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Q: Her, I'm having a a slumber party (10 girls) What should we do? ( we aren't allowed to invite guys over, cuz we're only 13)

10 girls? I dont think you need to ask. You guys will all be talking and joking around. Watch a funny movie. 20 questions whatever. Just all talk. Call guys if need be. Tell emberassing stories!! Just make sure you can trust everyone there just in case you say something you dont want to be told!! Have fun!!-trix

Q: how do you calculate a grade point average? thanks.

Say you had 5 assignments in the class. Add the 5 assignments up then divide it by 5. Then thats your total.-trix

Q: my boyfriend wants to finger and i was wondering does it hurt ? do you bleed? and do u use two fingers or one? it seems like it would hurt if you used two ? and what should i do about "shaving" down there i don't want to get embarrased but eerytime i shave down there its all stubbly and it get rashy and i get razor bumps! HELP PLEASE!

Um i wouldnt pay attention to snowwalker. You dont bleed the first time. Not that i know of. And i have never heard of anyone bleeding. It doesnt matter the amount of fingers. When shaving down there just make sure you go with the hair.. not against.. Like when petting a cat or dog.. you would go with the hair otherwize the dog or cat would like freak lol-trix

Q: ok does anyone know any websites where you can like use a picture of yourself and put different hair on it or something??? does anyone know what im talking about??? i really wanna give myselfbangs but i wanna see what it looks like first! so it would be great if someone knew of any websites like that! thanks!!
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Umm I dont really I just know that you can get a picture of yourself and go to this program and it has that sort of stuff for you. But you have to buy it. Its on a CD I think-trix

Q: Im going to florida in about 14 weeks. I was wondering if anyone oculd estimate how mugh weight i could lose in that amount of time. i eat healthy and excersise a lot now. what do you think?

Florida!! Its SoOoOo much fun there!! If you are eating healthy and excercizing alot then thats the way to go. Run/Jog/Walk alot. And do crunches!! That helps!-trix

Q: my nameis antionette and my boyfriend called me a bitch.I want to break up with him because i'm such a bitch to him.I love him so much but he called me a bitch and he thinks its so funny.What should I should I break up with or try to make the relationship last.I need your help!

antoinette

My boyfriend called me a pussy. But like my word that I use alot is fucker.. it might just be his word.. I didn't talk to my boyfriend as much and i said the next day to him "your a dick" and he said "what?!" I said "yeah you heard me.. how does it feel to be called your own private part? that hurt me.. why'd you do that?" so you just gotta ask your boyfriend about why he did that. Plus.. IM me.. and I will tell you something I just dont want to say on here my sn is XpRiNcEsSxBaRbIe It will say I am not online but i am invisible right now. So just IM me and i will tell you something!! Hope all works out hun!!-trix

Q: ok well i have a cell phone and the bill this month was 244.62 dollars!! what do i do?

NEED HELP!!

You are my twin!! Who pays for it? You or your parents? Well if its you.. just ask your parents if you can borrow some money and you will help around the house to pay them back. But if they pay for it just tell them you will give them all the money you and that you will do extra chores or do chores until its payed off for and a normal bill.-trix

Q: Ok does anyone know how to check if anyone answered my questions???? Not that anyone does answer them i just want to know how to! THANKS :)

Go to YOUR QUESTIONS. Its under your inbox.. then under that is favorite categories.. and yeah under that one. or if you dont have a column here then you would get a link when you ask a question and then keep that link and then go to it after awhile Hope i helped-trix

Q: ok so me and my bf have been fighting a lot lately... nothing major but still i dont like the fact that we fight .. do you have any suggestions for me to help us resolve all this ???

I would just hang out and talk about it. Thats what i did with my bf nathan i just said hey .. im sick of fights i hate them and i dont want to fight i hate being mean and mad. im sorry. Just apologrize it sometimes helps and i hope everything works out for you and him!!-trix

Q: Hey i have a prob see i liked my friend for a while and i recently found out that he liked me but i ono if i should belive that or not it may be true because i heard it from his friend but he has a g/f so what do i do and i dont wanna ruin the friendship over this either please help ill rate

I would just talk to your boyfriend if theres something he should tell you. Dont jump to conclusions! Plus your friend has a gf. I would just leave that alone-trix

Q: Ok..well I had three best friends. One of them I kinda spread apart from because she is always with her boyfriend but we were still friends and we didn;t hate eachother or anything let's call her Maggie. The other two supposedly HATE me now because Maggie randomly told them I was talking about them when I HAVENT been, I mean how can I, I am never with Maggie she is always with her boyfriend. So now I am really mad because my two old best friends hate me. I guess I don't want to be friends with them anymore if they are going to be like this but I don't want them to hate me with a passion!! They won't talk to me and I don't even want to try talking to them! Do you think eventually they will get over it?? I mean one of the girls shares a locker with me and if she is going to stay being bitchy then I'm kicking her out! What should I do...please don't tell me to try talking to them because I won't thanks!

Well Just let it go. They will eventually get over it and relize that its pathetic. Its how most girls opperate. I was in the main group of girls at my old school. I dont know where i stand now cuz i just moved lol. But whenever i would get mad at someone they would to. Or vice versa. We all got over it. And they will to-trix

Q: Ive noticed in the last few months I am always tired when I wake up. And its not because lack of sleep because no matter how early i go to sleep or how late i wake up or vice versa I always feel the same. Any suggestions? What can I do to make myself feel better and not be so tired in the morning?

Well just make sure you wear PJ's when you go to sleep. Dont eat before you go to sleep. And if you do try to keep it a hour away before sleeping. PJ's make it a more comfortable sleep. And clear any clutter that you might have on your bed. Just be as comfy as possible. Fall asleep to quiet music-trix

Q: I have just moved to Virgirnia from Oklahoma, and I want to buy a new car. However the registration of my old car is expired. I am wondering whether I can trade-in this car when I buy a new car. If I can not, how can I get rid of it?

You should talk to a car dealer about it-trix

Q: ok im 13/f and im goin out w/ a 12/m...yea i no its werid but im one of those ppl that says age doesnt matta lol. so we started goin out a couple of days ago but hes liked me for a long time. the only prob is when im around he doesnt treat me like his gf...i dont know wut to do cuz i really like him but i wanna be treated like his gf...not jus a friend.

First off that isnt wierd.. You guys arent really that far apart in ages. People who are 12 are pretty immature. Exspeacially boys they are pretty much immature until 14 or 15. Sad. I know. I would just talk thim but its probably going to go over his head. But if he likes you like you really said then he would change that-trix

Q: Ok this is weird but i want to get my ear pierced and my friend has a peircing gun. But my parental unit had a problem with it. But i am 17 i should be able to pierce my own ear. So the question is should i just go pierce it and come home to see what happens or not?

Yeah you seem old enough. If you are really close to being 18 then i would do it. If you are not that close to being 18 then i would listen to them for a lil bit longer. Cuz then you have a longer time to cover it up. I got my belly button pierced and im only 15 so i have to hide it for like 3 more years :) but its my belly button and not sceen very much not during the winter anyways. but yeah if you can keep it hidden then all the power to you!!-trix

Q: theres a guyat school name mitch. A lot of people hate him. But when you get to know him he is really nice. He asked me out. what should i say? I need help!!!!!!!

Well I would say yes. If i like someone i would say yes because i know my friends would stick by me every inch of the way!! Hopefully your friends do to!!-trix

Q: I have hair that is a little longer than shoulder length, layered, and stick straight. I would really like to do shiny mermaid waves in my hair---you know, those waves that are very un-frizzed and soft looking...does anyone know how to do these?

get a crimper

Q: wut can i do to b more relaxed the first time i have sex i mean i still get nervouse wen i do other stuff... but mostley scared my friend will try to get me to have sex with him i mean i wunt to cuz i no im ready im jus really scared its gunna hurt.. wut should i do

SHAiiNA

I havent had sex but just make sure he uses a condom. And if you dont want to at that moment then dont. Dont let him pressure you-trix

Q: iS MY COACH BAG REAL? or fake?

If it was pricey then it was. If its a big company then im sure its real-trix

Q: I'm a black female, and my hair stops right at the back of my neck. I just started wrapping my hair before I go to sleep, my hair also really thick if that helps any, but what I want to know is, does anyones have any other suggestions as to how to make my hair grow? By next year, I want it shoulder lenght or else, I'm just going to cut it short into a pixie cut and keep like that. Thanks!

I dont really know how to make it grow faster but i do know that if you dont cut dead ends then it'll start breaking off even more which it will be hard for it to grow. So just cut them off and make sure you use healthy shampoo n conditioner!! Also you could get exstentions.. but that could be pricey!!-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"