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I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks now, and things have been going pretty good. We dont go to the same school, but we do see each other almost every weekend. Well last weekend he asked me what i was doing because he wanted to do somthin saturday night. Well on Friday night i imed him and asked what he wanted to do, and he said that he couldnt do anything because he had to go to some wedding. I was kinda madd because i didnt know if he would have even told me about the wedding if i didnt ask him what he wanted to do. A couple of days pass and it seems like were getting more and more distant. Im goin to the movies soon with some friends and i want him to go so we can see each other. What all can i do so our relationship keeps going and doesnt just lose interest?!?!?! (link)
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well try doing sumthing just you and him maybe he wants to spend time with ytou not your friends
luv Britt
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my best friend and i have been like really close since freshmen year and now like everytime we want to do sumthing she always has to bring someone else along i mean sometimes i just want to hang with her like we used to because its no fun when the people she brings im not friends with and i end up getting ditched...i dont like it what should i do?????????? (link)
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before inviting your friend tell her you want to spend 1 on 1 time it should work.
luv Britt
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There is this guy i have liked for a while, but he thinks of me just as a best friend. When i see him do things with other girls i tend to get pretty jealous. He asks me for advice with girls he really likes sometimes, and that kind of hurts my feelings because i like him. I try to make that clear but he just doesn't seem to be getting it. We are both fourteen so i guess i'm not ready for something extremely serious, but i want to go out with him. what do i do? (link)
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do what feels right because if you dont then you will regret it
hope it works out
luv Britt
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Well my sister for the first time met my boyfriend and then when we were all talking (my sister, my boyfriend, and me) he touched my hand, *not a big deal right?* well to my sister it was so. . . that night my sister went on aim and told him not to touch my hand infront of her my sister is 28 and shes acting WAY over protective!! help please what do i say to her to not make her feel im making my self like "older" then her!!!!!! i'll rate high
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tell your sister that she has to realize that you will have more boyfriends and that she should trust you and that if she doesnt act like this you would come to her.
hope it works out
Luv Britt
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if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"
also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?
thanks a lot yall :) (link)
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is he the one you think you would give yourself to. because if he isnt than dont because if i were your friend i would think you were a whore. im srry i bet you didnt want to hear that but do it for the right reasons
hope it works out stay safe
Luv Britt
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Theres this guy at school.This will be an average story but anyways,He waits for me by my locker and he will hold my hand and flirt with me.He just makes me feel really special.We're not going out but sometimes i feel like we are.We've known eachother since we were 5.We are now teenagers.Can someone tell me if he might like me??im a female.
Signed,
Crushed (link)
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crushed,
he defintaly likes you so if you want to go out with him dont just put it out there. realize you have been friends for a long time so either your friends or more realize you might not want to waste a great friendship. you can always be friends with benifits but that is probley what you dont want.
hope it works out
luv Britt
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Whats up everybody! I smoke weed and love it. But i want to quit. They say weed is not addicting, but if it isnt, then how come i can not quit? I love it so much. But know it will get me nowhere. So how can i quit? Or should i not quit? (link)
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find a new addiction like gum that always works. and get the kind that whitens your teeth. so that way your coming over your addcition and whitening your teeth all at the same time. because you probley need it.
luv Britt
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well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do
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totally go out with him,
i had the same problem. and i he was so hot!!!!
well i thought to myself "where do my friends choose my love life. so i went out with him. just show convidence and dont give in.
write back to me and tell me if it worked out!!!
luv Britt
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This is really long, but I need help! Last year I befriended three girls in my class. They became my really good friends, but one of them was my best friend. One of the other girls isn't very nice to me this year, since her and my best friend used to be best friends. I think that she's jealous. So my best friend and I haven't been hanging around the other two that much just because they're not very nice to us and some other incidents have happened. We've started to hang out with another group. They seemed really mean last year, but this one girl left and now they're all nice. So all of us are really good friends and we all get along great. We've all become closer through church, sports, and school, so I see them all the time. She my best friend and I just leave our two 'ex' best friends alone? They seem to be happy, but I do feel sort of bad. I'd rather hang out with my newer friends though. Help!! (link)
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well if i were you.i would try to hangout with both friends. and if they have issues sit them down and talk. and your true friends will stay true to you.
hope it works out
Luv Britt
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ok well im 13/m and i have feelings for my friend. The problem is that she has been going out with her boyfriend for a long time (year and like a month) andso i've been trying to be there for her and be her friend but now her and her bf are going through some rough times and she doesn't think he likes her anymore. I want to make a move but think that might be taking advantage of her and her situation. Should i go for it? Is it taking advantage of her current situatuion? (link)
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if i were you i wouldnt want my guy friend coming onto me. and you denfinitly dont want to use her because if she finds out that you used her during a hard time of hers, she will NEVER forgive you. so just stay there for her and she should notice that what she has infront of her is way better than what she has now.
hope it works out.
Luv Britt
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i get horrible cramps right before and during my period. what can i do to make them not hurt so much. i have had to stay home from school like every 2 months when it comes. (link)
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well try a heating pad stay away from caffine and drink alot of water that always helps and stay active.
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I'm not sure but I may be a victim of emotional abuse. I've been with my guy since high school, more the half of a decade ago, and we have a child together. Now he doesn't call me names and put me down to my face, though he's come close before, but it's like whenever he's in a bad mood he takes it out on me, he blames EVERYTHING on me that comes to his mind. It makes me feel really low. I think he does it to make himself feel better but then I feel like total crap and I hang my head down and sigh for like hours. Sometimes I get so sick to my stomach over it. It's just this vicious cycle that keeps on going. He acts nice again and I love that person that he is when he is nice so I forget everything and am able to relax again for a little while. But when he changes faces again I'm like, "Oh why do I put myself through this, here we go again." I feel like such trash for putting up with it. I just love him so much, and I know he loves me but wonder if there's a part of him that hates me because he has to blame so much on me. And if I say anything when he is angry, ANYTHING, it makes him angrier and he doesn't listen to anything I have to say. His father treated his mother like this and I think he's following in his footsteps. I don't want my son to think this is how a man is supposed to treat a woman. So I'm just wondering if this is considered emotional abuse. Thanks. (link)
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yes,
if he is giving you emotinal pain is how i would put it yes and your son should not have a role model like this guy. go to couples therpy that should help.
hope this realasionship works
Luv Britt
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Ok i moved 2 months ago into an apt so I can build a house. But my dad is getting on my last nerves. Hes really my step dad. I even asked my mom to let me find my real dad and let me move with him. I am sooo sick and tired. I am gonna run away if it dont stop. Plus he makes fun of all my poor friends. I hate him. I have a friend whos mom isnt the best and he just talks and talks terrible. I am really skinnby and when I eat alot he will yell the name of my fat friends. Hes a hippocrite!!!!. I am so so so tired of him!!
what do I do?????????
please help1 I will give you a 5. Please I am desprate in need! (link)
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ok you have to talk to him he has no right to talk about your friends like that especially if it is not there fault whether it is wieght or money issues. i would defitly confront.
hope he gets the point
Luv Britt
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Okay. My friend told me something not to tell anyone. I accidentally told someone though, like it slipped out. She won't talk to me and she told me to tell the person I was kidding and I was just wondering, so I did and now shes like "you're crazy, you're insane" crap like that and it's really annoying but I don't know how to deal with it, because we were really good friends, and I would think she would have been more mature about something like that. Anyway, my question is what should i do about it, there is no way she is gonna let me have my say and tell her what happened and she won't even talk to me. How should I handle this? (link)
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there is nthin you can do really you kept a promise and broke it so all you can do is apoligize. srry i know you didnt want to hear that.
hope it works out
Luv Britt
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I have this guy friend that i have liked more than a friend for a while. I thought he kept dropping hints such as putting his hand around my waist, talking to me alot and gointo the movies. But when I asked him to go to homecoming with me he said i dont know. he still talks to me in the hall after that but it took a while. Should I keep flirting with him or just leave us as good friends?
~*Confused*~ (link)
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maybe hes scared just bring it up and if it doesnt go how you want it to well you can be friends but what ever you do confront him about the mixed signals he is sending you
luv Britt
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My boyfriend and i have been goin out for about 11 months and between the first day until maybe th 6th month mark he was the sweetest guy in the world he sang me the dumb cute little love songs and he'd lay on the couch and like wrap his arms around me and say the sweetest things and lately i ask him if he's lost intrest and hes like no baby i love you but i just dont get it, how he doesn do or say the sweet things any more. whats going on?? (link)
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maybe he feels your not showing affection talk to him
hope you stay togeather sound like a match made in heaven
Luv Britt
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School play try outs are coming up and as you probably know i have such bad stage fright itz not even funny. Well, i have been taking voice lessons and i am good enough for the main roll (dorothy) but if i don't get over my stage fright i know i will blow my try out. How can i get over it? (link)
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ok i have the same problem everytime i get on the stage to dance i feel as if i miss one move its all my falut and i ruin the whole show but as i come to realize when you smile and show confidence it goes a long way and if you feel confident to make the lead you have nuthin to lose
hope you make it
Luv Britt
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Ok so I have this bf. Here's a sophomore and I'm a freshman. Some days he treats me good by talkin to me, holding my hand, walking me to class, and all that cute stuff that gurls like guyz to do. Then other days hes a total dick. Sometimes he wont even say hi to me and if i do get the chance to talk to him he juss walks away cuz he doesnt like to hang out with my freshman friends. I've learned how to blow it off but it still pisses me off. A couple weeks ago one of my closest friends said she saw him totally flirting with my worst enemy. I confronted him bout it and he totally denied it. I really want to beleive that hes telling me the truth but alot of people have told me that hes always all over other gurls. The people that tell me this are some of my closest friends and I know that they wuld never lie to me. All of my friends say that I should break up with him because he doesnt treat me good and I'm starting to beleive them. I still kinda have feelings for him but I'm not shure if I still wanna be with him. Plz help!!! (link)
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ask your self is it worth to be cheated on you will most likely say no so if i were you i would break up srry i know you dont want to hear this but it is the truth.
hope it works out
luv Britt
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ok.i have this friend and there was a party one weekend.of course,I partied it up. But there were guys that i did stuff with. I didnt tell anyone BUT my friend. I requested that she not tell anyone about it.Then she told me the guys and 1 of my friends hated me because of a cake fight.I later found out that none of them said that. I got mad at her so she decided to tell EVERYONE about me night. When I first confronted her,she denied it. But when I asked her again she took the blame.She told me she did it because i was mad at her.I dont think I should forgive her.Can anyone help me?
Signed,
Angry Friend (link)
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angry friend,
realze that you told your friend. but she had no right to go sayin that have a long talk with her and tell her that when you get mad at her you dont go sayin stuff about her to show that you are a true friend this should make her confess to you and it will help listen to what she has to say give her a chance to explain and listen
hope you stay friends i dont know what i would do without mine.
luv Britt
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my family is very religious. so when they found out that i had sex with my ex boyfriend a while back they went crazy. i promised that i wouldnt do it again, but now that i am seeing someone else it's getting harder and harder to say no. i'm only 17, i know thats young, but should i wait until i am married for my family? or should i just give in for myself? (link)
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honestly i havent had it yet. but think to yourself is this the one i can spend the rest of my life with and dont just do it for pleasure because you dont know if they have STD's or sumthing take everything into consideration.
hope it helps stay safe!!!!
luv Britt
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