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what does eating someone out mean and what does giving someone a head mean???

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Eating out is when someone uses their tongue on a female's vaginal area. Giving head is when someone uses their mouths/tongue on a guys penis and surrounding area.

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what happens when you get raped?? im totally scared of it......HELP PLEASE!!!

Well what actually happens depends on the situation. The basic thing is that someone is forced to have sex against their will. The details vary. There are different kinds of rape.

The one that most people picture is when someone is attacked at night in the street or park or something by a stranger. However, rape can happen in the home, in the workplace, anywhere really. It can also be done by anyone, stranger or otherwise.

Another type that people think about a lot is date rape. This is usually where a stranger or person you have met with spikes your drink with drugs or more alcohol than you thought you were consuming. This makes you drowsy or very drunk, making it easy for the person to rape you.

Don't be scared. Rape isn't very common. Just stay safe and try and stick with other people when you go out at night. If you do have to go somewhere alone then take main routes, don't be tempted cut through alley ways or deserted parks to get home quicker as it will just make you more vunerable. Also, another thing you could do is to carry your keys in your hand. Then if anyone trys to harm you, you can give them a quick jab in the eye with them and run away. It also stops you from rummaging around in your bag on your doorstep for your keys, so you can get inside quicker.

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OKAY MY BIRTHDAYS IN LIKE 2 WEEKS WHAT SHOULD I ASK ILL BE 14 YEAR OLD [GIRL] ? thANKS

If you don't know what you want then I doubt that complete strangers will either. Think of your hobbies and what you like to do. Do you like to listen to music? Then ask for CDs or a CD player. Do you play an instrument? Do you need a new one? Do you like art? Then ask for paints, pencils, an art set etc. Is there anything in particular that you want/need? A new walkman, clothes, books, posters, computer games, make-up etc. Just think of all your hobbies and interests and things that you want that are to do with them.

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ok, im 14 turning 15/female and i like this 18 male. i met him in school and hes really nice and everything, but he has a girlfriend. do u think that the age difference is bad or should i just wait i could have a chance?

Well the age difference means that if you dated him then he would be breaking the law because you're underage. Sure, he may be nice but he has a girlfriend and he's an adult. It's probably just a crush, it'll pass. Stick to fantacising, going any further is too risky for now.

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k let me give you a situation and please tell me what are the chances of my gf beiing pregnant. me and my gf were messing around and i rubed my penis on the outside of her vigina, i never entired though and never ejaculated. we only did this for less then 20 sec and then we stoped. now from what i read i guess there could be a chance of her getting pregnant because i guess precum is always coming out so it doesnt matter how long we did that for. but in my case i went and to pee about 10 mins before all this happend, so i guess that flushed the left over semen out of the urethra meaning that even if precum did get on her it was just the fluid from the prostate not semen. that being said should i be worried about her being pregnant? if i should be, what are the chances of her being pregnant from the situation i just told? any help would be great because im worried sick.

Well, there is a small chance that she may be pregnant but it isn't that likely. Just have her take a pregnancy test and take it from there. It's the only way to put your mind at rest.

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okay, well im a level one moderator here and i want to see how far off i am of being a level two moderator. I cant seem to find where it tells you this.. does anyone know? I know someone just asked a question about being a moderator but what about level 2. thanks.

Well, looking at your column, you haven't been a member for very long. There are many other moderators who have been at this site for longer than you, so you probably wont be a level II for a while yet. It took me a year to become one, so just hang in there. Keep rating and answering questions and one day you'll probably become a level II.

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okay i want my ears double peirced (i already have them once) but i swim a lot with my friends and i was wondering since you have to keep it in for 6 weeks can i swim with the earrings in?

Well about six weeks ago I got two more piercings on one ear and one more on the other and I could swim with them in fine. You might want to wear plasters over them in the pool but you don't have to, they'll be fine.

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im 13 and my friend was 17. we are both girls and we made out. would that juss be considered 'experimentin' or would it change to makin us bi or w.e? my other friend is 14. she wants to make otu with me and i would.... is this all normal? am i still straight

It's hard to tell at your age whether or not you are straight. Like you say, you were just experimenting and that's normal at your age. Don't label yourself with a certain sexuality so young, give yourself to mature and discover who you are.

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it hurts when i take my tampon out, is this normal?

Yeah, it's pretty common. It's probably because the tampons you are too large (meaning that the aborbancy is too high for your flow). Try switching to a lower aborbancy. If you still have the same problem then try to change them less. It may just be that you are changing them too often which means that they aren't ready to come out as they are too dry. This will cause you pain. Try leaving them in for an extra hour or so. If that still doesn't help then maybe you should make an appointment with your doctor to check that there isn't anything wrong.

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Hey. Im 11 years old . and im a girl. Im scared about getting my period.. in 5 grade.. that just ended some girls starting getting there periods. And im scard!
I heard it hurts and stuff
and i dont want to use tampons what if the string came off.. and i have to use tampons to go swimming the pad would come apart..
Help

Calm down, There's no need to be scared.

The actual period itself isn't what hurts, it's just the stuff that comes with it. Some girls get stomach cramps around the time of their period. These can be severe but it's rare and there are plenty of things you can do to stop them hurting. If you get them then just take a pain killer, drink a soothing drink like hot chocolate, take a warm bath and put a hot water bottle or heat cushion over where it hurts. If you can't do any of those things then try some gentle stretching or excercise, it does help.

Most girls find tampons a bit scary at first, but once you get used to them you'll wonder why you were ever worried. The string of a tampon is sewn in right from the top and is very hard to come off. Try taking one apart, you'll see that it's quite difficult. If the string does come off for some reason then it's nothing to worry about, just relax and gently take it out with clean fingers.

I hope I reassured you in some way, good luck.

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can you get pregnant on your period?

Yes, you can get pregnant at any time, regardless of the time of month.

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hey, my friends and i were wondering...what exactly are the "bases" when your talking love life...obviously not baseball. (15F)

Well different people consider the bases to be different but the most common ones are:
1st base: Kissing
2nd base: Hand jobs/fingering
3rd base: Oral sex
4th base: All the way

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Hi me and my girl have been together for 8 months and i had went over her house and i didnt thinks we were gunna do it, but we were in the moment so we did it,but i had no protection but i took it out before my sperm even went in..and now its been a week later, will birth control help?? or what can i do to make her not pregnant? please help?

If she's already pregnant then you can't make her 'not pregnant'. If she has taken emergency contraception then she should be okay but if she hasn't then it's probably too late now. There's always a chance that she isn't pregnant so don't get too worried until you know for sure that she is. If it turns out that she is then stand by her and make sure she knows you support her decision to keeping the baby/having an abortion/having the baby adopted. And remember to use protection in future!

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what are some fun things to do when you have a friend over? my house is so boring. also, i need to watch my little sister. thx

Watch TV or a film, make a film of yourselves if you have a video camera, take photos, play computer games, call people up, paint a mural or a big picture together, listen to music, just chill out together and chat, have a water fight, play with your sister, get a ball and get your friend to come to the park with you and your little sister, play board games, sunbathe, bake a cake or biscuits, have a big clear out, customise clothes, go for a walk with your little sister, make CDs together. Just use your imagination.

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is it tru that if you never mmasturbate then u have a higher chance of your cherry getin popped when a guy fingers you

It can mean you have a higher chance, yes but if you use tampons or do a lot of sport then there is also a chance that your cherry will already be popped.

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i have been wth my girlfriend 4 about 6 months now and we talk about sex all the time, i want to and she does to. but she dosnt either because of her age.im 15 and she is 13 going on 14. is there anything i can do to make her feel ready?

At the end of the day, if she doesn't feel ready to yet then you shouldn't try to persuade her. 13/14 is still very young and you have to understand if she doesn't want to lose her virginity yet. Just carry on being loving and caring so she feels relaxed around you, make sure she knows that you aren't pressurising her into anything she doesn't want to do and that it's her decision. If she still doesn't want to then you have just got to respect that and wait until she's ready.

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how can you qet an std if you use a condom while giving head? i rate high!!!

Usually no, condoms are there to protect you against STD's so it's highly unlikely that you will catch one while using one.

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i've seen questions on here & people say that they "cut". this might be a stupid question, but o well...what does "cutting" mean?

It basically means that they use a knife, blade, glass or other sharp object to cut their skin. It's the most common form of self harm.

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what does it mean when you have a dream about a guy that you are going to go out wit really soon. but in your dream you had sex with him? is that a good thing or bad thing?

It probably just means that he's on your mind, it isn't a bad thing but I doubt it's good either. It's nothing to worry about, I dream about 'my' guy all the time.

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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks

I used to cut, it isn't too much fun is it?

First off, well done for at least thinking about getting help. That's a really good start.

It would definitely help if you spoke to someone. If you feel that you can't talk to your parents for some reason or another then start off by confiding in a close friend. You will feel better once you share your problem with someone and at least then you wont be alone. Hopefully this friend will support you in telling a school councillor, teacher or any other trusted adult who will help you to quit cutting.

Good luck.

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