I need advice on what to do!!
well this is what is goin on im 15 almost 16 and im goin out with this boy named travis be 13 about to be 14 and we have been together for almost a year and at first things were good but now they arent to good and i dont know what to do because i really love him!! ok well for the past 2 weeks he has been acting real weird hes starting to do drugs and its messin him up and turing him in to someones else that isnt him...well hes been avoiding me for the past 3 days he hasnt called me in the past 2 days and today me and my best friend cortnie went up to his apartments to hang out and to see if he was really there and we go up there and he was there and he wouldnt talk to me and he was hiding from us and wouldnt answer his door or phone!! i really love him alot and its gonna hurt me real bad to break up wit him i just dont kno what to do im just really attached to him!!! if you could just give me some advice i would appreciate it!!
thanks
~*~*katie*~*~
The best way to handle this situation is to ask yourself 'do I really want to be with someone who's on drugs??'
After you have asked yourself that, now think about what will happen if you decide to continue this realtionship with him.
Is this what you call love?? Someone that ignore's you, doesn't call you or answer his door to you. Is this what you want??
It seems to me that he is only holding you back, i think that it's for the best for to you let him go!!
either stay with him while he continue's to take drugs or leave him and find someone better who will treat you right.. but the decision is yours!! [ MiZzY's advice column | Ask MiZzY A Question ]
Curemysadness answered Sunday August 28 2005, 4:40 am: let him go now. believe me it will be easier than if you wait any longer. I know it might be really hard for you to do, but seriously think about it..do you wanna be involved with someone who does drugs? you should probably also tell someone that he is doing drugs so he can get help before he gets too messed up! he doesn't sound like the kind of person I would want to be with anyways. I mean look how you sed he has been treating you. he sounds like a jerk, no offense! get rid of him.... [ Curemysadness's advice column | Ask Curemysadness A Question ]
LilPunkRocker8563 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 11:23 pm: i have nothing that could help you but to say good luck!=
the person below me....she said...."WHAT iS GOiN ON??? iM 15 almost 16" not "iM GOiN ON TO 15 almost 16" DERRRR
letter_girl22 answered Saturday August 27 2005, 12:31 pm: yeah i think travis need help to qiute drugs.and also maybe he is trying to send you a message .so this is what you should tdo.find him when his not hi and have a complete conversation on how your relationship stands. [ letter_girl22's advice column | Ask letter_girl22 A Question ]
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