|
whore
well see my issue is that i lost my virginity in the WORST way possible, and now that ive had sex i dont want to stop.. all i think about is sex and everything that comes out of my mouth is sex, and i know this sounds horrible but its not as bad as it seems but i have had sex with about 4 people and i have not gone out with either of them..even the person i lost my virginity to.. is that bad?? sometimes i feel like a whore and some girls call me a slut what should i do?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
It's okay to love sex (I mean why wouldn't you love it!) but don't go around saying I slept with 4 guys for the hell of it. Only tell your closest friends (That's what I do) about your feelings. I mean how old are you? If your under 16 then your off on the wrong track. Between 16-18 is the right time to have sex, you know what you want and you know your feelings. :D
]
Just keep it to yourself. No one else has to know. Try having a relationship before you have sex, it's more enjoyable, and there's a guy there whenever you need/want it. Make sure you're safe though.
]
i havent lost my virginity. but when i first made out thats alll i ever wanted to do makeout with every guy that was hot..so i did. but i wasnt very open to people that i went around doing this for the first two months. dont enounce that u do this to everyone
]
Personally, I suggest that you either find one person to have sex with, or, just stop it all completely. If you have to have sex, then I would suggest my first way, if not, choose my second way! Good luck!
]
mmmk; heres what i think you should do... find a booty buddy or somthng && keep it under wraps. DONT TELL ANYBODY because you never know who maybe leaking your business. make it someone you trust or eventually will trust.. i def dont thnk theres alot wrong with liking to have sex, just try to find a real good one && keep him. Alot of people may also call yuo a hoe slut etc but some of them are just jealous because no one wants to fuck them. lol =]
♥ gerilynn
]
first of all in my opinion, you aren't a whore. some may call you that, yes. and then others may not. being a whore by what i know is when you have sex with a bunch of guys, and then don't think twice about it. you've obviously pondered this a lot. meaning you don't like the fact you've had sex with multiple people.
if you don't want to have sex, don't. if you do, then whatever. just be sure to use protection. don't worry about what everyone else says, because it's not their future that in the hands of every guy you fuck; it's in yours.
]
I went through a promiscuous period in my life. I won't post the number of guys here, but it is pretty high for a period of about 2 1/2 years. It was mainly a self image problem. It also was a reaction to a mood disorder. Sex felt good when nothing else seemed to.
It sounds like you may be in a similar situation. You are not happy with your sexual habits, but can't seem to stop them. I don't know how you lost your virginity, but have the same guess as others who have answered you. That would certainly be a cause for your behavior.
What I recommend is a counselor or therapist to help you work through the issues causing your desire for sex and your unhappiness with that desire.
If, however, you are not as unhappy with it as you seem (you are enjoying yourself), and you are aware of the possible consequences (pregnancy and stds) and taking measures to prevent them (birth control and condoms), then ignore everyone else.
]
Okay first of all, do NOT listen to those other people who answered your question. You are not a slut. You are now promiscuous. I'd like to know how it is you lost your virginity, one can only guess you were raped. Sometimes when a girl is raped, one would think the last thing she'd wanna do is have sex. However. Sometimes the victim develops a kind of self image, a detiorated perception of themselves, like they are damaged goods, so they go that much farther to get people to like them. Now you want to have guys like you and be attracted to you and want you. That's your own choice, but seriously.. SERIOUSLY, you WILL get pregnant. You WILL get an STD. IF you keep doing this. You may not care now, but you sure will when it happens. 4 people at your age, is not good. I don't know how old you are but you don't sound that old. Anyway, I hope this helped even a little.
]
hey. dont listen to them. so what if you have had sex... they are probably jealous. and if there calling you a slut, dont listen to them, there bitches. and if there calling you they must be thinking about you alot. and they could be doing soemthing to help themselfs in a way, but no there calling you a slut, then you must be pretty important to them. if i were you just dont listen to any of them.
]
First let me apolagize for GodMachine. He is a fucking idiot. Anyways, you're not off to a good start. It's important to develop at least some kind of a relationship with someone, and if you just have sex with people you may end up pregnant, or worse with and STD. Just try and get close to someone before you have sex with them for once and if you just keep doing that this habit of yours will stop.
]
If you are not happy with your own sexual behavior it's on you to stop what you are doing.
You seem to be unhappy, you seem to think that the situation you've found yourself in is a very bad one, so now you need to take charge of it and change what is happening.
We can only be victims of our circumstance for so long, and then we have to take responsibility for it. Yeah, it's hard to break habits and it's really tough to change the way we think. But it is doable, and there are no real tricks to it. Just keep yourself busy and avoid situations where something you don't want to have happen might happen.
If you aren’t happy with yourself, change.
]
Well, you are a slut, sorry to tell you. You should really calm the fuck down, because you're on a path to STD's and pregnancy. So I mean, if you wanna get sick and have a baby before you graduate high school, go for it, but people will still look at you as a slut and you will only be popular to football players.
]
i hate to be rude, although these sort of are characteristics of being a slut. maybe you should lay loose on having sex. i know it feels good, and at the time, its hard to say no. but you will feel so much better if you just stop having sex.
there is a thing called secondary virginity & you should really look into it, if you are worried about all this.
but admit it, if there was a girl in your school who had sex with 4 guys who weren't her boyfriends, you would call them a slut too.
i promise i am not trying to be mean at all, but i am just stating the truth.
good luck to you.
]
More Questions: |