about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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ok so i have brown hair down to the middle of my back. i always wear it down and thats all. this year i wanna change the style of it, professionaly. any suggestions?

what you could do is get some highlights like a blonde and carmel color or even a darm red(like me) and get some side bangs and if you like you hear down what you can do is when you ge out of the shower and put some gel and mouse in you har and crimp it and leave it down. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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first of all i am sorry if this is long. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and i love him with all my heart. But recently i get a call out of nowhere from this guy that i had a huge crush on when we were younger (i moved away so thats why nothing ever happened between us). So he calls and asks if i wanna hang out with him one day... so i did. Ok i havent seen this kid for about 11 years but when we spent the day together i dont know what happened but i really started to like him again (and i know he likes me he always has). Him and my boyfriend are two completely different people i find that when im with both of them i myself am two different people but i kinda like who i am better with the other guy. So i did the smart thing and the next day i told my bf about my feelings for this other guy and of course he was heartbroken and we broke up... for about an hour... then we got back together. Only the thing is the only reason i took him back was cuz i saw how hurt he was and i felt bad for him. I do really still love him but i dont know if i really wanna continue this relationship but i don't want to hurt him anymore...How do i do it?

ok this might not be the best advice ever but it is worth a try. one way or another he is going to get heartbroken.. if you where in his place and he meet up wit a girl he used to like a lot and told you how he felt you would be heartbroken to.. you can just break it down to him and tell him you want to be single for a while and that you want your space..and this could be like a break for you to clear up your head and go out wit the other guy and see how you feel about him and then if that doesnt work out you could go back to the other guy who is your boyfriend right now... hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Me and my boyfriend (Greg)have been going out for almost 6 months.
Before I had no friends, and at the beginning of this year I started to hang out and become friends with his friends.
Then we started dating.
We are together almost all day every day,
because when I hang out with my friends, he is there too because they are his friends also.
I'm not saying I'm tired of this, I love being able to see my boyfriend all of the time. and I love him more than anything.
I can't help it if we have the same friends.
Is seeing my boyfriend every day unhealthy for the relationship?

it isnt unhealthy but you might just get not interasited in him faster.. i wish i could spend everyday with my boyfriend but i cant... hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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do guys only go for skinny girls or do they go for average girls too?

it all is up to the guy.. some guys do but others dont.. some guys like skinny bone girls with big boobs and others dont.. even though guys should go by personality but they also go by looks too.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay 2 yrs ago a boy moved to cali that i really liked and hes moving back!! i get to see him on wed. but i have changed and so has everything else so what do i do?

p.s i stil like him and iwant him to like me too!

13/f

first off be who you are. dont try being something your not.. be urself and if he likes you , you will know if he doesnt like you for who you r then it really isnt worth it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I just started having my period i've had like 4 or 5. this one month it didn't come.(that whole week i spent it at the beach)is it normal to skip periods when you first have them? please help and no smart ass stuff i'll give 5's!!

yes it is normal.. dont worry about it.. you will be missing your period for the next couple f years it wont be regular.... so it is normal.. hope this helps you out..

*~Stephanie~*

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Ok.....i think that black guys are sooooooo much hotter the white guys. i'm white. i would love to go out with a black guy cuz they are over all soooooooooo much better. but if i did my parents would kill me!!!! any advice? i give 5's!!!

OMG your just like me.. i am white and i would always choice a black guy over a white guy.. my boyfriend right now is black and i love him soooooo much but my parents dont know he is my boyfriend. they only think he is a friend and that si all they need to noe bc if i told them he was my boyfriend i would be died..lol.. so i think you shouldnt tell your parents about him and to keep it on th DL. hope this helps you out..

*~Stephanie~*

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Hey Everyone, Whats up?

You Know Jessica Simpson's new "Dessert line" Of beauty probucts? I was wondering, Can you Really eat them? Or Not? I read the back of a Bottle to see the ingredients and I really couldn't tell. Anyone Know?

(Are they worth the price?)


-SLeK-


(If it matters, I'll rate and leave feedback!)

yes you can eat it i tryed it and it taste really good. and i think they are worth it.. hope this helps you out..

*~Stephanie~*

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Hey. I was wondering, what is the best way to get highlights done...at a salon or at home using the highlighting kit. How long would it take if I were to get temporary highlights? How long would it last? How long would it take for the highlights to appear on my hair? I have like dark brown hair that looks black (I'm African American), and I was thinking of getting brown or light brown highlights. What do you guys think looks best?

P.S.: If I were to use the home highlighting kit, which is the best one?

ok i went and got mine professionally done 3 times and it is the best way. if you do it yourself and then mess it up you wont be able to fix it.. temproray hights will last about 3 months but i got mine perminent but one way or another your hair will grow out and the highlights will go away. yes you should get a light color and light brown would be best... i dont know about the rest of your questions sry. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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what are some good sites that you can get music codes off of??

i already know:
musicfeet.com
musicvideocodes.com

but i need some with the videos... but just the song works too... thanks!

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=numba1_music_source


that site has everything you will need. hope this helps you out..


*~Stephanie~*

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I know that to stop drinking soda is good if you want to lose weight. But is it okay to drink diet coke?

you can switch to diet if your like addicated to soda and it is supposed to help you btu it really doesnt.. i have been drinkin diet soda for like 3 years now and there nothin in it that will help you losse wait. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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people say running is a way to lose wieght but can i just walk instead? if not, why cant i?

running makes you burn more caloires faster... you can still walk but then you got to walk a lot more longer if you want to loose a lot of wieght. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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is jessica simpson a real blonde??

yes she is..

*~Stephanie~*

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i went on my first date with my boyfriend last night and he was kinda selfish...during the movie i took out my last ten dollars and he grabbed it and stuff...i thought he'd give it back but he spent it on himself! he bought popcorn..i didnt want any tho. then we went to the dollar store and he bought a whole bunch of stuff for himself with my money! he didnt ask me or anything. i dont want to talk to him about it cuz i dont know why..i guess im shy...he doesnt have aim or anything so i cant IM him...if you guys help me i will rate you a 5!! also if you have AIM, please IM me at SummerSunset48. thanks

i think you should break up wit him.. he is selfish and doesnt care about other people. you need a guy to be spendin all of his money on you not you spendin it on the guy.. hope this helps yopu out.

*~Stephanie~*

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Hey I know how to put music in the darkplayer and i know how to put the darkplayer on my xanga but does anybody knoe any really good xanga music sites?? With all the codes working because right now I'm having trouble finding codes that work
I RATE 5's

since i dont know what kind of music you like here is a link that has all kinds of music on it

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=numba1_music_source

hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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How do I make my ex-boyfriend jaulose so he would come back to me? or should I just want untill he comes to me what should I do help.

i dont think mking him jealous willmake him come back to you... if he loves you enjoy that he will come back to you. you just have to wait if he doesnt come then find yourself another guy. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm 13 and never been kissed all my friends have. and all my friends have boyfriends and i don't, is there something wrong with me. I think it might be because I take things slow with guys. please help!!!!!!!!!!!

first off there is NOTHIN wrong with taking things slow with guys. you dont want to rush into things and then you get pregnant and then u think to yourself "i shouldnt have taken things so fast" i am 14 and i have had a lot of boyfriend but i havent been kissed..you shouldnt worry about it when the time comes you will know it is the right time and guy to kiss. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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me and my girlfriend we are at a water park today an d we were kind of in the mood to be like naughty i guess you could say so like we didnt have sex, but i kinda slipped it in. we were in the pool. and like it barely went in, but should we really worry about her getting pregnant i mean like ive never had sex before so im kinda like ahhhh, i mean i know precum can get you pregnant please tell me if you think i should be worried or what we sould do

i dont think you should be worried it isnt like you put it in her for a long time and the sperm most likely died from the chorline so dont worry about it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm not sure if anyone elses graphics on their columns are back. Mine isn't. I had a lot of marquees and glitter text and it's STILL not there. Is this happening to EVERYONE? I have barely ANYTHING on my column except my glitter name, which I set as my pic! I am really confused on this! PLEASE HELP!

P.S. I rate

i had the samething happen to me i had music and a different kind of cursor and know it doesnt work anymore. i dont know why it doesnt work but maybe this website doesnt want us using soo many codes on it.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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does ny1 kno what that song is called it goes,like "you aint gotta say too much, i can tell by ur eyes that u wanna fuck" something like that,.whats it called? //THANKS!! ♥

it is called " look in your eyes" bye the 504 boys. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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