im 13 and my friend was 17. we are both girls and we made out. would that juss be considered 'experimentin' or would it change to makin us bi or w.e? my other friend is 14. she wants to make otu with me and i would.... is this all normal? am i still straight
x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 answered Monday July 18 2005, 1:13 pm: Ok, well ya it could be considered experimentation since you've never done it before..but the true test for being gay or straight is this...when you see a FINE guy do go daaammmnnn....and when you see a pretty girl do you go daaammmmn or just, she's pretty! That is a really good way to tell, also when you look at a cute guy that you're really attracted to do you wonder what it would be like to gte him naked or make out with him..something like that...but when you see a girl do you feel the same way...if you feel the same way then yes you're probably bi...but alot of people start experimenting at 13...not me but alot of people I know so it's perfectly normal, because you've grown up to think you're supposed to like guys but nopw that you've gotten into puberty you're really starting to grow into you're sexuality! Hope i could help x0x *Caitie* [ x0blu3eyedbeautyx0's advice column | Ask x0blu3eyedbeautyx0 A Question ]
Real4Christ07 answered Monday July 18 2005, 1:09 pm: No it's not normal no matter what everyone else says. God created Adam and Eve not Amanda and Eve. He meant for man to be with woman and woman to be with man. I know right now in your life you have all these feelings going on. But realize that your feelings will only get you in trouble. I think you should go to church(pentacostal) and pursue God. [ Real4Christ07's advice column | Ask Real4Christ07 A Question ]
ThonqyFriends answered Monday July 18 2005, 1:09 pm: Well if you did it as a one time thinq as a dare or just to be crazy then nah your not bi. But if you do it like everyday i dunno. Makinq out with girls can`t all teh sudden tranform you from straight to bi just like that though. Hope i helped ! - courtney !!! [ ThonqyFriends's advice column | Ask ThonqyFriends A Question ]
xoBrowneyes answered Monday July 18 2005, 1:08 pm: Its hard to tell i mean some girls do it for experimenting. Ask your self if thats really why you do it.
Michele answered Monday July 18 2005, 1:08 pm: If you all agree that it is experimental, then it is. One of you could end up just liking girls, and if that is the case, so be it. But it is a little early to make a final decision, one way or the other.
There will be lots of opportunities in the near and distant future, to go out with boys, and if then turn you off, then you'll know for sure.
Some women find out much later in life that they don;t like guys. That is after trying and well, just not really enjoying the sex or their company. Then an opportunity with a woman comes along, and they find that this is what they were looking for. So take your time to decide. But you still need to be cautious about sexually transmitted diseases.
rainbowcherrie answered Monday July 18 2005, 1:00 pm: It's hard to tell at your age whether or not you are straight. Like you say, you were just experimenting and that's normal at your age. Don't label yourself with a certain sexuality so young, give yourself to mature and discover who you are. [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
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