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Hey Hey! i am an average 14 year old girl. I decided to write a column because i just rellized everyone asked me for advice. They all said i gave good advice too. So ask your question and i will try to answer them within a day or 2.
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Ok I have a friend and I like him a lot. And when we hang out like he acts like he likes me. But then a few after we hung out I went to a track meet to watch him. And he knew I was there but he was like flirting with some one else. Now, I don't no if he did that because he wanted to make me jelous, or if he dosent like me or if he didnt know that I was there. But it hurt me and I havent talk to him since so its been like a week and a half and I dont knwo what do so please help me please !!! thanx
If i were you i would get your feelings out in the open with him. If you cant tell him face to face try it over the phone or over the internet. If you do it over the internet make sure he knows for a fact its you and not a friend playing a joke on him. He may like you back and is just afraid to admit it to you becuase he is afraid of your reaction. I was just in a situation like this. You will feel alot better when you tell the person you like them. Oh and if you to end up both liking each other and start to go out make sure that you guys promise each other no matter what happens you will always stay friends. That might be why else he might not bring up the topic because he doesn't want to ruin your friendship.
Hope that helps!
I'm 19/f and I live with my bf, his grandparents, and his aunt (who is 40 something I might add). I love his family so much, but sometimes they get on my nerves. His aunt can be down right nasty sometimes, and I don't know what to do about it! She threw a fit this morning because I left out the HOT dishes after making dinner last night and went to bed without putting them away. I'm very frequently left cleaning up after her (she cooks for other people, but never her own family) when she leaves "her" dishes in the sink for more than two weeks. She says she'll get to it, but two weeks??? I mean let's get real here. The grandparents are getting on in years, and I try to help out as much as possible. We all kinda share the grocery shopping, laundry, cooking and cleaning responsibilities, but there are no finite lines on who is responsible for what. I'm just frustrated and sorry I rambled. Any suggestions for dealing with the aunt would be appreciated.
JLH
you should tell the aunt how you are feeling and that you cant take on so many responsibilities at once. You have more in your life then cleaning up after everybody and doing everything for everybody. My friend has an aunt just like that. she will yell at you for no reason. i went with my friend to her aunts new years party and i got yelled at for not using my fork and not eating a cookie. That was the first time she had met me also so i was scared to tell her to lay off but it seems like you have known this aunt for a while and i think you would be able to get through to her.
i used to hang out wit a bunch of my friends. now one of those friends has told the other friends privatly how she misses hanging out with eachother, only she didnt mention my name. now i didnt hang out wit my bestfriend to see what would happen. now none of them are my friends anymore. what should i do?
I was just in that situation. im in girl scouts and we have little clicks. There was me and 4 other girls and we call ourselves the fab four and mascot (since one just joined the little click) and i got mad at Kelsey and then she told Ashlee and Ashlee told Katie and Katie told Tarynn but i told them all why i was mad at Kelsey and they all helped us figure out the problem. So you might just need to confront them and tell them how you feel. thats what i did when they all left me out and everything worked out fine.
well last year (6th grade) i was asked out by one of my best guy friends and i said yes, but then the next day i told him that is was just to weird and i wanted to go back to being a bff, so that whole rest of the year i have not talk to him and the whole time of this year i have not been talking to him, i mean sometimes we talk on AIM, but its just so weird, and im not sure that i really want to be his friend again, one of my other guy friends told me that he still liked me... so i was really confused. so in all of my class that are with him, i get soooo shy, and i have not raised my hand once in that class and im not as social, i am always just soo hyper and entergetic and crazy around everyone else! i dont want to talk to him, but is there any advice on how to just be more in to the game, because i am getting really bad grades in that class because im to shy to raise my hand to ask about something that i dont get!so i need serious help and advice!
like everyone else is saying.....dont worry about it. he will get over you sooner or later. Just be yourself, Try your hardest in school, and dont be afraid to raise your hand if you dont understand something and if your to shy to raise your hand then maybe talk to the teacher after class if you dont understand. i was just in the same situation as you because i didn't want to embaress myself infront of my crush. So just be yourself!
hi,
one of my dreams has been to become a singer but my parents say that if i dont sing in like a talent show at my school then they wont sign me up for anything.. the talent show passed and i didnt try out because i had something else planned for the date that they made the talent show.. ok so ALL my friends tell me that im an amazing singer and stuff ( i dont want to sound concided ) but i dont think im terrible ! any ways.. how can i get my parents to let me go to auditions and signups and stuff.. what can i do to follow this dream ? .. thanks in advance- i rate! :-)
love, singingmyheartout
[ sorry about the length ]
I know exactly how you feel. im in somewhat of the same situation. i already tried voice lessons and the teacher quit so i had to stop. Tell your parents that you want this really bad and tell them why. If that fails then kick and scream with all your might (unless that will get you in trouble)
ok so me and my bf have been fighting a lot lately... nothing major but still i dont like the fact that we fight .. do you have any suggestions for me to help us resolve all this ???
If i were in your situation i would try to comfront him. Start with something sweet. Try not to make a big deal about when your talking about all the little fights that are going on. You dont want that to also become into a fight. Ask him what he thinks about the fights or not and if he feels the same way you do about fighting.