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i dont know what to do..srry kinda long!!!
okay so i have this boyfriend, and i love him soooo much! he is my life pretty much. all i ever think about is him and he's everything i've ever needed and wanted! anyways, he used to tell me he loved me like all the time, now he seldom does. he says it's because everytime he told me, i'd say ok..i love you too.. but that i didn't believe him. so lately i've been telling him i love him, and he says i love you too. but i dont know there's something changed, we don't talk as much, he doesn't call me nearly as much as he used to, but we promised e/o that if we liked other people that'd we'd tell one another! oh and another thing is, we have a tendancy to argue a lot.. but when we don't argue it's like everythings perfect. so i dont know what the deal is. but ill rate 5's to anyone who can help!!
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Maybe he wants to randomly suprise you by saying "I love you" when you don't expect it. Also, what is his familylike, maybe they don't frequently say "I love you' so he's not used to it?
With the not talking, calling etc: it's not always going to be full on, you both have lives, maybe he feels comfy with you now? Perhaps you could set up a date day or afternoon when you do something special together?
Ask yourself if you want a fling or a long term thing...It won't be a bed of roses, but if it's a relationship worth pursuing, these issues will be solvable :)
good luck
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Hey, how long have u been goin out. maby he just knos that you love him so he doesnt say it as much. i say talk to him about it and ask him if why he doesnt say it as much as he used to.
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ive had this problem before, im a guy, he is begging to like someone else but he is to nervous to tell you, hes starting not to like you anymore, and u guys are changing and thats whats causing ur disagreements
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Tell him that you dont like how yall dont talk as much as before, and start calling him more. It doesnt matter who calls it just matters if your talking. For the reason why he doesnt say i love you as much- maybe he thought that since you where like "okay i love you too" like you didnt mean it, it made him think that you didnt really love him as he did you, so it gave him mixs feelings. girls and guys are different and where hard to know what where thinking lol. hope i helped
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well i think that he doesn't think that he needs to impress you or get your attention by calling you all the time and syaing ilove you as much, because he knows that you love him and that your realtionship is working out that you guys can be laid back in a sort of way.. idk if you get what i mean, you both really like eachother so i dont think saying ilove you and calling eachother as much is going to make anything better. try not to argue as much! i dont think theres anything behind this and i dont think he likes anyone else. x0 Renee
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