Courtney answered Saturday August 6 2005, 9:58 pm: Tell her what you told us, and more. Tell her that you were an idiot and that you were WRONG. Girls love to hear this stuff and they really do. But don't act like you're trying too hard and look her directly in the eye. And don't tell her that you'll change your old ways . Let her mention it first and when she does don't deny or defend them . Never do that. Just acknowledge that you're messed up and that you'll do your best to try and change. Say this only twice. Unless she stresses it more and when the time is right you'll know. No stuttering and not a lot of ums and ahs. Be real . Be you and don't lie. We're very good when you guys are lying. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
ESMEDINzBABE answered Saturday August 6 2005, 9:13 pm: Ask her back out and see what happens if she still likes you she should say yes!! I think its cute how you say you cant live with out her just make sure she hasnt moved on to another guy tho!! Ok i hope i helped!! *~*MUAH*~* [ ESMEDINzBABE's advice column | Ask ESMEDINzBABE A Question ]
poetqueen answered Saturday August 6 2005, 8:38 pm: fight for her do whatever it takes if shes honestly moved on and doesnt want you anymore then dont let her completely shut you out try to atleast be her friend i know its not the same because my boyfriend and i recently went through basically the same thing about a week ago and all i had to do was make it clear that i had made a mistake and i still wanted and cared about him im not sure if this will work for you seeing as its a girl not a guy but you could give it a shot chances are she may miss you too but youll never know until you make it clear that you want her [ poetqueen's advice column | Ask poetqueen A Question ]
Michelley answered Saturday August 6 2005, 8:15 pm: if you broke up with her...she was probably really upset. so unless she has a boyfriend/you have a girlfriend...i would appologize and be like "i'm so sorry if i hurt you in any way" and also tell her how you feel..tell her you miss her and you would really like another chance. i mean, whats worse..her possibly rejecting you...or never telling her how you feel and wondering what she would have said back. she might still like you too and totally go out with you again. and girls like it when guys tell them their feelings...a lot of times we have to assume things and we hate that
=) HoPe I HeLpEd! [ Michelley's advice column | Ask Michelley A Question ]
vince_3387 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 7:48 pm: fuck her she probably doesnt evan care about you anymore you waited too long to care move on go meet other girls thats the only way to get through it. [ vince_3387's advice column | Ask vince_3387 A Question ]
lvnyouandhatinit answered Saturday August 6 2005, 6:39 pm: well that happened to me not to long ago and the best thing you can do is talk to her and tell her how you feel because if you don't then you will never know if she feels the same way about you and she just might. so talk to her and tell her how you feel and see how they work out and get back to me!
Teen_Guru answered Saturday August 6 2005, 6:34 pm: Well it is natural to go through this. It is called LOVE WITHDRAWS (LW). It sounds as if you are infatuated with the IDEA of having a girl friend. However there is no way of knowing if your situation is LW or not with what you have just told me, so I’ll give you the symptoms for it.
Ask yourself was this your first relationship? If yes you’re a prime candidate for LW.
How long were you in the relationship? The longer you were in a relationship, the more likely you would get LW, and the harder the break up.
Who Broke-up with whom? Did she break-up with you? or you with her? If you broke-up with her, then you’re most likely having second thoughts. If she broke-up with you you’re most likely having LW.
The Reason why you two broke-up with each other? If it was something serious than it is most likely regret. You must decide how serious it reason why is.
These should be enough for you tell if you have LW. but you must decide whether it is or is not.
Now getting back to the “I feel I can’t live with out her” part of your question. Don’t make me laugh! Love is strong, but not that strong (not counting Romeo and Juliet, that was fictionist not reality). Yes it sounds romantic, but total not true! If you’re truly have feeling for her, and she for you, then it will work out, if not the relationship will be disastrous.
I hope this helps you, sorry if I offended you, that was never my attention. Anyway best of luck, I hoped I helped you, let me know if I did.
Alpha345 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 6:06 pm: I've been before here dude. Trust me and just let her go. It's gonna suck yeah, but eventually your gonna move on and look back and realize "Wow I acted like an idiot back then when this happened...". Time heals everything and you need to move on and start looking for someone else. You can't dwell on the past, because in the end it will bring you down and destroy you. Look to the present and move on from the past, it's best.
VanityScore answered Saturday August 6 2005, 5:59 pm: You could either try and get over her, or try and get her back. I suggest the first one, because chances are she's not going to want the guy that broke her heart to mend it again.
There had to be a reason you broke up with her in the first place, am I right? She'll be haunted by that. But if you want to get her back and think your feelings are sincere, go for it.
SoInToYoUx0x answered Saturday August 6 2005, 5:41 pm: if you like her then try to make it work between you to. talk to her about it.. tell her how you feel.. ask her if she feels the same way and then go to a conclusion.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
margarita_luvs_ya answered Saturday August 6 2005, 5:40 pm: If you really like then try it out again but think...alot and take some time. Your probably just going through the after math. You'll get over it. But if in the end you decide to move on then do it slowly and don't do a rebound relationship real soon...Good Luck. [ margarita_luvs_ya's advice column | Ask margarita_luvs_ya A Question ]
Teza answered Saturday August 6 2005, 5:37 pm: Why did you break up with her? She might feel scared that you wont do it again. Talk to her and tell her how you feel about her and that you really miss her and you want her back. Say you regret breaking up with her and you dont know what you would do without her. See if the relationship would work out again. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
upcchick answered Saturday August 6 2005, 5:29 pm: Ask her if you could try the relationship out one more time! If it don't work it just wasn't ment to be
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