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ok i have this b/f and we've been together for a year and it was just my b-day and he got me this really cute bracelet and i love him so much and he loves me.... i think. and my ? is well for the past couple monthes we havnt seen eachother at all except for 2 times and i jsut wanted to know if i should dump him because i never see or talk to him. altho i know school is coming up but i still dont see him that much in school and i wanted to know if somone could please tell me like what to say to him and should i give my bracelet back? please help i'll rate high
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wow this is EXACTLY how my relationship is!!! hahahaha akward! well you kno if you really "love" this guy liek you say you do you should wait like i am because sumtimes sum great things in life takes time n paitient... well ive been goin through the same probs that you have i juss dunno wut to do nowa days... i stil llvoe him to death you kno even though i dont see him that much i stil ahve trust in him and i think you should stil lhave trust in your man... and if this is true love and you two were meant to be all this waiting would be worth it =] i wish the best of luck to you two =]
*ariana*
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if you have any extra time during the rest of the summer, trying calling him and see if you guys could get together sometime. I'm Sure it aint that hard to pick up the phone and call the guy you love! No I dont think yins should break up juss b/c you dont see each other but you never know next year in school you mite have alot of classes together you never know soo juss wait it out a lil more then make your final choice..
...AshNicolex3
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Just call him. It's not that hard to pick up a phone and dial his number. If you love him, talk to him.
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i don't think you should dump him. If you love him and he loves you then you definently shouldn't just break up because you guys don't see eachother that often. What you should do is just find ways that you guys could be together more often. Talk on the phone and internet more. And once school starts, chances are you guys will get even closer. Good Luck
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I think you need to take a chill pill. Don't worry about not seeing him, I never see the person I like alot until school. Just call him or something and talk to him already! Jeesh...A good relationship is emotional and it will last long distance.
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ok well i am a guy and i no that giving the bracelet back will actually tell him that u didnt like him ever so i would say no keep the bracelet and wut to say would be like tell him that you never talk and that you still like him but that you just cant stay together b/c as much as you like him you just never see eachother and it just isnt working for you and maybe someday you could actually get back together but not right now cause no one likes to hear i am dumping you b/c that just hurts and it is kinda rude so let him down easily
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The only thing you should ever give back is an engagement ring (unless your money paid for part of it). Have you talked to him on the phone at all? I would talk to him and see how he feels. It may just be a simple transportation problem. You could say something like "Hey I missed you this summer, are you still interested in going out?" Don't accuse him of anything, be cool and subtle about it.
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I don't think that you should dump him because even though you don't speak much, if you start by making an effort, then i'm sure that he will too. Since he bought you a cute bracelet then he obviously loves you lots. It sound like puppy love to me ;)
Good Luck and I hope this advice helps
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If you love each other then you shouldn't break up. Instead work on seeing each other more. Make an effort to call or email everyday. Invite him over to your house. Since the bracelet was a birthday gift you could probably keep it. :)
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I just got out of a long distance relationship where we dated for 8 months and I only saw him 3 times the entire 8 months. But I didn't break up w/ him because my feelings were really strong for him and he is one of the best people I have ever met. Even though I still feel this way about him, even though we broke up, you should hold on to what you have if you really like him. I kept his bracelet too because he is one of my best friends now. If you decide you don't want a relationship anymore cause you hardly ever see him, even after school starts, but you are still friends, keep it unless he asks for it back. If not, give it back. Good luck! I know how you feel...
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I just got out of a long distance relationship where we dated for 8 months and I only saw him 3 times the entire 8 months. But I didn't break up w/ him because my feelings were really strong for him and he is one of the best people I have ever met. Even though I still feel this way about him, even though we broke up, you should hold on to what you have if you really like him. I kept his bracelet too because he is one of my best friends now. If you decide you don't want a relationship anymore cause you hardly ever see him, even after school starts, but you are still friends, keep it unless he asks for it back. If not, give it back. Good luck! I know how you feel...
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i think if you love this guy and he loves you back then you shouldnt dump him.. try talkin to him on the phone or online or try meetin up with him more often.. dont just leave him because you cant seem him all the time..you love this guy you should try to make it work... but if you do decided to break up with him just tell him you want a boyfriend that is always with me that can spend more time with me or something like that and yes i think you should give back the bracelet.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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