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two months or so ago, my bf broke up with me :( ever since i have been to scared to ask anyone out because i figure they're going to say no..

Can Someone help??¿¿ (link)
try to face your feears, its worth the try, if you are turned down. forget about it! thats what i do and i dont give a shit.

have one of ur friends ask him if he likes toy, if he says why tell them to say because i want to know i wont tell her (but she/he didnt say SHOW her) and then he will probally answer, if its a good one and you like him, GO FOR IT. if he doesnt, then wait a while and talk to him alot.


(16/f) ok so this guy caught me playing with my breasts and other places in the washroom at school and now hes threatening to tell everyone unless i go out with him and let him fuck me whenever he wants. what should i do? (link)
okay, tell him NO. dont be afraid to say no. and when he tells people, say "idk what are you talking about.. any proof?" and then he wioll have to admitt he was in the girls bathroom :) and noone would care about you playing with your brests, everyone would care that he was in the girls bathroom, tell me if you need more advice. update me!


k so..i have a bf nd i luv him to death..but..i jst found out that my best friend likes me 2..alot..nd i rele dont want 2 hurt him..also..my x..whom i still sumwhat like still likes me..i dont kno wat to do w/ out ne1 getting hurt..i rele dont want to hurt ne of them cuz i kno it will break there hearts as well as mine (link)
if you are really that much in love with your boyfriend then it should really be quite easy... you have to tell your ex that your not interested and that you are happy with your current boyfriend. you should suggest to your best friend that all you want to be is friends and nothing more at the moment because you are happy with your boyfriend. hope i helped ~*~Lucee~*~


hi. Im going into 6 grade.. and i wont tell my age cuz i dont wanna get banded.. but anyways .. Jan.19 2005.. i went for a check up at the doctors.... and i wieghed 86.. pounds.. and i didnt care.. but i went yesterday (aug 27 05..) to check my azma or whatever.. and she weighed me for somereason .. and i weighed 100.. and i dont wanna weigh that i want to weigh like 90 .. for now.. what can i do.. my mom says theres nothing to worry about. Your tall .. not over weight.. and well i still dont want to be 100.. any help?

xo
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makenzie is right "Level 2 and 3 Moderators can see the column name of everyone who is asking questions. I'm guessing you're busted now."

anyways...

when i was in 6th grade i weighed 70 pounds! so dont sweat! you are fine (i was like 4'8-9)

the only thing i drink is soda, it makes me keep in shape. diet coke acually does! because i drink about 3 cans a day, it makes you hyper kinda, well yout matibulisuim goes up and you run around being spazzy. then you slim down a bit. get it?


My grandfather is a very old, sick, frail man. He is 93 years old, a cancer surviver, a husband, a father... He hasn't been doing so good lately. Last week he called the funeral parlour to make arrangements for himself, he told my grandmother what song he wanted to be played at the funeral, where he wanted to be burried, where he wanted the wake to be. I'm really upset, because I love my grandfather dearly, he's such a great man. When my other grandfather died when I was eight, I went to his funeral and I couldn't keep myself together at all, it was so scary for me to be there seeing him in a casket completely lifeless when he used to be this happy man who would joke around with my brother and me when we were younger, who would take us down to the corner store to get candy since my dad wouldn't take us.. I don't want to have to go through that again. I know it's the right thing to pay my respects, but I'm just so scared. How can I get over my fear of going to his funeral? I do want to be there to pay my respects, but I'm so so scared. Can anyone help? (link)
ok,i know how you feel. my granny just died bout 2 weeks ago and she raised. it is really tough but you just have to keep reminding your self that he is always going to be with you and he wont be in anymore pain. i know it is really tough but that is part of life and you will get to see him again when you die. but when my granny died it felt like i dint have anything to live for anymore but just think when he dies he wants you to be happy. i hope i helped you and good luck.
~*Brandi*~


i got my belly button pierced 2 months ago and its still red/swollen i think its infected wat do i do? i heard u arent supposed to put neosoprin on it? what should i put on it, and can i treat it without removing my belly ring? (link)
this happened to me but in all honesty IT WAS THE BAR THEY PUT IN!!! so either go back to your piercer? or try changing the bar and the swelling will go down but go to your piercer first.


i dont get it...i only got 4 hours of sleep last night and i was very tired throughout the day but i cant fall asleep now! i've been trying for hours. all i do is lay there with an empty mind..not thinking about anything...how could i fall asleep? (link)
If you smoke,drink coffee or excercise excessively then that will make you energetic and therefore not sleepy so I recommend relaxing winding down like an hour before you go to sleep have a bath and use salts and stuff they relax you also if you put lavender under your pillow i find it helps me relax


ok i have 2 boys madly in LOVE with me and i loe both of them/ one is like my bestfriend and the other is such a cool friend that i've made out with in the past. the bestfriend gives me the feeling that the other boy doesn't. and the other boy shows me such a GREAT time! who should i pick??? i can't follow my heart because my heart is telling me to love both of them. I WANT TO GO OUT WITH ONE OF THEM. I DONT KNOW WHO?!! PLEASE HELP!!! no shitty advice and ill rate you 5! thanks. +kim by the way... my bestfriend's anme is corey and my friend friend thats cool is cristian. PLEASE HELP! (link)
my honest opinion is DONT GO FOR THE BEST FRIEND cause I know I'd always be wary in case of things going belly up! well any way first things first... make a list of all the ups and down like split 2 pages in half then write positive things about corey on one half and then Cristian on the other... then on the other page write the negitives... then count them up who ever out weighs the other in positives go for them and if they are equal go for who ever has the least negs and also if this doesnt work I have another paper trick.. just write the names on 2 different pieces of paper.. then close your eyes and decided in your head that whhhatever papaer you pick up to tear apart is NOT the one you pick... hey this works for me so dont knock it till you try it!!! cause I always find that I rip the paper and I get upset with what I have left meaning I REALLY wanted the other guy just didnt know but if I dont get upset then I go for the guy I didn't tear up
If you need more help on this?
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i'm going to get a tattoo on my lower back. But im not sure of what i want. i kinda have an idea..i want a rose or something in that sort. can anyone give me a site that has picture of tattoos!
Thanks (link)
I like some of the one's on this site
http://www.tattoofinder.com/FT_rose_tattoos_designs.asp


why are all the good people on the site being banned? anyone know? (link)
well some of the people look at the picture, and say "HEY THEY ARE UNDER 13 IM TELLING!"

my friend was banned for no apperent reason. she was a GREAT advice giver and everyone alwys asked her questions.

but then she got banned and some people were protesting and not going to the site for a while

and so she made a new account and they caought her again (she made it for her firend so her and her friend haley shared it) and yah

but idk people just like the feeling. they want to be the big shot probally!


How can Something eg.school infuence your identity??? easy 5's for first 5 people (link)
like the way you are?

its how people look on the outside and not the inside?

how you look is usually how people do it.


ok i have 2 boys madly in LOVE with me and i loe both of them/ one is like my bestfriend and the other is such a cool friend that i've made out with in the past. the bestfriend gives me the feeling that the other boy doesn't. and the other boy shows me such a GREAT time! who should i pick??? i can't follow my heart because my heart is telling me to love both of them. I WANT TO GO OUT WITH ONE OF THEM. I DONT KNOW WHO?!! PLEASE HELP!!! no shitty advice and ill rate you 5! thanks. +kim by the way... my bestfriend's anme is corey and my friend friend thats cool is cristian. PLEASE HELP! (link)
What a lucky girl: you like them, they like you. someone is popular :o


heres something brilllient you should answer for yourself!

1) wich one makes you feel like a princess?
2) who has cleaner record (like beating up someone, anger managements because it wouldnt be good if you broke up with one of them if they had anger managements!)
3) whos hotter?
4) do both of them go to school?
5) if any of them in your same classses?
6) does their parents like you?
7) do your parents like them?
8) who is what youve wanted for YEARS && YEARS now?
9) who is nicer
10) who gives you that look?
11) who lives cloaser to you?

write the answers down on a piece of paper. befor you go to bed. think about it. place the paper under your pillow. and you might have a answer when you wake up not stressed out!

(no this is not a chain letter wow)


whats the song called? (i'm not sure if i heard the lyrics right)

you and me and all of the people with nothing to do, nothing to prove and its you and me and all of the people and i don't know why but i can't keep my eyes off of you (link)
you and me by lifehouse


i got my belly button pierced 2 months ago and its still red/swollen i think its infected wat do i do? i heard u arent supposed to put neosoprin on it? what should i put on it, and can i treat it without removing my belly ring? (link)
mix water and salt to it.... my sisterhas hers pierced and she puts that on EVERY day :)it wont get infected unless if you do that


15/f

I've had a really upset stomach for about 2 weeks. I've been throwing up and then just dry heaves. I can't eat much, I used too eat like normaly and then some. But now I barely have a sandwhich a day. I don't know what's up or what too do.

Any advice?

Should I just go to the doctors? (link)
you probally have the stomach bug, its going around.

yup see the doctors anyways..


ok wellmy bff is going out with this guy who is my frien well he came to my house to hangout and then well he started flirting with me and well i kinda flirted back on accident all of sudden he is makein out with me and i like kissed him back and he is really hot and i love him i have since like 3rd grade and so now he comes over and we kiss all the time is that really bad should i tell Alison (mi bff) ??????
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tell her because if she sees you, thn she will be PISSED


When do you guys think its approiate to wear a thong?? I want to wear one but don't know how to ask my mom. I rate. Girls only please! (link)
Well this is how it worked out for me. Me and my mom went shopping and we stopped to look at lingerie and then I was just like "Mom I want to try a thong because I don't like when people can see panty lines through my pants." And she was like "Okay." So try that and let me know if it works.
I hope I helped.


if ur reallly bored please help me...ahah. ok for the first day of school i wanna hav the best outfit...better than every1 else. It's gonna be around 80 degrees. I have no clue what I am going to waer. I love abercrombie and hollister..and i want to do something wild and fun... and hav people be like...whooaa. but not too whoaa. What should I wear. jweleary and shoes inlcuded. could u please giv me the links that the clothing is on and stuff...thank-you so much. I'll rate!! I do have a budget..no more than like $$150. thank-you (link)
wow really strict!

okay these jeans are cute:

http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10851&storeId=10101&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12149&categoryId=12149&productId=241135&langId=-1

and then maybe a abercrombie vintage shirt! or one with a hott quote, i saw one, it was like "why do i have to go ot school, im too stupid" so yeah look at the stirts




and then maybe converses! in any color!


I saw my ex-boyfriend when we went back to school. He got way hotter over the summer (that's not it) he grew up a lot like matured. I was shocked and like "turned on" or attracted. So I started to become his friend again. We talk and flirt and laugh together with each other and people think we're going out. in a few classes hes in 5/8 classes of mine. We went out for 7 or 8 monthes and we mutally broke up. I think i like teen love him but hes in love with r and stuff. So today I was like K your madly in love with R arent you? but he wouldnt answer and just smiled. I like him so much and I dont know what to do and if he likes me or R. Should I go after him? If I do how do I do it without doing something stupid or slutty? (link)
Well, to get after him, ask him back out and say "i still like you and stuff, and i cant live without you!" thats deffinitally NOY slutty.

if you wanna "go after" like sex. talk to him if you go out with him.

but you like him becasue hes hot??


techno pop rock a lil r&b (link)
pop:

behind these hazle eyes
dont speak


Rock:
Almost- bowling for soup
1985- blowing for soup
BYOB- system of a down
i hate everything about you
mr bright side
welcome to paradise- green day
99 red ballons- goldfinger
take me out
stacys mom
the party song- blink 182
i miss you- blink182

R&&b:
pimpin all over the world


hope i helped a bit




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