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friend/party
ok.i have this friend and there was a party one weekend.of course,I partied it up. But there were guys that i did stuff with. I didnt tell anyone BUT my friend. I requested that she not tell anyone about it.Then she told me the guys and 1 of my friends hated me because of a cake fight.I later found out that none of them said that. I got mad at her so she decided to tell EVERYONE about me night. When I first confronted her,she denied it. But when I asked her again she took the blame.She told me she did it because i was mad at her.I dont think I should forgive her.Can anyone help me?
Signed,
Angry Friend
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You should forgive her, but maybe not trust her with your secrets anymore. Let her know that what she did was not ok and if she does it again then you can no longer be friends with her. Also, tell her that she was being immature and it needs to stop. Atleast give her another chance to redeem herself. If she doesn't, then that is her fault and you can move on and find a better friend.
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angry friend,
realze that you told your friend. but she had no right to go sayin that have a long talk with her and tell her that when you get mad at her you dont go sayin stuff about her to show that you are a true friend this should make her confess to you and it will help listen to what she has to say give her a chance to explain and listen
hope you stay friends i dont know what i would do without mine.
luv Britt
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No! I wouldn't forgive her. I mean my friends when they say they won't tell anyone no matter if we aren't friends or we are madd at each other they wouldn't say anything! She's no affense but she's a bitch. I would not forgive her. Just reading that made me madd (lol). But yeah that's just my opinion I wouldn't forgive her. It's really up to you. Hope I Helped! Good Luck! :) If you need more advice just ask me.
Shann
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I know you're very angry and I honestly have no clue if your into a religion or not, but in the bible it say to forgive each person 70 times 7. 490 times. The best you can do for your friend and yourself is pray. God rwally answers prayers. I've seen so many miracles. Just one this very day as well. So pray. Pray for your loves ones, and for your enemies even harder because they are the ones who are probably the most hurt.
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Try talking to her about it. But I don't think you should forgive her. Friends don't tell their friend's secrets. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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Maybe you shouldnt forgive her. Friends dont tell the deepest secrets wheter their mad at you or not. If you do become friends with her it may take a while to gain her trust again
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It's ok to be mad at people, especially friends that betray you. If she/he is your best friend, you should forgive you, and maybe ask her if she can tell everyone that she lied about what she said about you, and she just said it because she mad that you were mad at her. I hopes i helped you out.
thankz
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That is so messed up that she would do that..even if you were mad at her she had no right to go and tell your secret to everyone. But maybe this will teach u a lesson to be careful at parties. I think that maybe you should forgive her but still tell her why you are mad and make her promise to not do it again. If she can't do this then shes not a true friend that can keep secrets. Just dont tell her any secrets again. Try to forgive and forget
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