about

hi, im marissa, and im HXC, and im a hippie, and im opinionated, and im fucking crazy. and i have gone through alot of shit in my life, so i have answers to some problems from personal expirence. im almost 16, but i want out of my house. im in a relationship, and its been going on for over a year. he means the world to me. i love my life, and i cherish it. but i do live on the edge, and i like to go fast. i know breaking laws is bad, but its like an addiction to me. i am the treasurer of my schools gay straight aliance, and i get alot of shit for it. but it dosent affect me. i havee alot of friends. and im with them 24'7. and i would not have it any other way. im always faced with tough decisions and fears... long story. but im a pretty interesting person.

advice

the dance is coming up in one week, and i dont have anyone to go with!!!
i need advice on how to get a date quick!!

ask one of your friends.

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are girls supposed to buy guy anything for valintines day?

hi! personaly i always get my valentine some kind of little gift. and like it really depends on the relationship. but most girls tht i know get boys a gift. but yeah i would get him one. hope i helped.

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What is the difference between anal and oral sex??

Anal is up the but. oral is like head, fingering, eating out, hangjob. yeah lol. hope i helped

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I am really bored.People tell me to get a life.How do I do that.Please tell me how I should get a life,get rid of my boredom,meet new people and make new friends. Any answers are appreciated

hey. hmmm this is kinda hard to answer. but i will try. try and find a hobby, maybe go out for a sports team, or maybe take like a class, like a art class. i would deff look around like some arts stores, cause you can find like ANYTHING there. if you have a lot of pictures, try scrapbookin. lol hope i helped.

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okay so this one guy i went out with broke up with me. now hes giving me weird looks whenever i see him in the hallway. do you have any idea what that means??? oh and all my friends think he still likes me by the way he talks about me cause our cliques like connect and when i asked him he said as a friend...i kinda think he still likes me too...waht do you think??

hey! it deff sounds like he likes you as more then a friend. he probably is giving you those looks because he misses you, or your making him jealous. i would like try and hang out with him, and maybe like talk to him about it. but keep your gaurd up. maybe hang out with him with like other people there also. hope i helped. and good luck.

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my name is Jay i'm 13/m/north carolina. I extremely like this girl and when i finally ask her out, she rejects me. SHe was the girl of my dreams!! That was about 2 weeks ago but i still like her. What should i do?

aww tht sucks, but i would just try and get over her, and try and show her what she is missing. like maybe talking to her, like try and create a friendship. hope i helped. :]

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okay well theres this one guy i went out with..and we broke up after christmad break. i thought i was over him but then i saw him out of school with his friends. it was really hard being in the same room with him. then a couple days later i had to stay after school for show choir after that i went to go wait for my mom and he was sitting there. (not in my car) but i asked politley to sit down and he said yes. when i was sitting there i started to tear up and once he left i started to accually cry. ever since then i have been crying non stop.what should i do?? i thought i was over him.

then we started texting and he invited me over to his house to talk it out and i really dont want to go and see his family again cause they didnt like me and it would be hard for me. should i go???

then today on the bus his one friend kept annoying me and telling me he know waht we did. i told my ex all my sectrets and everything and i thought i could trust him. i want to be friends with him still but i cant trust him and its really hard for me...

HELP!

hey. wow tht sucks. like i would deff. talk to him. and hang out with him. like work things out. he sounds like hes not trying to do anything bad, so i would deff. try and work things out. and like though it might be hard like going over to his house, i think you should go. i mean your going have to face stuff in your life like tht so iwould go. and see how tht goes. like though you cant trust him, iwould still try to hang out with him, but like make sure his/your parents are home. or like have like a group of people go when hang out. mkay hope i helped

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does anyone have any tips on " moving on " or possibly " winning your bf back" ahha thanks

hi! moving on i would just like try out other guys, and like just aviod them. winning your boyfriend back though, i would talk to them, make them jelous, or prove them they were wrong for dumpin you. or just like stuff like tht.

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I'm really bored.I like to try new things and start fun projects like combining archietecture,photoghraphy and sculpture into a single art work.I just want to have fun.Please could you think of something fun for me to do.Any suggestions are appreciated.

hmm i would try to make like art like drawings then take pictures and then like photo edit. lol its fun, i think. but like maybe take like a photography class or art class. and i would deff. check out like your nearest like arts and craft store. but when i think about it, i would try scarp booking. lol hope i helped

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If people say making out is not something that should be done in public, where is a good place to do it?

I'm still young, and I don't think my mother would like it if I went up to my bedroom with my boyfriend and just closed the door. =/

help?

hey. im not a big fan of PDA, nor is alot of people. like movies or anywhere dark. outside when no one is looking. me and my boyfriend, just where ever we are, we just go behind something thts like not facing the road. like personally ive been walked in on alot, no biggie, like my mom cares, but she cant stop me. but i wouldent be like to worried about my mom walking in on us if i were you. but like my best friend and his gf got walked in on while he was fingerin her over the weekend.

but anyways if your worried about your mom, try his house. but i hope i helped. bye

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There's this guy in a couple of my classes, we talk and stuff. He's one of the "popular" kids, but everyone makes fun of him for being ugly. He is kinda..... But, I don't really care. I don't like him like that I don't think but I still want to flirt with him and stuff. I don't know why, I just have an urge to even though he's not attractive. Any advice?

hey. who carees if hes ugly. your young, live life. life is about taking risks. talk to him more. try a friend ship, maybe more. but who cares what people think about him, that dosent mean you cant flirt with him. hope i helped

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this guy is really bothering mee. he always IMs me and says really nasty and perverted things to me. i tried blocking him, but he got my other screename and got mad at me for blocking him. i don't want to be really mean, but it's gross and he tells me he like wants to have sex with me and stuff. then, when i don't respond on IM (i usually don't really say anything) he messages me on myspace and stufff. i don't know what to do. how do i like show him i'm not interested? i already tried blocking him and not really talking to him but he doesn't stop.. it's been going on since the summer.

uhm thats kinda serious. like if your in school, like middle, high, or even college, and hes in the same school. you could tell guidence, he would get in a shit load of trouble. or even tell the cops, just say its really creeping you out. or if you dont want to take it that serious, just be like "f.ck you, i dont like you"

if hes saying shit like that to you since summer, he has had enough time for you to be nice, be mean about it.

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Why are so many teenagers these days (particularly girls) obsessed with losing weight while they are like 100 lb?? Seriously, a girl who is like 12, 5 feet and 2 inches, and then complains she is overweight is actually underweight!

I don't get why girls want to get to be like 75 lb. Does anybody agree with me here?

i agree with you 120%, because i kinda was oone of those girls. i was anorexic, and still kinda, not really am, i know what its like to want to be sooo much lighter.

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I am 13 years old. I am in grade 8 and life is getting somplicated. Almost all my friends are guys and now the most popular girl in school say I flirt a lot with all the guys. She spread a nickname for me called "Boy Toy" and now I cant talk to a guy without anyone making a big deal about it. One of my most trustworthy friends is a guy and ill admit I kind of like him now but its just too weird. But now shes got even my best friend believing I flirt with him all the time and hes starting to avoid me some more. What I mean is usually when we see eachother he gives me a giant smile and stuff and stops and talks to me. Now he like looks away. I dont know what to do. Its not like im a huge flirt (I think) Ive never even truely gone out with a guy. What should I do?

hey i went through the same problem in 8th grade. but it was only with one guy. and my nick name was the "boyfriend stealer," and i lost alot of friends because of that, but did i care, no. dont worry about what other people think. if they are trying soooo hard to make your life hell, then they are wasteing there time. think about it this way, they could be trying to make there life better, but no. they are thinking and spreading rumors about you. dosent that mean your pretty damn important to them? my best friends mom told me that. but i would just ignore them. but personally, i fight fire with fire... i would make there life miserable lol. =] hope i helped

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15/f

so i just found out the love of my life is goin away for 6 months. we were together for a month then we broke up but we still acted like we were together u know kissing and everything. he told me today that he was goin away. he wants to have sex and so do i but do you think this is rite?? so you think im gonna git my heart broken? all my friends think so but thats just because they dont know him. by the way im a virgin so this will be my first time. PLEASE HELP!!!!

honestly i owuld not do it. only a month. if i was going loose my virginity i would wait untill at least 5 months. virginity is a bubble, once its gone, its gone for good. if he loves you and if you love him, you guys can wait 6 months.

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i recently asked a question about what to do about a girl named B asking my boyfriend out .. well now one of her friends is saying that my boyfriend and B hookedup .. i dont know what to do .. if anyone has any idea just please write back and i will give u my screenname and i will send u the message the girl sent me PLEASS PLEASE!!

hey. if there are even rumors about him doing that i would talk to him. but dont always ttrust what boys say... i learned that the hard way. try and gossip from people about. ask around. or even ask B. but if its true dump his sorry ass. you can do better then a cheater. and if they really dident, sorry for saying that lol.
hope i helped

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Ok, everyone at my school is saying bipolar and i have no clue what it is! Can some one tell me? Cuz lyk is it a problem or something? Tell me plz. Thankz!

its a inbalence in the brain. my mom has it. and sometimes its really hard to deal with. cause one second she will be happy. the next she will be like godzilla.

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13/F

Okay, my boyfriend and I haven't even been going out for a WEEK, and he's already kind of hinting that he wants to have sex with me. I know I shouldn't, and I won't give in, being as that I am Catholic and have religious morals. But, I was with him yesterday and he had an erection. It kind of freaked me out, because we weren't even kissing or anything, and I really don't think I'm ready to have the same type of relationship he wants. And also, yesterday, he showed me condoms he had bought, and that pretty much just took me over the edge. He told me if I really wanted him to just stop everything, he would, and I do believe him, but when I'm trying to tell him no, my shy-side won't let me say anything. Is there any way I can simply tell him no and I want to wait for things like this until I'm older?

ew. but he sounds like a ass. i have had some really horney bfs and none of them wanted sex after a week. i think there something the matter with him.. like in his head or something. maybe a teen sex addict. lol. but i would break up with him. you have to over come your shyness.

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I have been dating a guy for almost 6 months now and as october 25 2006 I had known him a year. I have dated many guys but none I have felt the way I feel about him! He is amazing and i cant seem to get enough of him. Our relationship is pretty much everything I wanted in a rrelationship, could he be the one?

thats soo cute! he could be. but theres no real way to tell. just lett fate take the wheel.

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well see my issue is that i lost my virginity in the WORST way possible, and now that ive had sex i dont want to stop.. all i think about is sex and everything that comes out of my mouth is sex, and i know this sounds horrible but its not as bad as it seems but i have had sex with about 4 people and i have not gone out with either of them..even the person i lost my virginity to.. is that bad?? sometimes i feel like a whore and some girls call me a slut what should i do?

hey. dont listen to them. so what if you have had sex... they are probably jealous. and if there calling you a slut, dont listen to them, there bitches. and if there calling you they must be thinking about you alot. and they could be doing soemthing to help themselfs in a way, but no there calling you a slut, then you must be pretty important to them. if i were you just dont listen to any of them.

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