do to see if he likes me? Please tell me if there are, and don't make it one of those, "just go for it" answers PLEASE!

Okay. Well. I suggest you get a close trusted friend to talk to this guy about you and find out whether he likes you, pretending that you don't know anything about it. It works better if the friend who talks to him for you is also friends with him as he will be more likely to talk about it with someone he trusts. Good luck.

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im kinda changin my music style to like skatorish .... so can you give me a few good songs i would probably like to listen to ... like pretty grl, my paper heart, Mr. Brightside ... those kinds of songs ! thank you mucho

Firstly, Mr. Brightside is not 'skatorish' as you put it. Mr. Brightside is by The Killers and they are an indie rock band. I'm not all that sure what you mean by 'skatorish', I'm guessing you would like bands such as Blink 182, Limp Bizkit, Papa Roach, Sum 41, Taking Back Sunday, Yellowcard, most emo bands etc. I also think Lostprophets would be good for the type of music I think you mean.

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What colour does it turn your hair if you have black hair?

It probably wont make a huge amount of difference, it will probably go a dark/mid brown colour.

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This is more of a suggestion than a question. Your one of my favorite columnist, so I was going to check out your column today, but I couldn't read it. The blue on black is impossible to read. A black (dark) background for type is really hard on the eyes. You may want to rethink your color choices.

I can read it fine, maybe the colours show up diffferently on your browser. If it is really that much of a problem then I'll think about changing them.

EDIT: Yeah, you were right. I've changed it, let me know if it's still hard to read.

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what are some cute baby girl names?

I hate these types of questions but right now I am very into naming kids with weird/unique names so I have about three that I like. The first one is Erin, it's quite normal really but it's still slightly unique. The second one is Arial. Give it a chance to grow on you because it's really quite nice. Lastly, the name Olive. It's a prettier version of Olivier and it's much more unique.

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