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I have this guy friend that i have liked more than a friend for a while. I thought he kept dropping hints such as putting his hand around my waist, talking to me alot and gointo the movies. But when I asked him to go to homecoming with me he said i dont know. he still talks to me in the hall after that but it took a while. Should I keep flirting with him or just leave us as good friends?
~*Confused*~
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maybe hes scared just bring it up and if it doesnt go how you want it to well you can be friends but what ever you do confront him about the mixed signals he is sending you
luv Britt
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He probably just wants to stay friends, because he might be afraid that you'll lose your great friendship, but that's normal. I would ask him again, but make sure you tell him that you're going just as friends. And you never know, with the right dress, maybe he'll like you and ask you out! (wouldn't that be great? lol) Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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Well, i think you should just ask him if he likes you. My friend that is a boy told me once that girls should just tell guys there feelings, not just flirt and keep it a secret, it may be embarrassing to ask him, but just do it. Tell him first that you ahevnever asked anyone this before, so please do not discourage me from asking another boy this, or something like that so he won't hurt your feelings, if he does he's a real jerk then, but if he is nice to you he's a true friend, or more than a friend, maybe;) I hoped i helped you.
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Guys are confusing like that lol, but if you want him, keep flirting! Maybe he's just shy and was shocked that you asked him nd he didn't know what to say. But ig your out there and you want him keep flirting, if you just wanna be friends then just keep it the way it is. Also try to talk to him to see how he feels about you. ((~*JULiA*~))
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Guys are so confusing like that all of them. I know exactly what your going through, it's hard not to i must admit especially if you really like them it's hard to just give up but it does hurt i don't really know what else to tell you besides that it will go away with time and when you find the right guy for you.
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you could do both. i know that doesnt answer your questions but do some of both sometimes flirt and sometimes just friends then it well send mixed signals
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well maybe he likes you and maybe he doesn't want to admit it to you well if you to have been friends for two years that would kind of be weird you should just be good friends not boyfriend and girlfriend. sunshine
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Maybe this just really shocked him and he didnt know what to think. He might just wanna be "friends with benefits". I would stop flirting for a little while and see how things go! ;) ~Steph~
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Ya' just gotta' confront him about it. Tell him he got you confused by sending those mixed signals. Be like, "Okay...To be honest..I kind of have a thing for you, especially since you kept flirting with me like that. That's why I asked you to homecoming. What's going on? Because if you don't have a thing for me, don't flirt." I think that's the best way to deal with guys in that kind of situation. So overall I say don't flirt until you talk to him and find out what his deal is, but definitely talk to him. Don't just leave it like that, because it'll leave you wondering what was going on in his head.
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I hate when guys do this!!! Well gurls do it bak tho! lol! I think you shouldnt give up on flirting with him cuz if you like him why not give it a chance. He probly said I dont kno to you out homecoming cuz maybe he wasnt comfortable with you yet. Keep getting to know him and if he doesnt ask you out soon enuff then maybe you should move on and stay good freinds with him. Having guy friends is always a major plus! There's never any drama and their always fun to kick it with. Maybe he is JUST guy friend material.
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i think he may be unsure what to think of you, keep flirting with him but give him some time, and if he doesnt ask you out then that probably means he doesnt like you.
good luck
~stef~
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