ok i have 2 boys madly in LOVE with me and i loe both of them/ one is like my bestfriend and the other is such a cool friend that i've made out with in the past. the bestfriend gives me the feeling that the other boy doesn't. and the other boy shows me such a GREAT time! who should i pick??? i can't follow my heart because my heart is telling me to love both of them. I WANT TO GO OUT WITH ONE OF THEM. I DONT KNOW WHO?!! PLEASE HELP!!! no shitty advice and ill rate you 5! thanks. +kim by the way... my bestfriend's anme is corey and my friend friend thats cool is cristian. PLEASE HELP!
orphans answered Saturday August 27 2005, 8:44 am: my honest opinion is DONT GO FOR THE BEST FRIEND cause I know I'd always be wary in case of things going belly up! well any way first things first... make a list of all the ups and down like split 2 pages in half then write positive things about corey on one half and then Cristian on the other... then on the other page write the negitives... then count them up who ever out weighs the other in positives go for them and if they are equal go for who ever has the least negs and also if this doesnt work I have another paper trick.. just write the names on 2 different pieces of paper.. then close your eyes and decided in your head that whhhatever papaer you pick up to tear apart is NOT the one you pick... hey this works for me so dont knock it till you try it!!! cause I always find that I rip the paper and I get upset with what I have left meaning I REALLY wanted the other guy just didnt know but if I dont get upset then I go for the guy I didn't tear up
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soccer_crazii answered Saturday August 27 2005, 8:37 am: since your bestfriend gives you the feeling that otherboys dont maybe you should consider him. and hes known you for a while too, thats an advantage. he knows what you love and hate, etc.
maybe you should stay friends with the other one whos just your friend. since he can show you a great time, hang out with him sometimes once in a while, that wont hurt. and if this is too hard of a decision for you, maybe just say to both of them "can we all just stay friends? I dont want to break our friendships, so i dont wanna pick". [ soccer_crazii's advice column | Ask soccer_crazii A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Saturday August 27 2005, 8:16 am: well which one likes you? it says you like them but where do they come in? i think christian if its not completely shreding corey to pieces. tell him you could just stay friends..lemme know if you want more info. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Saturday August 27 2005, 5:25 am: This is why 13 year olds shouldn't date.
orphans answered Saturday August 27 2005, 4:41 am: What a lucky girl: you like them, they like you. someone is popular :o
heres something brilllient you should answer for yourself!
1) wich one makes you feel like a princess?
2) who has cleaner record (like beating up someone, anger managements because it wouldnt be good if you broke up with one of them if they had anger managements!)
3) whos hotter?
4) do both of them go to school?
5) if any of them in your same classses?
6) does their parents like you?
7) do your parents like them?
8) who is what youve wanted for YEARS && YEARS now?
9) who is nicer
10) who gives you that look?
11) who lives cloaser to you?
write the answers down on a piece of paper. befor you go to bed. think about it. place the paper under your pillow. and you might have a answer when you wake up not stressed out!
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