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ok there is this guy and we went out befor but he cheeted on me and broke my heart but now he is saying he is sorry and that he still has feelings for me and i dont kno what to do cuz i also still like him but i dont want to get hurt......and i am also a cutter and last time we went out i cut alot cuz of what i was hearing about him and stuff...... but i think he has changed and he tells me how soory he was and that he owes me for what he put me though....what should i do? should i trust him again> or should we just be friends?
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Just be friends until you can figure yourself out more. If you cut yourself, that should be your number one priority to change or get help for. Identify the source of your depression, and get help to move past it. Only when you truly love yourself and who you are can you give that love away to another person.
Just take a look in the mirror and see what you've come to be, and how incredible a person you are. However much pain you have in your life, cutting won't solve it or take it away. You have to find healthy ways of dealing with depression, such as focusing more on your interests, like playing a sport, instrument, or reading. Talk to a family member you trust, like a sibling or an aunt, to help you get through a time like this.
Once you decide to turn your life around and change your perspective to catch more of the good rather than the bad, you'll be able to see if this boy has really changed or if he's just playing you, and you'll be able to forgive him if he's sincere. Hope things start looking up!
Love,
Nevaeh
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stay friends . someone who cheated on you doesnt deserve you. you say your cuter but you were cute be4 . once a guy cheats he will cheat again its a effin bad habit. stay friends. if he rlly likes your personality he will be able to keep it that way
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if i were you i wouldnt get back together with him. i'd just stay friends. even if he did change he still cheated on you and if he respected you then he would'nt of done it and i just think its wrong for you to run back to him so easily and he'll think that he can do anything with you now and when he gets sick of you he wont care just dumping you. i just think you should go the safe way and stay friends and find someone else! he's not the only one and you can get over him!
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be friends for a while see if hes really changed this way theres no pain and no reason for cutting and if he has date him if you really like him also i must say that i dont like cutting one of my friends did it cutting doesnt help any situation so please dont let a guy get to you like that hope i helped love talktome224
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If you really still like him and don't want to lose him again then go for it and be with him. He hurt you once don't think that just because he's changed he wont hurt you again. You guys should just be friends until you can trust him again. You should tell him he can't owe you anything because he hurt you and nothing can fix that pain. I think he might be trying to get with you to say sorry, but its like he's forcing himself. You better off without him, but its your decision. Hope this helps!!
-Manda
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this happened to my best friend and i think you should take a chance...thats why ur dating...but dont get too excited because you never know. hope i helped
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i think you should fallow you heart also i mean if you like this guy a lot and you are willing to have your heart broken again then go for it.. i would think about everything he has done be4 and think if i could handle it again if not then i wouldnt take another chance.. if you think he has changed then go for it. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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Follow your heart...If you think its safe to go out with him to where u dont have to cut than do it but this time dont get really close untill u feel Comfortable around him...But if not Just be friends he should undersatnd if he really likes you...
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i think you should trust him again. he has to like you if he's got enough nerve to come up and say that he's sorry and stuff like that.
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