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Yesterday morning I woke up with red spots all over my body. I'm positive they aren't chicken pox, but I have no idea what it could be. I still have them on my body. They don't really itch unless I scratch them. I remembered, though, that earlier that week I got bitten by something (I don't know what) and now, the bite is even bigger. Could the bug bite be linked to all these spots? My mom bought me Benedryl, will that help?
there could be a lot of options for this, but since we aren't doctors, we probably won't know. i would suggest going to the doctor asap. Benedryl will help to relieve pain for now. it will probably make you a bit drowsy though. follow the box/bottle. definately go to your family doctor in the next few days. the bug bite could definately be linked to your spots, but since we don't know all the circumstances, it would be best to find out from a doctor.
-hope that helped!♥
ii`m soo nervous for hiigh school.
well, everyone usually is nervous the first day of school, especially highschool. just realize that you aren't the only person going through this. if you have friends in your school, or people you know, try talking to them to get yourself relax. really though, almost everyone feels the same way.
-hope that helped!♥
this is very wierd and stupid.. but when you put on a condom and then you have sex, do you hold onto the condom while its on the penis? or you just leave it alone? because i dont want the condom to get into my vagina..
i'm pretty sure you aren't suppose to do anything with it, because they can break. soo basically just leave it alone & try not to do much with it.
-hope that helped!♥
I think my boyfriend and one of my best friends may have feelings for each other. They've always been friendly with each other, but lately it's more than that. They're always really playful - joking/laughing together, and they've been quite touchy feely of late, too. The other day I watched them when they thought I wasn't looking, and she said something to him and he started laughing like it was the funniest thing ever and he kinda slapped/punched her on the shoulder. Then he pulled her woolen hat down over the back of her head for her....the whole time I watched she was fiddling/playing with his jacket, and she even touched his face a couple times.....
Am I totally over-reacting here? Maybe they're innocent? What do I do?
pff you are not totally overreacting. sit down & talk to your boyfriend first. explain this to him & how you're bothered by it. then, talk to her about it. you are right. they are acting too friendly & that's a bit weird. i don't think it seems too innocent. when you go to talk to him, don't be too mad/upset or it will just blow up. be calm at first & see what happens. if he says he has feelings for your friend, it would probably be a bad idea to be in a relationship with him.
-hope that helped!♥
you know when people say that when you first have sex, you usually pop your cherry? well if i were to have sex and the guy did pop my cherry, does that mean i bleed more when i get my period? becuase they say your hymen or cherry is like a tissure that blocks the vagina, so when i do have sex for the first time and it pops, doesnt that mean ill bleed more on my period? if anyone knows what i mean? and thanks
i think all cases are different. some girls don't bleed at all, some girls bleed a lot. i don't think this has too much of an affect on your period. basically what im saying is all girls are different & so are their affects. you could bleed more on your next period. i guess it just depends on your body.
-hope that helped!♥
16/m
Hi- I had sex with my boyfriend about 3 months ago without realizing he had HIV.. I asked him..and he lied and told me he didn't have it..
So- When I went for my yearly doctor check-up(last week).. my doctor wanted to give me an HIV test because I'm homosexual..
and it came out positive.. and I know its from my boyfriend because he's the only one i've had sex with.. ever..
So should I be mad at my boyfriend? or should I be mad at myself because I didn't know he had HIV...
Also- my doctor told me that my HIV is going to result in AIDS in about 5 years..
Please help!
-Jason
ignore the first answer that columnist wrote. some people are very immature. you should be upset with your bf. you did ask him & he lied to you. this isn't a small white lie. it's major that affects your health & his. aids/hiv is a serious problem & im sorry to hear that you're in this situation. yes, you could blame yourself about not being as careful, but he is your bf, you should've been able to trust him. sit down & talk to him. if he lied about a huge issue, you should probably re-evaluate your relationship with him. good luck.
-hope that helped!♥
I got put into algebra 1 and passed the test to stay in there. But honesty, I'm no good at math so I dont know how I got in there. I had Fs only because of low test scores. The quiz had so much on it and I kept forgetting everything.
So obviously, I'm retaking the class. But my teacher isn't helping at all.
She keeps giving us homework, we do it and in class, she goes over it. Row by row, somebody answers and if that somebody gets it wrong... they go up and do the problem. Nobody can hear what's being explained and I'm all confused.
There is no NOTES or warm up problems that we go over. I can't get out of my class because it will mess up my whole scedule and I need those classes at those times [or i dont get them at all].
She never stays after school and at lunch, her room is closed.
What can I do? Is there any websites about pre-algebra review and algebra 1 stuff?
If I fail my quiz, I'll be loaded with MORE homework and I'm already struggling enough.
i've had a teacher like this. it's not fun. im not good with math myself soo yeah. you can use www.sparknotes.com & search for what you're looking for. you should really try talking to your teacher about it. i know you said she's not there after school/lunch, but in the beginning/end of class try going up to her & tell her you're extremely lost & need help. if she doesn't fix it, go to your guidance counsler & explain the situation. you have to be open & honest about how you feel. you obviously can't go through the year failing.
-hope that helped!♥
Hi, Im new to this site, but i just really need some advice.
Its my first year in highschool, and I am beyond nervous. I suck at all sports, and next semester I have gym first period. What do we learn in gym in grade 9? Im so scared since I cant hit a volleyball over the net or do a cartwheel and can barely do pushups..
Also, i will be all sweaty, and my hair takes an hour to dry, so what will I do every morning?
Thank you so much.
don't worry. its just gym class & a lot of people feel the way you do. the teacher will explain his/her expectations for you. all gym teachers know that not every student is athletic. you are basically graded on effort the whole time you have gym class. if you're trying & giving effort, you'll get a good grade. if you don't pay attention & slack off, your grade will drop. they'll teach you everything they want you to know. you'll practice it & then they'll give you a test on skills & effort, but by that time you'll have the skills that they taught you. soo it really isn't a big deal. as for your hair, all girls [maybe even guys] go through this. just put it up if it gets gross from sweat.
-hope that helped!♥
I recently pre-ordered cd on itunes and it was released but i didnt get the songs added to my perchused list...what do i do?
i would send an email to ITUNES. you can do this by going on ITUNES & finding their contact information. they should send something to your email address anyway. look for that before you send it. also, you can try going to the FAQ section of the site & seeing if there's any questions like yours.
-hope that helped!♥
if i had sex about 2 weeks ago i wouldn't know if i was pregnant yet right? because ever since then i've had to go to the bathroom a lot and i don't think it's a blatter infection but i like hurt really bad and stuff and i think i have to go to the doctors but i couldn't possibly be pregnant could i? we used a condom
no one is a doctor here, so you should get this checked out. 2 weeks is a bit early. you wouldn't truly know unless you skip your period or get a pregnancy test. get a test first. if it's positive/negative whichever, go to the doctor asap. it shouldn't hurt when you use the bathroom. it could be a blatter infection though. it could also be a UTI.
-hope that helped!♥
i have had my period for serverals years now. but the past months it has come every two weeks. it lasts for a week. then two weeks later it is back. is this normal. and why would it do this.
everyones period is irregular at one point or another. most likely, it will not stay this way. your case isn't as average as some others. i have that when i exercise a lot, but it does not last for weeks. i would suggest going to a gyno. asap. yes, a gyno is a bit weird at first, but really, you don't want something to be wrong. a lot of girls go through this.
-hope that helped!♥
I really want silver flats. Does anyone know where i can get some that arent too expensive?? Please put website if you know any!! Thanks in advance!!!!
i have gold & brown steve madden flatts. extremely cute but hurt soo bad haha =) so anyways, before you buy them, make sure you walk around with them in the store a lot. i got mine at macys for like $70, but theyre steve maddens so they're more expensive. you can go to american eagle to get them for around $20-$30. here's a website-
www.ae.com
go there & at the top theres a section called shoes & then under the womens header it says 'flats'. you can google them too. also, they are probably at jc penneys and payless.
-hope that helped!♥
ok. i have verizon wireless. and the text plan where its 10$ andi get unlimited to verizons and 500 to others.
now my phone came with aol.
and my friends say that it counts as texts. but i have the text plan like i listed above. so is it free then?? or is it still that 10 cents? because when i first open it it says "sending too many ims? call up and get the text plan.."
so im not sure...
do any of you know???
thanks a tons
-Riss
i think you mean IM?? well, IMs aren't the same as texts for verizon. they cost 10 cents per message. if you have any other questions, you can call up verizon or check online at the FAQ section of the website.
-hope that helped!♥
What is the difference between the LG 5000 and the LG AX5000??
i googled both of these brands & let me tell ya, they looked exactly the same. i think the LG 5000 is the older version & the LG AX5000 has some new features, but it depends on the carrier. go to whoever your company is [verizon, cingular, tmobile, sprint, etc.] & you can find out the difference there.
-hope that helped!♥
So i just started taking birth control pills about a week ago. Is it normal To see Spots of blood , because i thought you get you period on the green middle pills? please help me =(
yes, im not on birth control myself [my friend is] & i think it is common to spot the first few times you take it. i would check with your gyno [or doctor you got the pills from] just be sure. also, you can google your pill brand & check out the side effects that go with that brand. if the spotting keeps up, definately go to a doctor.
-hope that helped!♥
13/f
Is it weird not to want sex? Other people have it before they are married, but I want it after. If even then. I always said I would adopt my children. How I see it children are like puppies. Puppies are sent to pounds because they were not able to be taken care of, or not wanted. (Same as children sent to adoption agencies.) And the reason puppies, and children, are not being adopted is because dogs, and women, keep having babies. Then when the puppies owners can't find good homes for them they are sent to the pound, which just keeps on growing. So why would we want children when there are several at adoption aggencies waiting for a good family to arrive and take them home? Plus there is all that pain, and blood. But because I don't want to do it are people gonna try to make me later on? Thanks in advance.
it's not weird of you to think that way. plus, you're 13. sex shouldn't be something everyone just goes out & does. it isn't meant for that. it is expressing love for each other, but i believe it should be done after marriage, but hey thats just my opinion. there's nothing wrong with adopting a child. it's basically the same as having one, because you still have to raise it. plus, you're helping the children you do adopt. your feelings may change once your older & get married though.
-hope that helped!♥
ok im 13/f and i really want to have sex and like its like i really need it. its weird cause i like get these erges to do it. is this normal for a 13 year old?
it's just hormones. since you're 13, you're just going through puberty. don't do anything stupid with it though. they'll pass & what not. just learn how to keep your mind off of it.
-hope that helped!♥
has anybody had the fudge'ems?
well i absolutely LOVE them and i was wondering what is the white stuff that they put on top of it? is that sugar?
i don't work at dominoes, but they're powdered sugar. i heard that they're pretty good.
-hope that helped!♥
ok i am a moderator
but i dont like being one
is there any way for me to quit being a moderator
without making my rating go down to 3.8 or getting banned or anything??
i don't think there's a way to undo the whole moderator thing. if you really don't want to, maybe send a message to DN. like the other columnist said, just don't use the features as a moderator. just answer questions normally without rating them. there's no consequences to this.
-hope that helped!♥
ugh i have like ripped jeans issues like i want them so bad but im too petite to fit into hollisters or ae's and all my jeans are like stretchy so if i cut it its not the right rips if you knwo what i mean so can someone like really describe and teach me how to rip my jeans and i dont mean like rips here and there i mean like holes. heres a picture of the kind i want
the 4 & 10 picture
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewPicture&friendID=13041124&MyToken=6d5428bc-cbe1-465f-8eaa-eff3ed856264
since the holes in those jeans are pretty big, i'd suggest using sand paper or a cheese grater. here's a few websites-
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Distressed-Jeans
OR
http://www.wikihow.com/Rip-Your-Own-Jeans
it'll be easier to follow those instructions & then fix them how you want to.
-hope that helped!♥