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best friend is a player
ok so im 13/f and my friend (13/f) goes out with like every boy in the school and i know you like cant go out with your best friends ex but shes like getting them and dumping them. what can i do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Date them anyway, this isn't monopoly!
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Talk to her about how you feel! I mean, how is it possible for her to dump a guy if she does it with EVERYONE in the school, and have you not date him?
Tell her about it.
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Sit her down 9where she cant show off) and talk to her. Tell her how you feel, and if she responds in a positive way, then HAPPY FREINDSHIP, if not then im sure that there are many of BFF's in the sea.
Lemme know how the advice goes.
Peace.
-Jan
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If your friend just goes out with the guy for like 2 days then just say i like the kid you went out with, and is it okay that i ask him out because your relationship with him was'nt a very good one.
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if oyur friend is a serial dater, most times she wont mind you going out with one of her exs. just ask her about them.. itll be easier that way!
♥ gerilynn
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While there are several rules to BFF's you will also find loopholes. One loophole in the rule your referring to (dont go out with your friends ex) you will notice it's not plural. The kind of ex they're talking about is someone who they really truly cared about. If llike you said she's just getting them and dumping them, they don't qualify as an 'ex'
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Let her be her and you be you. If you like the guy, then do as you wish.
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if yofur friend is being lke that and wont stop go ahead and date those boys! let me clearify that rule for you:
do not date your friends' ex IF SHE FELT STRONGLY ABOUT HIM (especially if he dumped her)
and your friend doesnt seem like she cares...
also u might want to ask her if its ok to date one of the boys she dated in case you really dont want to hurt her or something. if shes like what you said she probably wont care
hope i helped... tell me how it goes
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There really is nothing you can do except let her be her. If she wants to go out with every guy in the school, nobody can really stop her, but this is going to backfire on her big time. Because what's going to happen whenever she wants a real relationship? None of her ex's are probably going to want to go out with her again cause they know what'll happen probably, and also what is she going to do after she dates everyone in your school? Move on to another?
If you want, you can try and talk to her about it and let her know what could happen if she keeps on doing this, and you're not telling her she needs to STOP or anything, but maybe just to slow down on dating all the guys.
And you can to go out with your best friend's ex if you want to ; you just have to get her "blessing" first to be sure she's okay with it, and why wouldn't she be? It sounds to me like she hasn't even dated some of these guys long enough to develop feelings for them, so why should she care? If she does just go to her and be like,"Well, who am I supposed to date then in school? You've dated almost all the guys."
I hope I helped.
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