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ok im 13/f and im goin out w/ a 12/m...yea i no its werid but im one of those ppl that says age doesnt matta lol. so we started goin out a couple of days ago but hes liked me for a long time. the only prob is when im around he doesnt treat me like his gf...i dont know wut to do cuz i really like him but i wanna be treated like his gf...not jus a friend.
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The first thing you need to do is discover your shift key, it makes the begining of your sentances and the word "I" capial.
Secondly - He's a feaking twelve year old, he probably doesn't have a whole lot of experiance with dating yet, so you'll have to teach him what you want out of a boyfriend.
I was nervous and awkard around girls until halfway through Highschool, and sometimes I still make mistakes dealing with ladies. But I learn from each and every woman I spend time with, and DEVELOP the skills it takes to be a good boyfriend.
Don't be afraid to take the initiative, if you want to hold hands in public, take his hand in yours. If you want to start kissing, kiss him. He'll catch on and once he gets used to it, and isn't as nervous about it, he'll begin to act more like what you expect a boyfriend to act like... New boyfriends are like new puppies... they need to be trained.
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talk to him about it. tell him that you want to accually be treated like his girlfriend.
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Well first off, i just want to say that i dont think its weird that hes younger then you because im 13/f and my boyfriends 14 so yeah..but anyway..
just be more up front and make some of the moves, maybe he'll realize what your trying to say, and if he doesnt then you should talk to him about it, but if your afraid to do that, get one of his friends to tell him that, or get one of your friends to tell him..
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just talk to him be like " if you want to be friends just tell me because thats what its lookin like and i really like you i just want to know."
tell me what happens
luv Britt
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since hes tounger he may feel weird about making the first move or whatever. he might think your older and more experienced and thinks you should call the shots in the relationship. He obviouslyu likes you so just talk to him about it.
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First off that isnt wierd.. You guys arent really that far apart in ages. People who are 12 are pretty immature. Exspeacially boys they are pretty much immature until 14 or 15. Sad. I know. I would just talk thim but its probably going to go over his head. But if he likes you like you really said then he would change that-trix
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I think hes shy. Guys can be reeally shy at that age. All it will take is some warming up for him. Do you guys hang out? When your hanging out alone..like watching a movie at your house, a the movies, wherever..make the first move. Set a romantic type of setting, you know? Im not saying strip for him lol..just simple things like holding his hand to start with. Maybe a kiss on the cheeek..then the lips..and hopefully he'll join in the fun and make the first move next time. Trust me, when you get to be my age..you wont find shyness to be a problem anymore lol. Dont feel bad about age..your right it doesnt matter...My friend who is 15 is going out with an 8th grader..so he must be like 13.
Hope i helped
-melissa
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Talk to him about it ask him since you guys are dating you wanted to be treated like his gf. And since hes your friend it should be easyer. and right on about the age thing :D. <3 American Girl
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hey u can all ways just give him so helpful hints and if that doesnt work have one of your mutual friends tell him that if they didnt know any better they would think you 2 werent going out and to have him work on it a lil and if he doesnt change let him go but still be friends with him because no girl deserves to be treated like a friend when they are a girlfriend instead
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talk to him about it!!
Christine
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i see, well i do have to say he is 12 and he probley hasn't had much girlfriend experience you need to like tell a boy in your grade to talk to him or someone who has had experience and i know how you feel but if you want to feel more like him girlfriend then you need to act as if he was treating you right so he knoes what to do. Well i still say ask someone who has had experince talk to him. It could even be your closest girl friend and she could have a talk to him just someone with experience. If you have another question then my screen name is VolcomChikita360 please IM me on that or you can ask me another question and my user name for advice is xXSunSweetie17Xx
rate my advice well (if you think it will work);)
((~*~caroLine~*~))
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The problem is he is a 12 year old boy. You can't expect a relationship from a child. You are going to have to wait a few years before you can expect a meaningful relationship with someone.
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I say talk to him...if u really like him and you wanna be his girlfriend then tell him. You prolly dont wanna be treated like that i know i sure wouldn't! So just talk to him! hope i help ya! luv Addie*
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You should talk to him bout it cause then he will know that you wanna be treated liek a gf not a friend.
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Girl, I am 13/f, too and I have never went out with anyone younger than me....guys that are younger are way too immature. Thats why I like guys that are about 15 cuz they know how to do EVERYTHING to me.......if you know what I mean. Come on now, you cant be going out with someone who is 12, they don't the first thing about how to handle a girl!!!!!!!
$$$Babii D$$$
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you gotta confront him about it. if he really wants to go out with you, he should act like it instead of being inconsiderate.
**_Nicole_**
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