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does anyone know where i can get eyeshadow like Brenda Song in Wendy Wu [like the purple eyeshadow] or something like it? thank yoU! =]

yea MAC has the best makeup && alot of colors to choose from.

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hey :] i was wondering.. if you have a myspace layout that doesn't have the option of a top friends, how do you get a top 12 or 8? if anyone could answer me this question i'd GREATLY appreciate it;) thanks!!

whats wrong with yours is that your layout probably hides your friend list so if you sent me your layout code in my inbox i would def try to fix it for you but there are no promisises =]


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Ok well i started my period when i was 12 years old. I am now 14 years old and i'm a 32 A. On both sides of my family all the woman are atleast C's. Am i ever going to get bigger because im so self concious about my small boobs. It's like there barely there it makes me feel like a little boy. Everything else is fine it just my boobs are really small and coming from a family full of big breasted woman it makes me wonder. When do you think they will get bigger? Is there an age in mind? Because on most sites it says your breast delevopment is normally done at age 15 and i just cant see to much progress happening in the next 3 months.

your boobcs def grow longer than 15 bcuz i`m 15 && mines are still growing, so i thnk you have time.



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I'm 18 and a chick, my best friend is 17 and male. I'm not in love with him or anything, nor do I have a crush on him. But there's a sort of awkward thing going on.

There are some days that he just REALLY turns me on. He doesn't even have to try. I mean, not even exaggerating, he can smile at me and I'll be horny for like 10 minutes. And I'm pretty much screwed if he dances. I'm NOT interested in him romantically at all, it's just, some days... hot damn. And seriously, it's just maybe 9 days out of the month (I see him almost every day) And its not just a little tingling, I get a girl version of blue balls, basically.

What do I do to:
(a)control my crazy hormones
(b)convince him to bring our relationship to the "friends with benefits" stage, or
(c)something else.

yea you should see if y`all can be friends with benefits.



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My boyfriend and I are both virgins. we are in love and ready to have sex. We tried to have sex last night but the problem was he just couldn't get his penis inside of me. I guess I was just too tight. is there anything i can do to make it easier for him to put it in? and is this abnormal? what position is best for sex the first time and would be easiest for him to get it inside of me?

basically oyu should let him finger you alot to loosen you up && then try you on top.


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Hey! Well, I'm 14/f, like 118 lbs, 5'6, and am like a 34 or 36 A. I know that I fit into the clothes at Abercrombie & Fitch, American Eagle, Aeropostale, and Hollister, but I'm not sure if I fit into the clothes at abercrombie. So with the given information, can my size fit into clothes at abercrombie kids because I really like their clothes. Thanks! :)

mayeb a large or an xtra large..


♥ gerilynn

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If I wear an extra small in regular Abercrombie and Fitch, what size would I wear for af kids?

16/F

either a medium or a large.


♥ gerilynn

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I'm on the shorter/smaller side (5'0" and I have a 26" waist) and I'm not getting any taller (I'm taller than my mom). My style tends to be on the more "preppy" side. Anyone have any suggestions on where (or what brands) to buy jeans without having to get them altered? I have quite a few Buckle jeans already. I'm not a big fan of skinny jeans, but I'm open to ANY ideas/suggestions.

16/F
Thanks:)

def get thm from abercrombie =] best jeans on earth... but you can cut them at the bottom or slit the sides.


♥ gerilynn

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Does anyone know where to get cute purses from? I'm looking in the $30-$60 range, preferably; but I'm open to suggestions.

Thanks=)

where do you live?

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18/F

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. I really want to lose my virginity to him. He is not a virgin but obviously I am.

I've talked to him about it and he says its my decision and he will stand behind which ever I make. (Wait or Not Wait)

Half of me wants to do something, then the other half is just like worried. I know I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with this man.

What do you guys thimk I should do?

Also, I heard you bleed a lot when you lose it. He has a rather large penis. So will I bleed heavy like on my period? Or just a little? And if I put my pants on afterwards, will I bleed threw my pants?

Thanks.

the desicion should really be all yours. i cant really tell yuo what to do; but if you are feeling that this is life lasting go ahead..


i think the bleeding thing varies. i dont thnk it matters how big it is either, as long as it can break it, i dont thnk it matters. i would put on a pantiliner or somthng. and i dont thnk you will bleed heavy on your period.


♥ gerilyyn

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well see my issue is that i lost my virginity in the WORST way possible, and now that ive had sex i dont want to stop.. all i think about is sex and everything that comes out of my mouth is sex, and i know this sounds horrible but its not as bad as it seems but i have had sex with about 4 people and i have not gone out with either of them..even the person i lost my virginity to.. is that bad?? sometimes i feel like a whore and some girls call me a slut what should i do?

mmmk; heres what i think you should do... find a booty buddy or somthng && keep it under wraps. DONT TELL ANYBODY because you never know who maybe leaking your business. make it someone you trust or eventually will trust.. i def dont thnk theres alot wrong with liking to have sex, just try to find a real good one && keep him. Alot of people may also call yuo a hoe slut etc but some of them are just jealous because no one wants to fuck them. lol =]


♥ gerilynn

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I know this isn't the right catagory but its the only one I could think of.
So anyway im a 14/f,
I masturbate every now and then, and I've looked at porn once or twice. Well my question is that if I get turned on by girls who doing sexual things with eachother does that make me a lesbian or bi or something? I have crushes on guys and I have a boyfriend and I've never had feelings for a girl, but I get turned on by girls doing stuff like that. Is this normal? Thank you so much for the help!

yeaa, maybe you are bi. you should experiment with a girl && i really dont thnk your boyfriend would mind lol.


♥ gerilynn

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heres the thing..my bf nd i have been going out for about 9 months and we love each other like crazy!we spent a lottt of time together too..just recently a girl from his school has been showing some interest in him. hes been making new friends too..so friday night we decided to chill with our friends..he went to a football game..i went to the movies. i gues now hes saying he likes this new girl a little and after talking we decided we would have a somewhat open relationship for now. nothing major..he says he will jus hang out with her..maybe kiss her nothing more. we are both young..only 17..and we are serious about each other. i respect him for being honest and not going behind my back..he says nothing will get inbetween us..he sees us being together for a verrry long time..he loves me soo much and even says he can see us marrying each other. i think the whole flirt around and date for a lil bit is kinda good too..but of course its kinda odd. i gues im looking for feedback? what are your opinions and what would you do?thanks so much ..its much appreciated and i will give good feedback

mmk. well i def went through this sort of problem before, for me it wasnt that soemthing better came along. I just wanted to make sure the one i was with was the - ONE - becuz when you are in an open relationship both sides can mess around. It was hell for me becuz there was a point where he didnt talk to me for a month =\ soo jsut tell me what you are really concerened about && hopefully i can help =] and we are together now, almost 14 months STRONG.


♥ gerilynn

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ok so im 13/f and my friend (13/f) goes out with like every boy in the school and i know you like cant go out with your best friends ex but shes like getting them and dumping them. what can i do?

if oyur friend is a serial dater, most times she wont mind you going out with one of her exs. just ask her about them.. itll be easier that way!



♥ gerilynn

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Haye yawl, this is kindof stupid n all but like me and my boyfriend hav been goin out 4 like a year this thursday and i kindof need a cute gift idea. i really love him and i need it 2 b awsome. he iz a country redneck boy cauz we r frum ga.so if u have a good idear id luv 2 hear it.thanx yawl :)!!
luv caroHaley

does he like paintball? bcuz i know alot of southern boys do, so maybe a paintball gun if it isnt too expensive. SOMETHING camoflauge or a cute little gift that has to do with huntingg. i hope i helped.




♥ gerilynn

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