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there is this boy i rly love ...and he asked this other girl out. i was so upset about this that i became anerexic for awhile.
can u please help me figure out how 2 get over him!
thx,
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This happens to <b> everyone </b>. There isn't really an easy way to get over him. It takes a lot of time. I know it may not be easy but think about him. Remember the good times you have. Then you need to talk to him. Tell him you are happy for him. If you really loved him you would be happy for him. He is happy and that should let you know everything is alright. Yes, it is natural to want to get over him and you should. But just remember he is your friend and wants the best for you too. However, you need to find this out yourself. THen you will be fully over him. i hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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Well one thing you could do is try to become the boy's friend. That's what I did when I was in a situation similar to that, and it really helped because it brought me closer to him, but I wasn't upset anymore since I just wanted him to be happy.
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alright look just say positive stuff about yourself dont dwell over little things like taht in your life because that type of crap happens to all of us either way you have to deal with it so you might as well get over it and move on to the next guy just learn to like yourself and behappy you cant depend on other people to make you happy
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You became anorexic? Wow, when I feel rejected, I stuff myself full of chocolate and ice cream and all sorts of other disgusting foods. Though this isn't good for me... well, sugar and caffeine are like a mood booster. << better than drugs!! Just as addictive...
Ok, now to get serious... I suggest a night out with a couple of your friends hunting down guys to hang out with. The only way to get over someone quickly is to force your mind off thinking of them. Get a job, do volunteer work, hang around with your good friends.. whatever makes you feel better.
P.S- this is a fun fact(go alliteration)...since it seems like you might have a problem with your weight/self-esteem (don't take that the wrong way!)::
80% of women claim to be overweight.
About 13% of those women actually are overweight.
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You have got to the point where you are physically relying on this guy and that is never good. You shouldn't let a guy take over your life so that you can't live without him and that you make yourself ill. I honestly don't think you really love him, sure you may like him a lot but love is only love if the feeling is mutual. There is no easy way to get over people, just spend time with your friends and do things to take your mind off it. Eventually I promise you that you will get over him, it could take months, years, whatever but eventually you will. Try to meet new people and get out there. I think some of your problem stems from self confidence so try to build that up too, tell yourself you are great and that you are a good person, believe me it works. It took me months to get over my first serious boyfriend and it's taken me longer to get confident, I'm still working on that. Have faith in yourself and eventually I swear to you, you will get there.
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Babe.. there is no easy way to get over a guy. I mean that takes time. There is 4 things you will need! Friends, a big bowl of ice cream, tissues and meet new dudes!! Good luck! ♥
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