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Im Kinda Scared
two months or so ago, my bf broke up with me :( ever since i have been to scared to ask anyone out because i figure they're going to say no..
Can Someone help??¿¿
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Dont be scared, just go for it! I would go up with a friend to ask someone you like out. (it helps me) or you can wait a wile, to find someone you really like!
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It's okay to be afraid that someone's going to say no, I mean, everyone's scared of rejection. But people never think of what they might be doing.. if they're so afraid of rejection that they don't ask the person out, they might be ruining a chance they have with that person ( what if that person were to actually say yes? They'd never know... ) so sometimes you just have to take a chance, and if they say no, they say no, I mean yes, it'll hurt at first, but then someday you'll find a new person, and the someday, someone's gonna say yes. You can't be afraid. And it was your boyfriend who broke up with you, so just think, you guys actually WENT OUT. So at the very beginning you weren't rejected there...so just take a chance. Next time you talk to a guy you like, just see if he flirts iwth you or anything or maybe have a friend find out who he likes ( so then you can have some idea if he likes you at all first ) and then try and ask him to hang out sometime. Just be like," Hey, wanna go see "title of a movie" sometime? I heard it's real good.." I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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dont be scared to ask just be ready to ask i havent had a gf in a year and i wasnt afraid to ask any one
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I'm sorry to say, but there's always gonna be someone who will say no to you. but there's more that will say yes. What I would try is to just go for it. Run a convo starter through your before you talk to a guy you want to ask out, like:
nice weather we're having
cool shoes
nice game u played today
etc.
and then build up from there. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
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Heyy. You definitely shouldn't be afraid to ask someone out, especially if you like them a lot. Rejection is something that a lot of people are afraid of, but you can't let it hold you back! Just b/c one guy broke up with you..doesn't mean they are all going to be that way. Just be careful who you trust next time, and get to know that as well as possible before going out with them! Be friends with the person first, that way they don't really have a reason to say no to you, unless they don't like you anymore than a friend. But you can usually tell when/if someone does. If they flirt with you, look at you a lot, touch you, laugh at your jokes, smile at you..those are some ways you can tell if someone is interested in you or not. You are probably going to have a lot of relationships in the next few years. You are also probably going to break some hearts, and get your heart broken once or twice. That is just life. There really isn't anything you can do about it either, except just wait it out. Time heals all pain. But the worse thing you can do, is be afraid! Just follow your heart!! Good Luck!
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try to face your feears, its worth the try, if you are turned down. forget about it! thats what i do and i dont give a shit.
have one of ur friends ask him if he likes toy, if he says why tell them to say because i want to know i wont tell her (but she/he didnt say SHOW her) and then he will probally answer, if its a good one and you like him, GO FOR IT. if he doesnt, then wait a while and talk to him alot.
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Everyone goes through this so dont worry. You just gotta move on and know that you need to take chances. Dont just try to ask any random guy out, try finding a guy you like. Make the best of your relationship with them. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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Just move on hun.. dont be scared its always worth a try.. ♥ Dez
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well really all u can do is try and get over him and then ask some one out all you can do is try if you dont try u will never kno if they like you or not!!i hope i helped!!
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Aww, after break ups rejection is always scary. You will always be afraid of "no" if you don't take risks. Find someone you like, and flirt with them. If you guys seem to like each other go for it! Everyone goes through it, & everyone is afraid of being rejected but you just have to learn to get over it. If you don't, you'll never be okay with it. For me, I don't really care if I get rejected in anything though. It just means you should move on. No biggy. You might feel a little hurt but just remember you are'nt the only one hun. Good luck!
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