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my boyfriend wants to finger and i was wondering does it hurt ? do you bleed? and do u use two fingers or one? it seems like it would hurt if you used two ? and what should i do about "shaving" down there i don't want to get embarrased but eerytime i shave down there its all stubbly and it get rashy and i get razor bumps! HELP PLEASE!
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It shouldn't hurt. And it doesn't bleed, normally. Use lotion after you shave.
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No fingering does not hurt at all. You cant bleed unless he pops your cherry but he shouldn't if he doesnt go to far in. He can use as many fingers, 1 is normal so is 2, two would not hurt it just feels good and its kind of a shock at first but it feels good. and all fingers is called "FISTING" You should ask him if he wants you to shave. Trim with little sissors the longer hairs at first, then use shaving creame it shouldnt hurt or get stubble and rashy or razor bumps
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you should shave and by finger do you mean have s** or no cuz if you do you should shave the day you have it and it probley hursts.
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when you first get fingered, it might hurt a little because you'll be tight. he'll probably only be able to get one or two in. as time goes by, you stretch out down there and you can fit more.. it doesn't hurt if he does it right. and most guys don't like it hairy down there.. i'd shave down there. don't worry about razor bumps.. they're only there for a couple days.. good luck hope that helped =)
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Hey sweetheart! First and foremost make sure that you are totally okay with your boyfriend fingering you, don't let him pressure you into anything! Second of all yes it may hurt a little, but only because its your first time. But make sure he is aware of this and that he knows to be gentle and it may be more pleasuring then painful if done right! It is possible that some bleeding could occur, but in most cases this shouldn't happen. He could use one finger, two or more, but since its your first time its more likely he will start off with one and work up to two or more fingers as you feel comfortable. If at anytime you think its too much make sure to let him know to stop. As for shaving I reccomend doing it while in a bath and soaking yourself in some warm water for about 5-10 min before you start shaving. Use a clean razor and try going in a downward motion to prevent razor burn. I hope i could help you!
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Um i wouldnt pay attention to snowwalker. You dont bleed the first time. Not that i know of. And i have never heard of anyone bleeding. It doesnt matter the amount of fingers. When shaving down there just make sure you go with the hair.. not against.. Like when petting a cat or dog.. you would go with the hair otherwize the dog or cat would like freak lol-trix
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it dont hurt....most guys use 2 unless your "tight" u might bleed a little tiny bit your first time but some people dont....just shave right before you get ready to let him do it....
♥ bRyTt
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Well, it totally depends on how many fingers he puts in, and how tight you are. It could a little, but not as much as sex would. You bleed if your cherry hasn't popped yet. It doesn't really matter how many fingers he uses. He can use all of his fingers if he wanted to. You should probley discuss that, like, since it's your first time, say you want him to only use 1, and if you want, tell him 2 during or after he does it. When you shave there, soak in the bathtub for an hour of so, use a new, sharp razor, don't press too hard, and use a shaving cream with moisterizers or aloe. Also, put baby powder down there to prevent infections and the rashy look
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it is possible that it will hurt. yes it is possible you can bleed also. this will happen if he pops your cherry or scratches you. he can use as many fingers as he wants and as many as you are comfortable with. well shave right before he cmes over so it wont be all stubbly. when you shave be sure to use shaving gel and a new sharp razor. that will help prevent razor burn.
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