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overprotective
Well my sister for the first time met my boyfriend and then when we were all talking (my sister, my boyfriend, and me) he touched my hand, *not a big deal right?* well to my sister it was so. . . that night my sister went on aim and told him not to touch my hand infront of her my sister is 28 and shes acting WAY over protective!! help please what do i say to her to not make her feel im making my self like "older" then her!!!!!! i'll rate high
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Tell her how you feel and like that ur not a baby anymore u have a life
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Tell her that you think she shouldn't be too overprotective. Say that you really love how she cares for you, but you do have your own life and maybe she shouldn't be so centered on it. Hope I helped!
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Just talk to her about how she's being way overprotective. It's not really her fault. She's means well, it's just because she loves you, so it's not entirely a bad thing. But just explain (nicely) how you feel, and she'll understand. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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calmly sit her down and tell her,"i know you care bout me, but you need to loosen your chain a little. I'm getting older, and i would never do anything stupid you know that." explain if she doesnt loosen up, you won't be able to trust her or tell her stuff anymore becaus you feel she won't understand
lotz o' luv,
PinkLady4863
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You should tell her in a calm way not to be overprotective. I mean she is your older sister and she will look out for you, but tell her to loosen up a bit. Show her that you and your boyfriend can be trusted together. Maybe this will help...
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-touching your hand- are you sure there was nothing more she sounds like she is freaking out i mean it really all depends on what kind of person he is and if he made a good impression on your sister... also it matters how old you are. talk to her about it and tell her it bothers you... thats all i can say -Katie
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Tell her that you can make your own decisions
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Well first of all your sister is not your mom and second of all sisters aren't importent at that age. Your old enough to take care of yourself and own relationships!
Happy Holidays!
Abby
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tell your sister that she has to realize that you will have more boyfriends and that she should trust you and that if she doesnt act like this you would come to her.
hope it works out
Luv Britt
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First of all, how old are you?? That might play a part in her being so protective of you. My sister was sometimes over protective of me. But i told her that she didnt need to be and that I can make my own decisions about who I want to date and that its not her business to tell me, or the guy I would be with, what to do. Its your life, not hers. Tell her that you appreciate her being protective of you but she doesnt need to be and that she needs to respect your relationship with this guy. Just tell her how you feel. Hope I helped! Blessed be. ~Candy
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