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soryy this is so long! ill rate 5's for anyone who gives me
well last year (6th grade) i was asked out by one of my best guy friends and i said yes, but then the next day i told him that is was just to weird and i wanted to go back to being a bff, so that whole rest of the year i have not talk to him and the whole time of this year i have not been talking to him, i mean sometimes we talk on AIM, but its just so weird, and im not sure that i really want to be his friend again, one of my other guy friends told me that he still liked me... so i was really confused. so in all of my class that are with him, i get soooo shy, and i have not raised my hand once in that class and im not as social, i am always just soo hyper and entergetic and crazy around everyone else! i dont want to talk to him, but is there any advice on how to just be more in to the game, because i am getting really bad grades in that class because im to shy to raise my hand to ask about something that i dont get!so i need serious help and advice!
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You gotta forget here's there. Just shut out all of your bad vibes or scardedness. Wen you tlka 2 him or hav contact you probably get all nervous rite? well then just tlak tlak tlak. evben more, Talk to him online so that if you ever tlka 2 ghim in person you wont be quite as nervouse. Tell him you like him as a freind and say that you herd he liekd you more. Then , just tell him no matter ehat you JUSt want to be freinds nothing more. Tell him youve missed bein frends- but nothin more. Be relly straightforwards and mabe he'll finnally get it. Hang out wiht your other frneds before and after the calass, so that once your up and tlkain alot and in da good move, at least you wont feel so shut down by da class. NO matter how much you dont feel like it you haveto raise your hand, even if you don't want to. Write a huge reminder note in ur binder that says"raise hand! or ull get BAD grade" mabe that will remind you this is your grade that's being ruined because your too shy about a guy you don't even like more then a freind. Also, study at home if your still having problems. YOu can read the notes you get, and try to make sense out of them, or even ask another freind fro help. GOOd luck!
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aww! sweetie i think every single person knows how you feel. hes intimidating. you dont want to make a fool of yourself infront of him. but look at it this way, if you stay not talking you are going to get bad grades and never make things up with him, but if you grow the courage youll learn more in that class and theres not doubt in my mind that he'll still think your awesome because thats the way you were before right? leave somthing in the Inbox it'd be fun to talk about it!!
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ok talk to him and say lets put this in the past and look at the furter and be friends again not nesicerally bff but really good friends and dont be shy round him be ur self and maby hell like u again
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like everyone else is saying.....dont worry about it. he will get over you sooner or later. Just be yourself, Try your hardest in school, and dont be afraid to raise your hand if you dont understand something and if your to shy to raise your hand then maybe talk to the teacher after class if you dont understand. i was just in the same situation as you because i didn't want to embaress myself infront of my crush. So just be yourself!
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he will eventually stop worrying about it and he will soon understand....don't worry about it it is your life and u want to be friends not b/f and g/f....just tell him on aim that u didn't mean to REALLY insult him just it got to wierd!
hope i helped!
helpinghandgrl
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Don't worry about it. He'll get over you soon enough (I don't want that to sound mean, but it's true). Don't suffer because you are afraid of what he thinks. Be your normal self and it will be ok. If he has any signs of wanting to go out with you again, then you just have to tell him that you aren't interested. Be yourself and do your best and everything will turn out ok. Don't suddenly change your personality because of him.
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