about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

Do you think that it is wrong to talk to an ex while dating someone else? I am with this guy right now and he doesnt trust me so he went into my cell and checked my text messages and found that an ex had been text messaging me. We are in a big arguement now about weather or not its ok to talk to an ex. Please help

my boyfriend talks to most of his ex girlfriends out of kindness i think you should talk to your current boyfriend and tell him something like u should be able to talk to who ever you want and that he should be able to trust you if he doesnt trust you then he really isnt worth your time. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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what website can i go to to get color codes?

http://www.livejournal.com/community/howto/28475.html


scrool down and then you get color codes. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i am MADLY in love with my best guy friend. we're like brother and sister and i LOVE him. i dream about him, think about him.. i can't help myself, i've never had a guy be so nice to me. but there's nothing i can do about it because he's madly in love with my best friend and i've decided not to do anything about it. how do i get out of this hole i fell in? i LOVE him. i don't know what to do.. please someone tell me if this is ever going to go away :(

i think you should like get over him for a while i mean if you think about it right now you cant do anything about it if he likes your friend.. but if you want to get over him just think like this, you think of him as you brother would you ever go out with you brother? i hope not! but if i were i would get over him because he does care a lot about and if he does think of you as a sister and he does go out wit your friend then it is ok because someone who you think of as a family memeber is more important to you then a girlfriend/boyfriend.. so dont worry about it.. go to the mall or some place and meet new guys i am sure you will find someone else that you will start to to like. hope this helps you out. and good luck.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it bad to masterbate?

no it isnt bad but some people dont like doin it.. i personly dont like doin it but there is nothing wrong with doing it. it is a lot more safier then havin sex. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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so i was at the park last night with a couple boys and my best friend. well, this one guy named josh came and sat really close to me and then put his hat on my head. he pretty much only talked to me, and was the only person who'd let have some of his drink. when he left he gave me a hug for a couple minutes. we flirted a whole lot before he left. my best guy friend who was there and my best friend both think he likes me. i dont know what to think. could you help me?

this guy sound like he really likes you.. and if you like him to you should go out with him..hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Does everyone find someone that they love and that loves them?

i think there is but peopel just have to look more to find them.

*~Stephanie~*

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is that a good age to babysit? Because I have had like 2 years of experiance with my 2year old nephew!

no i dont think there is anything wrong with it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Me and my best friend (thats a guy) like each other. And I mean I REALLY like him. But if we end up going out im afraid of losing his friendship in the end. What should I do??

p.s. dont message me and say 'thats a chance your gonna have to take' because we are really good friends and i need a friend like him in my life

this is what i did with my guy friend that i liked a lot and he liked me and it didd work out.. if you want to get into a realtionship with him be4 hookin up say whatever happens between our realtionship i still want us to be friends in the end no matter what.. if you tell him that i think you will be ok.. it will be a lil werid to go out wit your guy friend at first but it will change after a couple days. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i have this b/f and we've been together for a year and it was just my b-day and he got me this really cute bracelet and i love him so much and he loves me.... i think. and my ? is well for the past couple monthes we havnt seen eachother at all except for 2 times and i jsut wanted to know if i should dump him because i never see or talk to him. altho i know school is coming up but i still dont see him that much in school and i wanted to know if somone could please tell me like what to say to him and should i give my bracelet back? please help i'll rate high

i think if you love this guy and he loves you back then you shouldnt dump him.. try talkin to him on the phone or online or try meetin up with him more often.. dont just leave him because you cant seem him all the time..you love this guy you should try to make it work... but if you do decided to break up with him just tell him you want a boyfriend that is always with me that can spend more time with me or something like that and yes i think you should give back the bracelet.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I just started a xanga, and I am really confused about how to put music in there and icons and all the different layouts... if u can help me at all, please do.

i can help you out with your xanga.. you can IM me on aim at soin2youx0x and i will help you out with everything you need help with. it would take forever if i tryed explainin it right here...
*~Stephanie~*

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How does anorexia harm you or your body? I know pukeing will stain your teeth but what else?? cuz if thats it, then whats the harm right?

it harms your body because you body wont be gettin the right protein and it isnt good for your helth.

*~Stephanie~*

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cheerleaders or if you take gymnastics--

when you go for tumbling, what do you do there?..like stretches?(what kinds) and like for the tumbling what do they teach you??..please answer, anyone who can, it'd be a bigg help!..thanks, ill rate high!

ok i dont know if i can help you but i used to take gymnastic classes so yea. ok first they teach you how to stretch ever part of your body (neck, legs, arms, wrist, ankles etc) then you should sign up for the level you are like beggin middle or advance except there are like 5 levels and the teach you what to do step by step and they help you do it until you got it.. i only did it for 2 years but i learned cartwheels, hand stands, back bands, flips (front and back) i learned about those bars that you jump on and the balance bean and how to do moves on that.. i hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay my ex boyfriend (my first love) broke up with me about a month ago! supposably he doesnt like me any more. But every time i dont see him for about a day or two he is always flirting with me like grabbing my butt, asking me to sit on his lap, hugging me, and/or cuddling with me. Every one says to give him time he likes you he just wants to see if your the one so let him date other people and he WILL come back to you. i dont know if he is trying to get me back by this or what he tells everyone that he dont like me but everyone tells me that by the way he acts around me and the way he gives me special treatment! i dont know please help me

i think he likes you.. i think you should listen to your friends on this.. give it time and give him a chacen if he likes you a lot he will come back to you. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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i think my face looks a little plain bc i hav no bangs but is it worth it to risk looking dumb 4 freshman yr & pictures??


please answer asap...rate high!!!
need answers in lik 1 week!

if i where you i would go to ur salon/stylistest and ask her.. i have side bangs and i love them but it all depends on you there are man different times of bangs and different ways you can style them.. *~*you never know until you take a chacne*~* try it i think if you get it done now and you dont like them by school pictures they will be longer. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok there is this guy and we went out befor but he cheeted on me and broke my heart but now he is saying he is sorry and that he still has feelings for me and i dont kno what to do cuz i also still like him but i dont want to get hurt......and i am also a cutter and last time we went out i cut alot cuz of what i was hearing about him and stuff...... but i think he has changed and he tells me how soory he was and that he owes me for what he put me though....what should i do? should i trust him again> or should we just be friends?

i think you should fallow you heart also i mean if you like this guy a lot and you are willing to have your heart broken again then go for it.. i would think about everything he has done be4 and think if i could handle it again if not then i wouldnt take another chance.. if you think he has changed then go for it. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok, this might seem a bit confuseing but here it goes. Ok me and this guy Brian and his mom and my mom were hanging out by the pool. Brian is 17 by the way. When we first got there Brian asked me how old i was. And I told him i was 13. Then after a while of talking and swimming. He comes and sits beside me while our moms are gone to get something to eat. Right out of nowhere he says " Well what do u think about me?" Then I got so imbarassed and told him what I thought. He kept going on and on and on about how he would kick his youger sisters ass if she botherd me ( who is in my grade). Then after a few minutes he comes and sits beside me again and says " You know what?" " I can spoil you." I looked at him and said " Oh yea, I bet you can" Then he goes " I can give you a missage and that will spoil you." I loked at him funny and said " I don't think so "
Does he like me. ( plz ezcuse the messed up spelling and crap.) I rate high 4 good answers!!

when people are going to answer this question they will probably tell you not to go out with him because he is 17 but i think he does like you but if i were u i would be VERY carefull between only being friends and going out wit him.. i think you should first become friends with him then maybe hook up if you still like him.. most 17 year olds only think about sex and wanting more then what you want to give them.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I really like this guy but my sister says that he's hers. I said that i liked him first and now that I trying to get him to go on a date with me, I don't want her to get in the way. She just likes him because he's cute, but i like him for his personality. She never even talks to him like I do.

first get him to be your boyfriend.. then tell her to lay off and that he is your man and not hers and tell her to find her own boyfriend. i hope i helped.

*~Stephanie~*

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I really like this guy but don't know if he's into me? he's always flirting and looking at me. when we were in the car he kept rubbing his leg against mine. should I ask him out on a date with a group or just me and him? I am so confused.

help me!!!!!!!!!!!

well if you dont know if he likes you for sure i think you should go on a group date with him then like on the second one go by urself with him.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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You know how in Xanga for the music drop down lists you have the buttons for play pause and stop? what are some cool things to replace those? I'd like them to be punk or rockish kinda thing u know? thanks!

if you want to change the words to it then when get the code were it says play, pause and stop change the wording for it. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I want to get a playlist for my xanga site, but i dont know how to find the URL of my songs. I have them all downloaded I just don't know how to find their URL. PLease help? What do I do?

if you have them downloaded the only way to get the URL for them is to make an www.angelfire.com account and choice webshell and upload you song on there..then click view and copy the code for it of the web bar thing otherwise you can try goin to
http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=numba1_music_source


and then click on one of the sites there and find the song you are looking for. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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