about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

LET ME HOLD YOU
And Introduce you to my world
And Introduce you to the better side of life that you aint been seeing girl
Ima show you where its at
And Ima show you how to get it
All you got do is be wit it and
LET ME HOLD YOU


Who sings this? is it a song? what is it called? thank you

OMG that is my favorite song it is called let me hold you by bow wow ft omarion. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i broke up wit my exgirl a couple months ago but i cant stand bein away from her i want her back i feel like i cant live wit out her wut should i do?

if you like her then try to make it work between you to. talk to her about it.. tell her how you feel.. ask her if she feels the same way and then go to a conclusion.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react..

first off do whatever you feel comfrontable with.. dont do anything that you might regreat and if he pressuring you to have sex with him then i dont think iti s a good idea to go out with him.. he might just be using you to have sex. if you dont want to have sex bc your not ready tell him striaght be like," if i go out wit you i wont have sex with you because i am not ready" ifhe doesnt respect that then he isnt worth your time. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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okay so i was raped and i told my cousin about it and hes the only person that knows this...well after i told him he seems sorta distant an stuff and like i dont kno what to do cuz hes my fave cousin but i dont want him to be like eww she got raped and stuff and then that makes me feel like shit too! so wat do i do?
i rate high!
plz answer i need it ASAP

as hard as it can be you should tell your parents.. you need to tell them!! this isnt a a thing you should keep away from them.. you need to tell them or a cop or somebody else DONT keep it a secert.. the person who rapped you can go and rape someone else and they can feel the way you feel right now.. tell someon.. hope this helps you out..

*~Stephanie~*

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how do you put photos on picturetrail or places like that without a digital camera. i took some pics on a disposable camera and i want to put them in a picture trail. help!

the only way to do that is if you have a scanner you scan the picture and upload it to picture trails. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ive been rated 35 times or more..but now it says that ive only been rated 21 times..?? i dont get it

that is because after 30 days it changes.hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey umm i have really liked this boy for awhile but he has a girlfriend. so should i tell him that i like him. or should i not so i dont ruin our friendship? or what should i do? plez help.

i dont think it is a good idea if you tell him right now since he has a girlfriend i think you should wait until they break up and then tell him so then you dont have to worry about his girlfriend and so much about your friendship because maybe he likes you in that kinda of way to.. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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I'm gonna start from the beginning. In the middle of may I started going out with guy 1, well call him ross, we went out for 2 weeks and them he went to jdc. A month later ross got out and btw i never dated anyone else and we didn't break up. and we stayed together for 1 and 1/2 weeks after ross got out and we were so cute together but I was moving and didn't want a long distance relationship so i broke up with ross and started going with guy 2 we'll call tom cause I was going to were tom lived for a week to see my bestfriend and after a week i broke up with tom to and them i got to my new house and started dating guy 3, i'll call him joey now me and joey have been dating for 5 days and i really like him but yesterday i got on the computer and ross had sent me 20 messages saying how he still loves me and wants to get back with me and i think i still have feelings for ross but I really like joey. So which one should I choose?

I'll rate 5's to anyone who answers!!!!!!
Signed: ~Crazylife~

P.S. they are both long distance.

first you shoul;d fallow your heart. if you dont want a long distance realtionship then dont go out with any off hthem.. even though distance shouldnt matter . you need to think which one you have more feeling for... which one you like more?? which one you can trust more bc of the distance and which one even wit the distance you can still see at least once a month.. hope this helps you out..

*~Stephanie~*

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is it possible to become pregnant in this situation:
a guy touches his.. thing, and gets that "pre-cum" or whatever on his hand/fingers. then he fingers a girl, a few minutes later, with the same hand as before.
please only answer if you actually know what you're talking about.

there is a possibilty but very low possibilty it all depends on how much he had on his figures and how long he had it on his hand be4 fingurin a girl.. hope this helps oy uout..

*~Stephanie~*

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what does the term mean "to pop a girls cherry when she has sex?

it means when you lose your viginity or that a piece of skin that is in the girls vigina has been ripped.. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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My boyfriend just came over and I gave him head and he cumed and a little later I lost my virginity to him but he didn't use a condom. I'm scared I could be pregnate. Is there any chance I could be?

yes there is a bigger chance of you gettin pregnant now then you would with a condom..

*~Stephanie~*

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listin, i need to make as much money as fast as i can plz help, im 13 so i cant work at a reastrunt or anything plz help!!!!!!!!! need money quick!!! i rate high!!!!!!!!!!

try baby sitting that is an essay way to get money fast or moein your law or nieghbors. doing chorse around the house and lettiong your parents give you an allownace. hope this helps you out..

*~Stephanie~*

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ok my boyfriend who lives in the same town as me went to florida for a month and i really miss him. the day before he left, he slept over and my house and we had so much fun and i didnt want him to go. but i really miss him. i cant call him because of long distance. what should i do? help.. i'll rate 5's for sure!!

a cheap and easy thing to do is get a phonecard and call him it is only 5 dollars and you can talk to him for like 5 hours.. if you cant do that then try to get your mind off of him.. go hang out with friends or do something that you havent done in a while.. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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I am 13 years old I kno young and well i like this guy and he likes me and he wants to ask me out and all but hes taking so long i hate to sound impatient but how do I try to give him the hint that i want to go out?
thanks!

if you cant wait then you ask him yourself nobody said a girl cant ask a guy out.. espacailly if you already noe the answer to it.. you dont have to wait any longer ask him urself.. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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okay i have a two-part question here, lol

1) wat a good hair straightener? as exact as you can get, please

2)how much does proactiv cost and how can i even get the stuff?

thanks so much :D

1) conair has really good striaghtens but the best striaghteners u can get is a striaghtener that is called the true ceramic pro..

2) the website is proactive.com and i just say it on the tv and the said that they will give it to for a month for 19.99 + shippin and handlin.. hope this helps you out..

*~Stephanie~*

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my boyfriends goin away for baseball tomorrow.. hes sleepin at his teammates house tonite.. and his teammates sister likes him alot n wants to get with him.. she wants him to go swimming with her tonight at their house.. theyre staying at the same hotel [ w/ a pool ] im gettin really jealous and worries.. he says hed never cheat and i believe him but temptation is hard to say no to for guys.. and he thinks shes 'hott'. should i be upset or get over it?

you could use this to test your boyfriend on how much he cares and loves you.. if he does anythin wit this girl then you noe he probably doesnt love you as much as you love him.. by this he can either gain more trust from you or lose your trust and you..you have ever right to be upset i would be to.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hullo

Just wondering, is it true that phones/cell phones can deepen the tone of your voice, especially a female one? Thanks.

yes it is true... when i talk to a guy on the phone and then go and talk to him in person they always say i sound different...lol.. hope this ehlps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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Hello again!!

I just wanted the ages of these artists....

1)Ashanti
2)50 cent
3)Cristina Aguilera
4)Lloyd Banks
5)Lil Romeo
If u don't know then don't just put something.Please tell the truth. Thanks. Brenda*

1) 25
2) 30
3) 25
4) 23
5) 16

those are the correct ages.. hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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Hey i wanted to know on this can you change your log on screen name thing..? and if so can i keep my advice column and keep all my answers and ratings..? ill rate high.. you might want to cut the instrutions down for me if you can cause ill get confused easily.. thanks in advance!

sry but you cant unless you pay for your account.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey how do you become a moderater ont his site? thanks for the help :D

http://www.advicenators.com/mod.php?mode=makeme

hope this helps you out.

*~Stephanie~*

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