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i used to hang out wit a bunch of my friends. now one of those friends has told the other friends privatly how she misses hanging out with eachother, only she didnt mention my name. now i didnt hang out wit my bestfriend to see what would happen. now none of them are my friends anymore. what should i do?
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i dont get it were yall not friends from the start?
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I was just in that situation. im in girl scouts and we have little clicks. There was me and 4 other girls and we call ourselves the fab four and mascot (since one just joined the little click) and i got mad at Kelsey and then she told Ashlee and Ashlee told Katie and Katie told Tarynn but i told them all why i was mad at Kelsey and they all helped us figure out the problem. So you might just need to confront them and tell them how you feel. thats what i did when they all left me out and everything worked out fine.
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Maybe your friends dont realize that they have been leaving you out. Try talking to them about how they feel. If you try talking and you see that for some reason they truly are totally shutting you out..then find a new group! Start talking to new people in class..and sooner or later you'll start sitting at their lunch table and even making plans with them. Are you on any sports? Thats a great way to make new friends. Start talking to new team mates on the bus rides and become closer with them. If your not on a team, but you watch the games or something..mmention to them "o great job in your game the other day" whhich will lead to a new convo. Make every effort to talk to new people and i know pretty soon you'll wind up hangin out with them. Hopefully you wont have to find new friends..hopefully your friends just havent realized how they have been leaving you out. Good luck with everything and if it sstill doesnt work out..write to me!
-melissa-
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