ok so me and my bf have been fighting a lot lately... nothing major but still i dont like the fact that we fight .. do you have any suggestions for me to help us resolve all this ???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XxKaTiExLeIgHxX answered Thursday January 6 2005, 2:50 pm: Tell him that you dont like fighting with him. have a conversation with him about it. and in a relationship you both gotta give a little. but if you feel your giving too much and hes not giving at all then maybe its time to break it off. Try to talk to him about it and see why you are fighting and if you both still got the sparks goin on. If he doesnt seem to care, then it might be time to break it off. Sorry. Good luck with it. Hope it turns out ok.
CheRRiiEz_2005 answered Thursday January 6 2005, 12:23 pm: me and my ex b.f were the same way and i jus took it bcuz i luvedd him so much now that i look back i wish i would have... try to resolve w.e da fites r about.. and if dat dont wurk jus tell him that u dont think that yins can have a good relationship with all this fighting goin on.. hope i helped..
<3 SHAiiNA [ CheRRiiEz_2005's advice column | Ask CheRRiiEz_2005 A Question ]
xoxbellabebexox answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 5:20 pm: tell him how you feel most guys cant see it when you through hints so just be straight forward and tell him "i hate it when we fight it makes me worry that i might lose you."
tell me how it works out
Sweets3490 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 4:01 pm: If i were in your situation i would try to comfront him. Start with something sweet. Try not to make a big deal about when your talking about all the little fights that are going on. You dont want that to also become into a fight. Ask him what he thinks about the fights or not and if he feels the same way you do about fighting. [ Sweets3490's advice column | Ask Sweets3490 A Question ]
icequeen answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 4:01 pm: Fighting is always healthy for a relationship. Trying sorting out the issue at hand before resorting to name calling, or feeling sorry for yourself. Maybe he has insecurities that he can not deal with and transforms his feelings into negetive ideas. [ icequeen's advice column | Ask icequeen A Question ]
Fallenhere answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 3:59 pm: fighting is a thing that always occurs in deep relationships. to stop this you could try something to make him easier going like buying him a small present and telling him how much you truely love him. but remember everyone will always argue even best friends argue. [ Fallenhere's advice column | Ask Fallenhere A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 3:58 pm: I would just hang out and talk about it. Thats what i did with my bf nathan i just said hey .. im sick of fights i hate them and i dont want to fight i hate being mean and mad. im sorry. Just apologrize it sometimes helps and i hope everything works out for you and him!!-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
X0Xbrittanymariex0x answered Wednesday January 5 2005, 3:41 pm: Well just by saying that your fighting I really cant say much because the details or lack there of... but dont worry I assume that you have been going out for a while and that you want to stay together. Ask your self this; are you making a huge deal out of things like the little things that annoy you...? That could be one of the problems. all couples fights but only the good ones get back together! if you want to stay together just talk things out I am sure if you would be willing to sit down and talk to him he would understand
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